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#1 RJay123
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What do you think? I've found it hard to date girls that are close to their dad

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#2 Agent-Zero
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What do you think? I've found it hard to date girls that are close to their dad

RJay123
I think you just have to be upfront with the father. Tell him you intend to have sexual relations with his daughter, I'm sure he'll understand, he is a guy after all!
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#3 Tropicalshower
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[QUOTE="RJay123"]

What do you think? I've found it hard to date girls that are close to their dad

Agent-Zero
I think you just have to be upfront with the father. Tell him you intend to have sexual relations with his daughter, I'm sure he'll understand, he is a guy after all!

Seriously :/
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#4 GuardianGoryn
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Are you kidding? Most girls I know hate their dads. I mean my sister, my GV, my GF's friends. I can't think of a single girl that likes their father.

As for if a girl is close to their dad, I would say it shouldn't be to hard to get to know the girl, since you only need to get to know the dad. DON'T BE AFRAID OF THEM! THEY DON'T BITE, at least not to hard.

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[QUOTE="RJay123"]

What do you think? I've found it hard to date girls that are close to their dad

Agent-Zero
I think you just have to be upfront with the father. Tell him you intend to have sexual relations with his daughter, I'm sure he'll understand, he is a guy after all!

LoL, that isn't something you tell a girls father. That is how you get shot :P.
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#7 GuardianGoryn
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[QUOTE="Agent-Zero"][QUOTE="RJay123"]

What do you think? I've found it hard to date girls that are close to their dad

Tropicalshower

I think you just have to be upfront with the father. Tell him you intend to have sexual relations with his daughter, I'm sure he'll understand, he is a guy after all!

Seriously :/

Actually, my dad would say the same thing but probably smaked any guy that came up to him and said it themselves. Especially if you say it the same way.

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#8 Theokhoth
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Sigmund Freud believed girls were sexually attracted to their dads.

So you may be right. >_>

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#9 TecmoGirl
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I don't think a girl can ever be too close to her dad. If I had the opportunity to be really close to mine--I surely wouldn't miss it. I'm very envious of girls who have that close relationship.

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#10 my_mortal_coil
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What do you think? I've found it hard to date girls that are close to their dad

RJay123

I think that says a lot more than you think.

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#11 II_Seraphim_II
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[QUOTE="RJay123"]

What do you think? I've found it hard to date girls that are close to their dad

Agent-Zero
I think you just have to be upfront with the father. Tell him you intend to have sexual relations with his daughter, I'm sure he'll understand, he is a guy after all!

That's how you get your scrotum removed :x
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#12 Sajedene
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I have a great relationship with my dad. Hence being a Daddy's girl - but I am a mommy's girl too. But I dont see what is wrong with having a loving relationship with your parents. I go on dates with both of them.
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[QUOTE="Agent-Zero"][QUOTE="RJay123"]

What do you think? I've found it hard to date girls that are close to their dad

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I think you just have to be upfront with the father. Tell him you intend to have sexual relations with his daughter, I'm sure he'll understand, he is a guy after all!

LoL, that isn't something you tell a girls father. That is how you get shot :P.

I was actually threatened with a shotgun once. And I didn't even say something like that. He was just a really protective guy. He had his Mossberg 12Gauge out cleaning it and said, real calm like, that If I ever mistreated her he'd shoot me. Of course then his daughter left me for a fling with my best friend. Where's my protection???

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#14 Tropicalshower
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"]I have a great relationship with my dad. Hence being a Daddy's girl - but I am a mommy's girl too. But I dont see what is wrong with having a loving relationship with your parents. I go on dates with both of them.

Exactly
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#15 Agent-Zero
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I have a great relationship with my dad. Hence being a Daddy's girl - but I am a mommy's girl too. But I dont see what is wrong with having a loving relationship with your parents. I go on dates with both of them. Sajedene
do you invite them in for coffee?

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#16 Teenaged
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Freudian complex et cetera et cetera

:P

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#17 Teenaged
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Sigmund Freud believed girls were sexually attracted to their dads.

So you may be right. >_>

Theokhoth

Oh... beaten to it. >_>

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#18 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Agent-Zero"] [QUOTE="Sajedene"]I have a great relationship with my dad. Hence being a Daddy's girl - but I am a mommy's girl too. But I dont see what is wrong with having a loving relationship with your parents. I go on dates with both of them.

do you invite them in for coffee?

