Do you have a girlfreind or are you still a virgin OT?

Wife.Family man here.

Well?

I'm a virgin and I don't have a girlfriend.

Ouch!

I had one in the past who was a tattoo artist. She left me, and now I am alone. She is running tattoogaze.

I divorced in 2019 and have since remarried. I upgraded from the cheerleader to the Goth Girl and Recommend that route for any red blooded man. Goth girls are the best.

What's a girlfriend?

Marry with 2 daughters and boy...I regret it. But that's life😒

They are used to make babies from mating. You should try it, you'll like it, I guarantee it😉

You are a blessed man , why you regret it MrD? Lots of couple will spend millions to have children but unable to conceive.

Divorced, single.

I'm remaining pure untill my wife pops my anus.

She will probably sacrifice you. :P

Live with my gf and we got one kid together.

How old are you?

lol, at the very least I know I will be sacrificed to some good music. Nothing worse than a ritual sacrifice done to the tune of Taylor Swift :-)

I'm 34. I have had girlfriends in the past, though.

So you just never had sex with them?

Were they like high school girlfriends? When I was in high school, I had girlfriends, but did not **** them.

@bcroger3: Yeah, pretty much. I didn't have sex with any of them. I had three girlfriends (not at the same time though. I'm a believer in monogamy). The first one broke up with me because she said that she couldn't handle a relationship at that time. The second one broke up with me because I didn't call her as much as she wanted. The third one broke up with me because the distance was killing her (it was a long distance relationship).

The third girl was the most committed. It was about 20 years ago, so yeah, it would've been in high school.

Thats understandable.

Good luck bro!

@bcroger3: Thank you, mate. 😀

@dracula_16: Sorry to ask, I don't want to turn this into an AMA about you, so feel free to not respond. But I'm curious, how does your mental health condition impact your relationships. Again, sorry if I'm intruding.

No worries, mate; you're not intruding. My mental health problems, which are depression and schizophrenia, prevent me from entering a relationship. I'm too sick to handle one. I'm perfectly willing to ask out a girl, but I'm too sick to have one. I'm not going to feel sorry for myself though. Life is more than just sex and dating. One can live a productive life whilst being single. Jesus and St. Paul did -- and they were content with that. There's no reason I can't live a godly, responsible life.

No girlfriend and yes I am a virgin.

I’m not a virgin but I’ve never had a girlfriend,and no I’m not gay,I’m straight. I’ve been to a lot of strip clubs a visited the red light district a number of times. I’ve gotten out of that negative lifestyle for about 9 years now,not looking back either.

Interesting. May I ask how old you are?

My 19th anniversary with my wife is in December. When we got married I was still using my Slyfox name (or something like that... I think yahoo suggested it to me a year or two prior and I just rolled with it for a while.. lol) I made in 2004. Stopped using that account because a lot was happening in my life and I was very busy and didn't log in for a while, so I forgot my login info.. lol.

Fast forward to 2007 and from there to here I've been using the nickname I got in the USMC, and I'm still with the same wonderful woman who I probably don't deserve, but gives me a reason to never settle with good enough in life.

Married with a 7 month old baby girl.

It's not easy but it's worth it.

Not going to lie though, miss having the free time

Single, virgin and never been on a date. Pretty sure I'm aromantic, because I can't really even imagine myself being in a relationship, even if the loner life sucks sometimes.

False. Your nick suggests you're 16. Thus you are forever 16 :P

Take it back :P

Strange question to be asking on a board full of dudes in their 30s and 40s...

I had a girlfriend up until recently, but we've been on a break in the last two months.

