Do you find romance and relationship posts annoying

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#1 maptheninja
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Well Ive got one and I apologize but a video game forum in my opinion always has the best tips and advice, but anyways when your trying to communicate with a girl, and your trying to get together with her is it truly a turnoff for most if you put too much effort into or not enough whats the right balance of niceness and what not?

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but a video game forum in my opinion always has the best tips and advicemaptheninja
maybe this is where you're going wrong my advice is to find out what she wants, then think about how she will react to whatever you do before you do it and if that is the reaction you are after
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#4 mindstorm
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I had a slight rage upon reading the OP. But as for my response toward said OP I am not the best person to emulate as I put forward no effort towards starting romantic relationships. I have not even bothered asking out anyone in over a year now.
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Well Ive got one and I apologize but a video game forum in my opinion always has the best tips and advice, but anyways when your trying to communicate with a girl, and your trying to get together with her is it truly a turnoff for most if you put too much effort into or not enough whats the right balance of niceness and what not?

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Well, to answer your question, no I don't find them annoying. I think I can offer good advice when I'm being serious. But if I find the situation ridiculous, then I'll offer ridiculous answers.But, your situation seems legit, and a lot of guys just don't know in this situtation.

Don't come on to strong. Girls will think you are clingy and needy if you are constantly putting to much effort into it. Just be cool about it, and don't rush things. Just continue life as is, and just keep in touch with her every so often. Idk, just show that your interested in her a little bit by flirting a tad bit. If she flirts back, then she may be interested in you too. After a while, if it appears that she is interested in you, ask her out to a date. Go somewhere and do something she likes to do. Maybe a movie and/or dinner or even a night out at the bar with a few of your friends and a few of her friends, if you guys like drinking. Idk, just something fun.

Bottom line is, keep a clear mind and play it cool.

Don't think with your d!ck.