Do you have friends that you wish were not there because they are better?

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#1 Triniboy95
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Like friends that are better looking or funnier and get the girls more? My friend, Travis, is this kinda tall guy and all our friends that are girls like him so much cause he's taller than me. It's not like I wish he were short, it's more that i wish he wasn't there so that girls would like me more. What about you guys?

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#2 aransom
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I wouldn't worry about it. Travis probably wishes he were more like you in some ways.

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#3 cyborg100000
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I never really cared.

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#4 Triniboy95
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I wouldn't worry about it. Travis probably wishes he were more like you in some ways.

aransom

Lol, I don't think so. I have never dated a girl before and he dated a lots of them.

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#5 McJugga
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I wouldn't worry about it. Travis probably wishes he were more like you in some ways.

aransom
I doubt it, Travis is a pretty awesome dude.
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#6 dackchaar
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[QUOTE="aransom"]

I wouldn't worry about it. Travis probably wishes he were more like you in some ways.

Triniboy95

Lol, I don't think so. I have never dated a girl before and he dated a lots of them.

A man's abilitiy to pick up chick's does not parallel to his ability as a person.

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#7 clayron
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Not really. One of my closest friends looks like he was chiseled from stone by God himself and, yet, he has the hardest time talking to people. Now while I do wish I had a comparable physique, I do not wish I were him and he is pretty awesome to hang out with.
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#8 LJS9502_basic
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Nah. I've always had he better luck anyway....
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#9 EMOEVOLUTION
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uh.. well.. if I didn't want somebody around... I wouldn't consider them my friend. but no.. I don't mind having friends that are better than me at stuff.. as long as they don't act like they're better because of it.. I can tolerate them just fine. IF anything they should encourage me to be the best me I can be.. I'd expect nothing less of my friends.
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#10 eagle63
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[QUOTE="aransom"]

I wouldn't worry about it. Travis probably wishes he were more like you in some ways.

McJugga

I doubt it, Travis is a pretty awesome dude.

dude with an atitude like that your never going to get a girl.man up.show a little confidence.girls like that.

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#11 MuddVader
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Well no
But I can understand this.
Dont hold it against him, though it must suck no doubt.
Just as theres nothing you can do about it, theres nothing he can do about it either.

It hurts to know that the majority of girls will see something they like better in another guy rather than in you even if you have the same quality or feel yourself to be even better, but when you do get that one girl, she will matter all the more.

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#12 Sajedene
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Me and my friends always talk about how something about one or the other we wish we had - its the "grass is greener" mentality. They want to be you, you want to be them thing. In the end, be happy about yourself and be confident with what you've got.
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#13 DJ-Lafleur
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Not really. No person is better than another overall.

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#14 scorch-62
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The only friends I have that I don't like are either two-faced or way too cocky for my liking.
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#15 Oleg_Huzwog
Member since 2007 • 21885 Posts

Count your blessings. Travis is going to get first dibs whether you're with him or not. But if you're with him, you'll get first crack at his leftovers. Lots of other dudes out there would love to be in your shoes.

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#16 Triniboy95
Member since 2010 • 279 Posts

Not really. No person is better than another overall.

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Do you really believe that?

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#17 DJ-Lafleur
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[QUOTE="DJ-Lafleur"]

Not really. No person is better than another overall.

Triniboy95

Do you really believe that?

Well, when I actually think about, I guess I really don't. :lol:

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#18 J-Man725
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Nah.....I'm the taller, better looking guy...

I wish....:cry:

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#19 Zerocrossings
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Thse arent friends..

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#20 Evil_Saluki
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I'm jealous of one of my friends because she's 30 years old, looks gorgeous, is smart, clever, and spends all her time studying while her husband brings in the money. Her husband rides a Harley, is covered in tattoos with a few well placed face pierings, a beard and a shaved head as if he belongs to the church of Satan. There home had it's interior decoration done by a local celebrity interior decorator Laurence Llewelyn-Bowen, who created a wonderfully gothic design for them.

It's an awesome life they got, but I'm glad me and my Miss Kitten are their friends, so no way would I wish they were not there. I can't understand why I someone would think of that unless you expect your friend to be a threat to your own well being somehow.

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#21 AtomicBaconBits
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No.I'm not a jealous person.I'm thankful for what I got.
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#22 rawsavon
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You know how they say that in every group of friends there is at least one really annoying person and if you don't know who that is it is probably you Well, there is not one friend I want to get rid of b/c he is better than the rest of us, guess that means...
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#23 BiancaDK
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So, is travis dropping by this thread anytime soon, TC
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#24 MrsSolidSnake
Member since 2009 • 5003 Posts

No. I'm less of a tomboy than my best friend (well... ex now. We had a huge fight :( )

So I gets the menz :D

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#25 SuperSaiyanLink
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[QUOTE="Triniboy95"]

[QUOTE="aransom"]

I wouldn't worry about it. Travis probably wishes he were more like you in some ways.

dackchaar

Lol, I don't think so. I have never dated a girl before and he dated a lots of them.

A man's abilitiy to pick up chick's does not parallel to his ability as a person.

Not sure about that.

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#26 DigitalExile
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I don't even have any friends anymore. :x

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#27 Grandotaku
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I don't even have any friends anymore. :x

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I wish I didn't have friends anymore.

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#28 DigitalExile
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[QUOTE="DigitalExile"]

I don't even have any friends anymore. :x

Grandotaku

I wish I didn't have friends anymore.

Wanna' swap?

