Nope, it's a fact of life, most people in the mordern world will have had a sexual partner by the time they are 18. I have nothing against it, it can actually be benificial....they might of picked up a few tricks ;)
As in isn't a virgin, or someone who is cheating on you? I would mind if I was being cheated on, but I don't care if my partner isn't a virgin, as long as she is clean.
I think a better question is why should you mind if you partner has had sex in the past or not, if they have an std thats a medical issue which is kind of separate. If they are having sex with someone else whilst in the relationship I probably wouldn't particularly mind on the condition that I know and are okay with it, its the lie about cheating that I would be bothered about and even then my curiosity about why she cheated would far surpas any bother that I would feel.
Nah, it wouldn't bother me. What would bother me, if she had done all these porno moves with a 1000 guys and let all this wierd stuff be put in her, that would be troubling.
moment she does this kind of thing she ceases to be my girlfriend, and I cease to mind whatever she will do further, so technically there is no "mind" for me.
I don't mind one bit. My girl and I are the swingin' type, so it's cool to do what we want, It's sex guys, not love...Two very different things here. You can love someone and have fun on the side, as long as they can too!
I'm assuming that you mean she's done them before me and her where going out, in which case of course not. Apparently the other guys weren't as good at it as I was!. One of my ex GFs had been with girls before me, and that was a little weird, since she thought it was funny to compare me with girls about that sort of thing. I just kept hoping that she'd agree to a 3-way, but it never transpired.
You're not missing much IMO anyways. I only find it worth the effort if there is serious feeling involved. Flings are ok but not enough for me to jump through hoops for.
You're not missing much IMO anyways. I only find it worth the effort if there is serious feeling involved. Flings are ok but not enough for me to jump through hoops for.What if these hoops lead towards Jessica Biel?
No. Its going to happen. I would mind if she cheated on me. What would tick me off is if she kept in touch with the people that she slept with i.e. old boyfriends and the like. NOthing is more irritating than going out to dinner with your girlfriend and having her ex boyfriend calling and being force to sit and watch her talk to him for five minutes. Ive actually broken up with a woman because of that.
Well, luckily I met my fiance when he was still a virgin :P So I don't have that problem.
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But if something happens and it doesn't work out then you will have that problem:PNot that he's saying that it wont work out...we both wish you and your fiance a happy life together :)
I'd prefer not but you can't change the past and I'd never make him suffer for past things. Love should go beyond that. _Marisa_
I know, I was saying that if something happened and you two broke it off (although I hope it doesn't) because lasting relationships seems to be a thing of the past for the younger generation then you would find yourself as a girl getting with a new guy with a sexual history. But that is good you wouldn't hold that against him
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