@bcroger3:

39 years old

It's a long story though I was diagnosed with social anxiety, depression as a teenager plus being born as a 2 pound baby with a disability that has me with poor motor skills and not understanding social cues. 2001, I was interested in a girl who was similar to me with being shy about the plus was she went to my church. We had gone out in church group activities like Spurs game, Hellhouse, and she even came to my house with her mom and younger brother. I remember she was in the next room and on a couch that we had and was eyeing me. I had passed by her going downstairs to my room. She eventually followed calling my name though went outside. Her mom thought me and her were in my room together in bed. Her mom heard the dogs barking and the girl came inside. Her mom told her something in Spanish and they eventually left. I asked her out after church and she was surprised. She gave me her number and told me, I would love to go out with you call me anytime. I had called her up like three times and always "I am busy with family". Eventually I told her in a firm voice if she was still interested in going out, she eventually broke down in tears saying yes. She then told me that she was seeing someone and was sorry. She had been going to a different church for like 6 months and had met an older guy and they started seeing one another. She was 3 years younger than me and fresh outta high school. I saw her when my dad had a stroke as her and her mom came to see my dad. Her mom had told my dad that her daughter was going to have a baby at 19 years old. The girl obviously looked embarrassed and the mom disappointed. My dad eventually got over the stroke and months later we had a gathering at our church. I saw the girl with her husband who was like 6 feet tall and looked rigid while she looked like she could pass to be his daughter. She saw me in the dinning room and gave me a sad look and waved at me. My mom and parent definitely made me feel worse by saying "Didn't you see how happy and beautiful Esther looked with her family". "That could have been you.' I really was going through mental issues during my 20's. I had to basically take care of my dad for like 6 months in the hospital visiting. Ever since then I basically have been helping my dad as his health has gotten worse. Though I have started attending a day center where I am slowly beginning to open up to people. I met a girl who started talking to me out of nowhere and she eventually became my friend. She tells me hi everyday and really friendly and happy. She even started calling me papi and even stares and me and blew kisses at me. I actually was surprised though the girl definitely is cute though speaks Spanish so I am actually learning Spanish as I only understand a little.

No girlfriend, last serious relationship was in 2017. Just feel done with relationships, which is weird, most of my relationships were pretty great. But I value my freedom and love some variety lol. Maybe I'll change my mind some day, but it seems unlikely.

I don't really go around hooking up alot anymore either. Typically just find a girl who's down with a FWB situation. Largely stay out of each others business, just enjoy each others company in and sometimes out of the bedroom. Sometimes these things just fizzle out. A lot of the time, the girl catches feelings and wants more, gets upset with me for not wanting the same. Sucks. But then I've had others that were on and off for years, sometimes still see women from places I lived previously.

Currently been seeing the same FWB for about three months and it's been pretty great. Seems her previous experiences were on the boring side, so she's always excited to try new things. Always a great time in the bedroom. Added bonus, no stress, she's 100% respectful of boundaries, we're both on the same page.

@sargentd: Congrats to you! I have three nieces and I love them to bits!

I was very late in to the party when it came to having sex. A result of a very difficult and traumatizing teenage years.

I find it very disturbing how socially acceptable it has become to mock people for being unwilling or unable to have sex.

Specially how fast and loose people are to use incel as an insult.

In my specific case, lack of sex was just a symptom of a very fucked up family and school life and a complete lack of social skills (which were the result of the first).

Now, after several different girlfriends, I am happily married. I got out of that situation because of friends that believed in me and helped me (understanding life, work, studying, how women think). Honestly, I try to be nice to people in the same situation, sometimes a bit of help can go a long way.

Interesting. Thanks for the story man and good luck on everything!

@RedEyedMonster8: thanks!

Still single sadly

With wife and family.

No girlfriend at the moment.

Proud virgin here. Sex is gross.

No and no.

Recently dumped a girl, though.

I realized life's been good all along solving mysteries with my dog, and if any woman is going to want a chance with me she's gonna have to solve the mystery of winning my heart.

how would you know?

@Macutchi: it might feel good idk but looks gross to me

@jaydan: Dude.. lmao. I was literally thinking you looked like Shaggy, but you broke the ice and said it for me.