Make fun of the idea all you like. I am so lucky and blessed that I have both my parents in my life and I have a great relationship with both of them. Sadly, in this day and age, not many can say the same - perhaps why its easier to poke fun at those who do.
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#19 Agent-Zero
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Agent-Zero"] [QUOTE="Sajedene"]I have a great relationship with my dad. Hence being a Daddy's girl - but I am a mommy's girl too. But I dont see what is wrong with having a loving relationship with your parents. I go on dates with both of them.

do you invite them in for coffee?

Make fun of the idea all you like. I am so lucky and blessed that I have both my parents in my life and I have a great relationship with both of them. Sadly, in this day and age, not many can say the same - perhaps why its easier to poke fun at those who do.

I'm just saying "date" has romantic connotations.
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#20 Tropicalshower
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Calm down you two :P
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#21 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Agent-Zero"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Agent-Zero"] do you invite them in for coffee?

Make fun of the idea all you like. I am so lucky and blessed that I have both my parents in my life and I have a great relationship with both of them. Sadly, in this day and age, not many can say the same - perhaps why its easier to poke fun at those who do.

I'm just saying "date" has romantic connotations.

Not necessarily. I can have date night with my family and friends too... if we make a plan to do a certain thing on a certain date... its a date!
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#22 my_mortal_coil
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Sigmund Freud believed girls were sexually attracted to their dads.

So you may be right. >_>

Theokhoth

The Electra Complex, the opposite of the Oedipus Complex.

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#23 XilePrincess
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I'm not close with mine at all, and I've never met a girl that's "too close".
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#24 Lindsosaurus
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I'm a daddy's girl and there is nothing wrong with having a close relationship with your parents; although, there is a point where being too close can be a problem and unhealthy for the family dynamic, but that can happen with any relationship between two people in a family, not just fathers and daughters.

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#25 -eddy-
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[QUOTE="RJay123"]

What do you think? I've found it hard to date girls that are close to their dad

Agent-Zero
I think you just have to be upfront with the father. Tell him you intend to have sexual relations with his daughter, I'm sure he'll understand, he is a guy after all!

I think that's one of the worst ideas for that situation. Honestly, that's garbage. :P
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#26 -eddy-
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

Sigmund Freud believed girls were sexually attracted to their dads.

So you may be right. >_>

my_mortal_coil

The Electra Complex, the opposite of the Oedipus Complex.

I hate those 'complexes'. I think it's a disgusting idea I'd want to subconsiously bonk my momma. :( Why can't you just love your parents without dragging sexuality to it?
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#27 Penguinchow
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

Sigmund Freud believed girls were sexually attracted to their dads.

So you may be right. >_>

my_mortal_coil

The Electra Complex, the opposite of the Oedipus Complex.

Gross! Call me crazy but I never had sexual feelings for my mother or the fear that my dad was going to remove my uh.. tallywhacker.
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#28 lilasianwonder
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One of my exs was close to her dad but I was actually pretty cool with the guy.
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I'm more protective of my little sister than my dad is. It all depends I guess. My dad is a total pushover...
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[QUOTE="Agent-Zero"] [QUOTE="Sajedene"]I have a great relationship with my dad. Hence being a Daddy's girl - but I am a mommy's girl too. But I dont see what is wrong with having a loving relationship with your parents. I go on dates with both of them. Sajedene
do you invite them in for coffee?

Make fun of the idea all you like. I am so lucky and blessed that I have both my parents in my life and I have a great relationship with both of them. Sadly, in this day and age, not many can say the same - perhaps why its easier to poke fun at those who do.

that is awesome. im closer tomy mother.. she is just a cool person.
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#31 Nifty_Shark
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They have to be close to daddy. He gives em what they want after all.

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#32 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Agent-Zero"] do you invite them in for coffee?weezyfb
Make fun of the idea all you like. I am so lucky and blessed that I have both my parents in my life and I have a great relationship with both of them. Sadly, in this day and age, not many can say the same - perhaps why its easier to poke fun at those who do.

that is awesome. im closer tomy mother.. she is just a cool person.

:) That is cool. It makes me happy to hear that. My mom is cool too.
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#33 killer336
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[QUOTE="weezyfb"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] Make fun of the idea all you like. I am so lucky and blessed that I have both my parents in my life and I have a great relationship with both of them. Sadly, in this day and age, not many can say the same - perhaps why its easier to poke fun at those who do.Sajedene
that is awesome. im closer tomy mother.. she is just a cool person.