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#29 Grandotaku
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[QUOTE="Grandotaku"]

[QUOTE="DigitalExile"]

I don't even have any friends anymore. :x

DigitalExile

I wish I didn't have friends anymore.

Wanna' swap?

Yeah sure why not.

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#30 DigitalExile
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[QUOTE="DigitalExile"]

[QUOTE="Grandotaku"]

I wish I didn't have friends anymore.

Grandotaku

Wanna' swap?

Yeah sure why not.

Awesome.

...

Turns out though that not only am I the annoying one, but I'm also the cool one they're all jealous of so I got kicked out of the group. :x

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#31 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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if travis weren't there, there might not be girls at all D=
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#32 pete_merlin
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[QUOTE="McJugga"][QUOTE="aransom"]

I wouldn't worry about it. Travis probably wishes he were more like you in some ways.

I doubt it, Travis is a pretty awesome dude.

Travis sounds pretty badass
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#33 -ICON-
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not a probably with me, i have no friends.
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#34 ManifestoJoe
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[QUOTE="McJugga"][QUOTE="aransom"]

I wouldn't worry about it. Travis probably wishes he were more like you in some ways.

pete_merlin

I doubt it, Travis is a pretty awesome dude.

Travis sounds pretty badass

Go Travis! ♥

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#35 BiancaDK
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Will Travis make an appearance in this thread, TC? Been waiting for quite some time now >:
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#36 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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Will Travis make an appearance in this thread, TC? Been waiting for quite some time now >:BiancaDK
But then he'll get all the girls :(
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#37 BiancaDK
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[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]Will Travis make an appearance in this thread, TC? Been waiting for quite some time now >:Jandurin
But then he'll get all the girls :(

And that's a concern of yours? :P
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#38 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="BiancaDK"]Will Travis make an appearance in this thread, TC? Been waiting for quite some time now >:BiancaDK
But then he'll get all the girls :(

And that's a concern of yours? :P

well, i'm not travis, so yes :3 I won't be happy until I've caught them all!
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#39 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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what is this off topic valentine songiness :S
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#40 Abicus7
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My friend asked me to leave a club before because his girlfriend would not stop hitting on me.. even though I was blatantly ignoring her advances.. like it was my fault or something..

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My friend asked me to leave a club before because his girlfriend would not stop hitting on me.. even though I was blatantly ignoring her advances.. like it was my fault or something..

Abicus7
that's messed up he should've just found a girl to hit on him
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#42 Abicus7
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[QUOTE="Abicus7"]

My friend asked me to leave a club before because his girlfriend would not stop hitting on me.. even though I was blatantly ignoring her advances.. like it was my fault or something..

Jandurin

that's messed up he should've just found a girl to hit on him

I know right, she still does it every time we hang out.. Puts me in a very awkward situation.. Because I would never do anything like that to a friend.

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#43 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="Abicus7"]

My friend asked me to leave a club before because his girlfriend would not stop hitting on me.. even though I was blatantly ignoring her advances.. like it was my fault or something..

that's messed up he should've just found a girl to hit on him

I would have left willingly...seems the only polite thing to do [spoiler] with said GF [/spoiler]
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#44 Abicus7
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="Abicus7"]

My friend asked me to leave a club before because his girlfriend would not stop hitting on me.. even though I was blatantly ignoring her advances.. like it was my fault or something..

rawsavon

that's messed up he should've just found a girl to hit on him

I would have left willingly...seems the only polite thing to do [spoiler] with said GF [/spoiler]

Haha, well the thought did cross my mind.. He half deserves it the way he treats me sometimes when shes around. He always tries to put me down and make himself look better..I guess cause hes jealous.. But again, couldnt bring myself to do that to a buddy.

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#45 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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yeah, i've had that problem with friend's GFs a few times. I've learned to shut them down early.
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#46 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Jandurin"] that's messed up he should've just found a girl to hit on himAbicus7

I would have left willingly...seems the only polite thing to do [spoiler] with said GF [/spoiler]

Haha, well the thought did cross my mind.. He half deserves it the way he treats me sometimes when shes around. He always tries to put me down and make himself look better..I guess cause hes jealous.. But again, couldnt bring myself to do that to a buddy.

I could not either... I was just being sarcastic Though I might leave with her just teach them a lesson (and not do anything with her)
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#47 DiabeticVampire
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Love my best friend like a brudda but it doesn't help he's about two feet taller than me, :P never had a problem with getting more girls than him since he's sort of an awkward guy but his advantage can be a bit annoying.

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#48 Abicus7
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Oh yah, I knew you were not being serious. I feel like telling him that hes never gunna be happy with her when shes always flirting with other dudes. But whatever, not my problem.. I guess he'll learn one of these days.

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#49 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="Abicus7"]

Oh yah, I knew you were not being serious. I feel like telling him that hes never gunna be happy with her when shes always flirting with other dudes. But whatever, not my problem.. I guess he'll learn one of these days.

2 things I have learned in my old age 1. no point in being jealous...serves no purpose...whatever will be will be...you have no control over other people 2. some people flirt for fun (no harm no foul b/c it feels good)...and some people flirt b/c there are serious issues there...she seems more like the later and less of the former
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#50 RJay123
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I'm going to give some different advice.

Get new friends.

If Travis is making you feel bad, even if he doesn't realize it, you shouldn't have to put up with it. It will bother you for the rest of your life.

Either ditch him, or get him to help you get some girls. But don't go feeling useless next to him.