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#1 Film-Guy
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I do, it just takes me a while to get to know someone and make the effort. Its tougher to make friends when you leave high school. Well not harder, just different.

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#2 hardcoregamer92
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No way. Well depends on what you call friendship. You've gotta consider superficial friendships vs true friendships. OBSCENE difference.

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#3 DJ-Lafleur
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No I don'tt. I'm not unsocial, I just am not as outgoing as many other people. Though once you actually get to know me, I can be a pretty open, outgoing person.

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#4 cyberdarkkid
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True friends aren't easy to make.
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#5 hardcoregamer92
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True friends aren't easy to make.cyberdarkkid

And there's an overwhelming probability that you won't even meet friends who have the 'true' potential.

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#6 chessmaster1989
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I do, it just takes me a while to get to know someone and make the effort. Its tougher to make friends when you leave high school. Well not harder, just different.

Film-Guy

I find making friends at college to be really easy, especially at first. Easy to make friends with people you live right next to. :P

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#7 Nerd_Man
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Well, when I first started my current semester of college, I went into my classes not knowing anyone. Within a week I was talking to people in them and making friends.

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#8 Diablo112688
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What is a friend... I never understood. I don't have anyone who is worth much. Never have.
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#9 DJ-Lafleur
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[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]

I do, it just takes me a while to get to know someone and make the effort. Its tougher to make friends when you leave high school. Well not harder, just different.

chessmaster1989

I find making friends at college to be really easy, especially at first. Easy to make friends with people you live right next to. :P

Yeah, I wish that were true. >_>

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#10 Murj
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What is a friend... I never understood. I don't have anyone who is worth much. Never have. Diablo112688
I want to give you a hug and tell you everything is okay.

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#11 Diablo112688
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[QUOTE="Diablo112688"]What is a friend... I never understood. I don't have anyone who is worth much. Never have. Murj

I want to give you a hug and tell you everything is okay.

Why is that?
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#12 jasonharris48
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No I don't. I don't talk to often in person unless spoken to. But I do find it easier to make friends incollege compared to high school.

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#13 Murj
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[QUOTE="Murj"]

[QUOTE="Diablo112688"]What is a friend... I never understood. I don't have anyone who is worth much. Never have. Diablo112688

I want to give you a hug and tell you everything is okay.

Why is that?

You say you've never had any friends? Do you not sometimes wish you did?

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[QUOTE="Murj"]

[QUOTE="Diablo112688"]What is a friend... I never understood. I don't have anyone who is worth much. Never have. Diablo112688

I want to give you a hug and tell you everything is okay.

Why is that?

lol your fusion of coldness and curiosity just made my day.

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#15 clayron
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Well yes and no, depending on how you define friendship. Yes: I can go anywhere and get along with anyone, but I would not consider that making friends. No: I take the title friend fairly seriously. So, if at any point I can a person a friend it means there is an emotional attachment, so in that sense it is difficult for me to make friends. Does any of this make sense?
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#16 XD4NTESINF3RNOX
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Yeah but lifelong friendships are hard to come by I have like 4 of those Andrew 14 years, Joseph 13 years, Michael going on 7 years, and Joey 6 years those are rare
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#17 Diablo112688
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[QUOTE="Diablo112688"][QUOTE="Murj"]I want to give you a hug and tell you everything is okay.

Murj

Why is that?

You say you've never had any friends? Do you not sometimes wish you did?

I have hung out and shared lies with countless people. It has always been a pile of crap and deceit. I am not blaming myself or others... the forces at work come to create whatever seems to be created. I have nothing.
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#18 Murj
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[QUOTE="Murj"]

[QUOTE="Diablo112688"] Why is that?Diablo112688

You say you've never had any friends? Do you not sometimes wish you did?

I have hung out and shared lies with countless people. It has always been a pile of crap and deceit. I am not blaming myself or others... the forces at work come to create whatever seems to be created. I have nothing.

I feel slightly worse about the world.

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#19 Diablo112688
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[QUOTE="Diablo112688"][QUOTE="Murj"]You say you've never had any friends? Do you not sometimes wish you did?

Murj

I have hung out and shared lies with countless people. It has always been a pile of crap and deceit. I am not blaming myself or others... the forces at work come to create whatever seems to be created. I have nothing.

