Theirs never been a day in my life i haven't been judged by someone. So its normal for me.
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Theirs never been a day in my life i haven't been judged by someone. So its normal for me.
warownslife
Should be *there has*.
I shall now judge you as a quick, forum poster who makes the occasional typo....just to keep your streak alive. :D
But nah, it doesn't bother me.
Everybody gets judged for some stupid reason. So, you're not alone.
Just don't let it get to you. It makes the person feel better about themselves for judging somebody. I do it too and others also.
The worst I get is people saying I should lose weight. I don't think they 'judge me' based on it, only exhibit concern. I don't really get your meaning. I'll get some rare, argumentative people when I tell them I'm an atheist. Most of the time that boils down to explaining that science and atheism are not related, that science makes no claim to explain all answers, and that it's only observing and understanding the world/universe, not trying to overthrow theism. This generally erupts into a series of gibberish that claims something called Evolutionism is meant to explain that all things came from nothing, and that this is unscientific, therefore 'evolutionism' is not science. I usually just tell them that everything they just said has nothing to do with any modern scientific theories, and that this claim is ironically what creationism says. This angers them, and I giggle.
Mostly, I'm pretty rarely judged in a negative light, to my knowledge. And when I am, I'm hardly angry and far more willing to politely explain my lifestyle or stance prior to raging irrationally.
Being judged is usually a source of amusement. 90% of the time the person judging me is someone that I wouldn't want to like me anyway. Having them judge me just makes them more troll-able.
Case in point: I went to college in a really religious town. I once had a dorm room with 3 very, very Christian girls who had never left home before. I'm personally not anti-religious, but I don't really practice anything because I don't feel the need to. I never brought the subject up with them, but I'm sure they noticed I like to sleep in on Sunday. They started inviting me to religious organization stuff, which I was polite about turning down, but eventually started getting offended by how frequently they would pressure me to attend. Eventually I found a friend that was like me and started crashing at their place and only used my dorm room as a place to store my clothes and bathe.
Apparently they assumed that I was staying at a crackhead's house, because they sent me an article about a girl who was addicted to sex and drugs and instead of going to rehab, found Jesus and now her life is much more meaningful.
Towards the end of the year, I thought I'd have a little fun and have friends come over dressed like gang-bangers, or at least what country girls think gang-bangers look like, as well as leaving empty liquor bottle caps everywhere. They freaked. I was happy.
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