Do you think you will ever have children? Why or why not?

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#1 jim_shorts
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Also post if you already have them. I'm curious about OT's opinions on children. I would like to have two myself, preferably two boys. What about everyone else?

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#2 NiKva
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Yep, but whether I get laid is still pending.
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#3 Jolt_counter119
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I don't know. Having kids seems like a drag, but if I don't then I'll have nothing to do ar anybody to be around me when I'm old. I probably will eventually.

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#4 Fightingfan
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If I do not until my 30s.
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#5 konvikt_17
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not anytime soon. ive gotten my fill for now.

ive basically raised my sisters daughter from birth. while my sister was sleeping on the couch or out with friends, i was taking care of her daughter. then when she left for Florida, i basically took care of her 24/7. she is 4 yrs old now.

she is a bundle of joy.

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#6 chaoscougar1
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Definitely Max 2-3 with at least one girl hopefully
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#7 Kage1
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I have one son. He's in the Airforce.

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#8 dagreenfish
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Not on purpose. A couple of past pregnancy scares are as close as I care to get.
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#9 TheSacredFlame
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I would like to have 2 children, one boy and one girl. I would also like to adopt children, but whether that's going to happen is up to my future self.

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#10 Namgis
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The plan is, 2.5 years from now, my wife and I will try for some. Hoping for at least 1, max 3.

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#11 Zeviander
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My girlfriend and I plan on having children as soon as we become established in our careers of choice. I'm currently neither emotionally, nor financially ready for them, but do have a good idea about how I an going to raise them. Once I hit 30, I'll probably begin to feel more desirous of offspring.
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#12 whiskeystrike
Member since 2011 • 12213 Posts

No but I realize that could change in the future.

I'm only 20, I like my free time and my money

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#13 Lucky_Krystal
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Someday, probably when I'm in my 30s.

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#14 Pffrbt
Member since 2010 • 6612 Posts

No because I am gay and I don't like children anyway.

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#15 gameboy343
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i don't want children, not that it will ever be an issue. it is extremely unlikely a female that can stand to be near me for more then 1 second exists. 2 at most.

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#16 BPoole96
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Nope. I cannot stand kids and do not have the patience to deal with them.

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#17 XilePrincess
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Eventually, yes. I would like children, but only two. I do not want three, or one. Two. I am going to be mad as hell if I have one kid and then my second go turns out to be twins.
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#19 FMAB_GTO
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No,and the reason is a bit personal =/
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#20 chaoscougar1
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Eventually, yes. I would like children, but only two. I do not want three, or one. Two. I am going to be mad as hell if I have one kid and then my second go turns out to be twins. XilePrincess
Or the first crack is triplets
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#21 Commander-Gree
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Not planning on it, but if it happens it happens.
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#23 Cheleman
Member since 2012 • 8198 Posts

Yes. I want my DNA to stay after my dimise.

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#24 deactivated-5d693385560c3
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No. Really don't like kids much at all.
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#25 Pffrbt
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Eventually, yes. I would like children, but only two. I do not want three, or one. Two. I am going to be mad as hell if I have one kid and then my second go turns out to be twins. XilePrincess

You could get rid of the one you don't want.

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#26 soulless4now
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Yep, but whether I get laid is still pending.NiKva
Iol I wouldn't mind having one after I finish my education, paid down my student loans a bit and have a steady job.
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#27 mitu123
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No because I don't plan on having them.

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#28 FMAB_GTO
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No because I don't plan on having them.

mitu123
You should TIMMUUU children are life!
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#29 FMAB_GTO
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they carry your name.
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#31 Optical_Order
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No because I don't plan on having them.

mitu123

You see, the thing about "plans" is...

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#32 mitu123
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they carry your name.FMAB_GTO
I need more reasons than that, lol.

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#33 FMAB_GTO
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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]they carry your name.mitu123

I need more reasons than that, lol.

they will call you daddy? :3
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#34 soulless4now
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they carry your name.FMAB_GTO
Unless he only has girls and they all get married meaning bye, bye, bye to his last name in that part of the family tree.
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#35 -Toshy-
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Maybe? Depends on a few factors.

1. If I can get laid.
2. If I want to settle down with someone.
3. That someone is female.
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#36 mitu123
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[QUOTE="mitu123"]

[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]they carry your name.FMAB_GTO

I need more reasons than that, lol.

they will call you daddy? :3

Fair enough!

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#37 mahlasor
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I need to show off my genetics in more ways than one! :)

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#38 FMAB_GTO
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Unless he only has girls and they all get married meaning bye, bye, bye to his last name in that part of the family tree. soulless4now
Daddy has his name bye bye. unless he gets a son from his second wife.

Fair enough!

mitu123
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#39 Chow_Mein_Kampf
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Yes.............Multiple..............
I'll probably have stepkids too............

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#40 N8A
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I have a son that turns 3 in december and we're working on a second one now. They take a lot of work, time and money. It's certainly not for everyone.
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#41 soulless4now
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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]Daddy has his name bye bye. unless he gets a son from his second wife.

His name will die with him and the second wife could also give him a daughter.
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#42 FMAB_GTO
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[QUOTE="soulless4now"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]Daddy has his name bye bye. unless he gets a son from his second wife.

His name will die with him and the second wife could also give him a daughter.

chain why do you hate my dad? is it because he is MY dad? >.>
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#43 soulless4now
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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="soulless4now"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]Daddy has his name bye bye. unless he gets a son from his second wife.

His name will die with him and the second wife could also give him a daughter.

chain why do you hate my dad? is it because he is MY dad? >.>

lol Technically I'm talking about my dad too since I'm his only kid meaning the last name dies with me as well. You'll get over it though. >.>
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#44 invisibletearsx
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Nope.

Too much work.

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#45 FMAB_GTO
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[QUOTE="soulless4now"]lol Technically I'm talking about my dad too since I'm his only kid meaning the last name dies with me as well. You'll get over it though. >.>

we have something else in common *o* Actually,I couldn't care less lool =P
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#46 johnd13
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In the future and after I have a stable job and earn a decent amount of money. I want 2-3 kids max and I hope not all of the same gender.

As for why because I want my "legacy" and genes to continue existing in this world after I will have gone to other worlds.

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inshaAllah.

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#48 Alter_Echo
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No. I probably won't be financially secure enough to raise them the way I would want before I'll be too old to have them.

And by "the way I would want" I mean giving them all the advantages and luxuries I never had like help with college, first cars, nice clothes, toys to play with, stuff that makes them happy etc etc.

I could manage if I were to have one now. I just want to do it the way I have in my head or not at all. Plus, there probably isn't another relationship in the world I would trust enough to get locked into for fear of being beaten for child support and having time with my child used against me.

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#49 deactivated-58061ea11c905
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No I don't like children. Besides I will never have enough money to support them.

Also I can't even find an attractive woman who would want to be my wife because I do have quite a lot of physical flaws.

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#50 WiiCubeM1
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I do, but not for a long while.