I feel slightly worse about the world.

And that is what exactly?
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#20 hardcoregamer92
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[QUOTE="Diablo112688"][QUOTE="Murj"]You say you've never had any friends? Do you not sometimes wish you did?

Murj

I have hung out and shared lies with countless people. It has always been a pile of crap and deceit. I am not blaming myself or others... the forces at work come to create whatever seems to be created. I have nothing.

I feel slightly worse about the world.

lol discovering reality ftw

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#21 WestSideAzn
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I am a reserved person. I, however, just talk to people given the opportunity. It depends on how well I get to know the person before I even become friends with them.
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#22 Zerocrossings
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I can get along with strangers i just met i guess.

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#23 Murj
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[QUOTE="Murj"]

[QUOTE="Diablo112688"] I have hung out and shared lies with countless people. It has always been a pile of crap and deceit. I am not blaming myself or others... the forces at work come to create whatever seems to be created. I have nothing. Diablo112688

I feel slightly worse about the world.

And that is what exactly?

You speak from experience. I'm just a bit worried something might happen with me and my friends now. I'm paranoid.

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#24 hardcoregamer92
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[QUOTE="Diablo112688"][QUOTE="Murj"]I feel slightly worse about the world.

Murj

And that is what exactly?

You speak from experience. I'm just a bit worried something might happen with me and my friends now. I'm paranoid.

Don't be paranoid. Knowledge is your worst enemy here... Being worried will only make something happen. You fulfill your own fate.

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#25 Diablo112688
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[QUOTE="Diablo112688"][QUOTE="Murj"]I feel slightly worse about the world.

Murj

And that is what exactly?

You speak from experience. I'm just a bit worried something might happen with me and my friends now. I'm paranoid.

I can not understand what you mean. I know it makes sense in your head because you are relating this vague statement with the information that circles your mind.... so I will need more information myself to connect what you just said to something i can comprehend.
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#26 Murj
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[QUOTE="Murj"]

[QUOTE="Diablo112688"] And that is what exactly?Diablo112688

You speak from experience. I'm just a bit worried something might happen with me and my friends now. I'm paranoid.

I can not understand what you mean. I know it makes sense in your head because you are relating this vague statement with the information that circles your mind.... so I will need more information myself to connect what you just said to something i can comprehend.

I just think it's obvious we've both lived different lives in terms of interaction with other people. But the way you talk sounds like you're a well learned person, so it sounds like you know more than I do in a kinda creepy way.

It's probably just me being tired.

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#27 Smallville417
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I do, but I don't get close to too many people.

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#28 Sajedene
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I have no problems walking up to random strangers and getting to know them if that is what you are asking
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#29 Diablo112688
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[QUOTE="Diablo112688"][QUOTE="Murj"]You speak from experience. I'm just a bit worried something might happen with me and my friends now. I'm paranoid.

Murj

I can not understand what you mean. I know it makes sense in your head because you are relating this vague statement with the information that circles your mind.... so I will need more information myself to connect what you just said to something i can comprehend.

I just think it's obvious we've both lived different lives in terms of interaction with other people. But the way you talk sounds like you're a well learned person, so it sounds like you know more than I do in a kinda creepy way.

It's probably just me being tired.

I am not sure I follow. I may know more from certain standpoints, but I would really like to know what you are getting at with that comment you made about your friends.

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#30 hardcoregamer92
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[QUOTE="Murj"]

[QUOTE="Diablo112688"] And that is what exactly?Diablo112688

You speak from experience. I'm just a bit worried something might happen with me and my friends now. I'm paranoid.

I can not understand what you mean. I know it makes sense in your head because you are relating this vague statement with the information that circles your mind.... so I will need more information myself to connect what you just said to something i can comprehend.

You know, I think I'm going to let you go on this one. I enjoy psychlogical wordplay of a similar manner often. Honestly, I only felt obligated to attack you since I've only heard a few people with the capacity to speak with intricacy whil maintaining a faint sense of coherence. Have fun.

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I do, it just takes me a while to get to know someone and make the effort. Its tougher to make friends when you leave high school. Well not harder, just different.