:) That is cool. It makes me happy to hear that. My mom is cool too.

I am a momma's boy ;)
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#34 domatron23
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

Sigmund Freud believed girls were sexually attracted to their dads.

So you may be right. >_>

my_mortal_coil

The Electra Complex, the opposite of the Oedipus Complex.

Aaah so that's where the phrase anal retentive comes from. Good to know. I didn't think that castration anxieties were ever directed towards the father. I was always under the impression that they were directed to the mother, either because she serves as a frightful image of what it's like to be castrated or because she takes up the role of the aggressive, non-phallic castrator.
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just ask her "whose your daddy?" and if she says her father, then dump her.
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#36 VaguelyTagged
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[QUOTE="RJay123"]

What do you think? I've found it hard to date girls that are close to their dad

Agent-Zero
I think you just have to be upfront with the father. Tell him you intend to have sexual relations with his daughter, I'm sure he'll understand, he is a guy after all!

lol,yet i think some ppl think they're allowed to touch any girl's shoulder,but when it comes to their daughter..it's a big NO.
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#37 Agent-Zero
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Agent-Zero"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] Make fun of the idea all you like. I am so lucky and blessed that I have both my parents in my life and I have a great relationship with both of them. Sadly, in this day and age, not many can say the same - perhaps why its easier to poke fun at those who do.

I'm just saying "date" has romantic connotations.

That sounds like a get together rather than a date. Not necessarily. I can have date night with my family and friends too... if we make a plan to do a certain thing on a certain date... its a date!

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I have a great relationship with my dad. Hence being a Daddy's girl - but I am a mommy's girl too. But I dont see what is wrong with having a loving relationship with your parents. I go on dates with both of them. Sajedene
must.........not............make..............joke do you have breakfast with them afterwords?
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#39 Zeromus1337
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Imo, if anything there should be more girls that are more close to their dad, as well as their rest of the family . And guys as well, same question.

I'm a guy and I'm pretty close to my Mom. She's such a strong woman. :)

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#40 lexika
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Pfff no. Not here anyways.
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I don't understand any parent that has extremely close ties to his/her kids. For example, some parents actually drink with their children...I just don't understand that.
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#42 Buyugold
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Sigmund Freud believed girls were sexually attracted to their dads.

So you may be right. >_>

Theokhoth

After reading that I made this face which was like that of horror and disgust and WTF all at the same time

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#43 Sajedene
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I don't understand any parent that has extremely close ties to his/her kids. For example, some parents actually drink with their children...I just don't understand that. chrisrooR
Why? I'm of legal drinking age and so are my parents... if I have a drink with them, why is that so wrong?
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#44 HitomiChan
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im close to my father and i am proud to be a daddy's girl.. :P.. nope. i guess a girl can never be "too close". . 'cept if the girl bathes with ehr dad. :o.

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#45 Ronstera
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I don't understand any parent that has extremely close ties to his/her kids. For example, some parents actually drink with their children...I just don't understand that. chrisrooR
I drink with my dad and the rest of my close relatives when were celebrating something..
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#46 WeaponXY
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Dad's tend to be very careful with their daughters dating because they know what guys want, so naturally they don't want their daughter getting into those kinds of things. :P

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#47 StaticPenguin
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I find most people are closest to the parent of the opposite sex. Girls are closer to their dads while boys are closest to their mothers.

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#48 nimatoad2000
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well that woman that had a relationship with her dad, that was to close
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#49 RJay123
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Notice most (not all...but most) girls on this thread are extremely proud to be close to their dad....while only some male posters are able to question or think it's strange, even though I realize some of the guys here don't find anything wrong with it either.


But most girls here aren't able to understand what I'm talking about, because they are really, really proud to be with their dad.

I think it's hard to get to know a girl who is close to their dad because since they will be going out on "dates" with their dad, they will have less time to spend with you. And everything has to be approved by her dad, including you. So even if the girl likes you, if the dad doesn't like you it's over basically.

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#50 LostProphetFLCL
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Honestly, I find it a big plus if a girl has good parents that she has a good relationship with. I value family alot myself and I think good parents can sadly be hard to come-by but when they are there they can have tons of great influence on their child.

I also am a guy parents would like to see their daughter dating (nice guy, caring, not just going to be in it for sex, stable) so I don't fear having to meet the parents. I actually have a female friend of mines parents wanting me to date their daughter, lol.