Film-Guy
Exactly the same. I'm friendly to everyone, but it takes me a little bit to really trust them I guess.
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#32 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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No, not at all. I'm really ridiculously shy, and I have a hard time initiating anything. If someone else does the initiating, then I'll eventually warm up to them. Once I get comfortable, it's pretty easy for me to make friends since I'm a pretty inoffensive person and I'm friendly.
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I have no problems walking up to random strangers and getting to know them if that is what you are asking Sajedene
Of course not youre an attractive female. :|
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#34 krunkmastax
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No, not at all. I'm really ridiculously shy, and I have a hard time initiating anything. If someone else does the initiating, then I'll eventually warm up to them. Once I get comfortable, it's pretty easy for me to make friends since I'm a pretty inoffensive person and I'm friendly.t3hrubikscube
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#35 effena
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Kind of...I'm fairly approachable, and I can be talkative. Every person is worthy of my respect, until they prove themselves otherwise. On the other hand, I can be quite busy sometimes, so maintaining friendships is hard for me.

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#36 krunkmastax
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Kind of...I'm fairly approachable, and I can be talkative. Every person is worthy of my respect, until they prove themselves otherwise. On the other hand, I can be quite busy sometimes, so maintaining friendships is hard for me.

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#37 dracula_16
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No. I'm hesitant to put trust in others.

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#38 krunkmastax
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Friends are easy to make. Its TRUE friends that are harder to come by.
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#39 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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[QUOTE="t3hrubikscube"]No, not at all. I'm really ridiculously shy, and I have a hard time initiating anything. If someone else does the initiating, then I'll eventually warm up to them. Once I get comfortable, it's pretty easy for me to make friends since I'm a pretty inoffensive person and I'm friendly.KrunkMastaX
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Not bad! How about yourself? :P
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#40 Film-Guy
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Friends are easy to make. Its TRUE friends that are harder to come by.KrunkMastaX

True friends are like headless purple ducks, they don't quack and are hard to find.

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#41 AtomicBaconBits
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No,I actually avoid making friends.Almost everybody I meet is the same annoying and immature washout of the last person I met.I'm happy with the small hanfull of friends I have now.It's always the TRUE friends that you happen upon by accident.I stopped trying to make friends a long time ago.

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[QUOTE="KrunkMastaX"]Friends are easy to make. Its TRUE friends that are harder to come by.Film-Guy

True friends are like headless purple ducks, they don't quack and are hard to find.

Lmao too true. But when you find one its worth it. Like true love.
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#43 krunkmastax
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Not bad! How about yourself? :Pt3hrubikscube

Cold! :x But other than that fine. Thanx for asking. ;)

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#44 realistic44
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Not much of a talkative kinda person 8)

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#45 DJ-Lafleur
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No,I actually avoid making friends.Almost everybody I meet is the same annoying and immature washout of the last person I met.I'm happy with the small hanfull of friends I have now.It's always the TRUE friends that you happen upon by accident.I stopped trying to make friends a long time ago.

AtomicBaconBits

Meh, that's what I basically do. I just don't look for people and see if they want to be friends. it just "has to happen."

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#46 MrGeezer
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I make "acquaintances" easily, because I am a pretty easy-going and non-hateful guy. I'm incredibly easy to "get along with".

But it almost NEVER develops to the point of actual "friendship."

I get along well with EVERYONE, and yet don't have a friend in the world. Any time anyone actually goes out of their way to TRY to become my friend, I subconsciously **** that up, and we go right back to merely "getting along together".

I'm not exactly sure what the hell is wrong with me. It's not even as if I don't like people. I REALLY like people. But at the same time, I seem to have this weird need to drive everyone away, even though that makes me extremely sad.

I have this strange urge to be liked by everyone, and yet loved by no one. It makes absolutely no sense to me, and I have absolutely no idea what the **** is going on with that.

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#47 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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[QUOTE="t3hrubikscube"]Not bad! How about yourself? :PKrunkMastaX

Cold! :x But other than that fine. Thanx for asking. ;)

I'm cold too. :(
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#48 Fantasticus
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online i do, but outside of that, NO
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#49 69ANT69
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Yes, very easy ... I get along well with everyone and anyone.
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#50 DigitalExile
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I don't recall having issues making friends... Keeping friends, however is another issue.