Do your friends call you?

So I've noticeits been more than a moth since a single close friend of mine has called me. I have two main friends and neither of them have call me. One came over my house one day and never heard from him again, the other I helped move like a month ago and she hasnt ever called me or anything since. Its really wierd since we were pretty much our only friends in school (we dun grajuated in June 5) and we would always be there for each other.

The funny thing that made me realize that its been a long time since I've heard from them was that yesrterday a little girl called me and I didnt know who it was. When she told me who she was and I couldnt believe it, I tought it was a joke. It was a girl I use to be cool with in one of my art classess. Now shes 15 and Im 18 so dont get any ideas. She called me to tell me she was pregnant (yeah I know right :? )and I after talking to her a I started thinking, "man where are my friends at? havent seen them in forever".

I felt like calling them, but I said **** it they obviously dont care about me, why do I have too chase after them. Im starting college in a week so I'll probably make some new friends then.

We rarely call each other. We either text or talk on the internet. We see each other all the time anyway.

We rarely call each other. We either text or talk on the internet. We see each other all the time anyway.

TheMightyHoov

My one good friend since we were kids calls once or twice a week to hang out. Been that way for a few years now. Also my cousins call me every now and again to go camping or do some partying. Could have a more exciting social life but I like to keep low profile most the time.

well why haven't you called them?

I'm rarely ever talking on the phone with friends unless I'm calling because we're supposed to meet up or something. I'm always texting someone 24/7 though. When's the last time you called one of your friends?SmittyPeppers

[QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

We rarely call each other. We either text or talk on the internet. We see each other all the time anyway.

J-WOW

I dont like talking on the phone much anyway. I like to see their face, but Im ok with texting and the like.

well why haven't you called them?

needled24-7

[QUOTE="J-WOW"][QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

We rarely call each other. We either text or talk on the internet. We see each other all the time anyway.

I dont like talking on the phone much anyway. I like to see their face, but Im ok with texting and the like.

[QUOTE="needled24-7"]

well why haven't you called them?

J-WOW

[QUOTE="SmittyPeppers"]I'm rarely ever talking on the phone with friends unless I'm calling because we're supposed to meet up or something. I'm always texting someone 24/7 though. When's the last time you called one of your friends?J-WOW

[QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

[QUOTE="J-WOW"] I dont have facebook and I dont text very often since I dont like it, Im old school I like face to faceJ-WOW

I dont like talking on the phone much anyway. I like to see their face, but Im ok with texting and the like.

It wont hurt to get back in touch with them. Maybe spend a night out with them. If it doesnt work out then you will make new friends.

[QUOTE="J-WOW"][QUOTE="needled24-7"]

well why haven't you called them?

[QUOTE="J-WOW"]

So I've noticeits been more than a moth since a single close friend of mine has called me. I have two main friends and neither of them have call me. One came over my house one day and never heard from him again, the other I helped move like a month ago and she hasnt ever called me or anything since. Its really wierd since we were pretty much our only friends in school (we dun grajuated in June 5) and we would always be there for each other.

The funny thing that made me realize that its been a long time since I've heard from them was that yesrterday a little girl called me and I didnt know who it was. When she told me who she was and I couldnt believe it, I tought it was a joke. It was a girl I use to be cool with in one of my art classess. Now shes 15 and Im 18 so dont get any ideas. She called me to tell me she was pregnant (yeah I know right :? )and I after talking to her a I started thinking, "man where are my friends at? havent seen them in forever".

I felt like calling them, but I said **** it they obviously dont care about me, why do I have too chase after them. Im starting college in a week so I'll probably make some new friends then.

You're a "fake friend" ,and you would drop ypur college "friends"more easily than your actual "friends." You should call the people you actually care about, considering they stopped calling you because they believe you stopped caring. It's your life, however, so do what you please.

[QUOTE="needled24-7"]

[QUOTE="J-WOW"] if you read my post then you would of known the answer to the questionJ-WOW

They could have been busy themselves. I know sometimes I would be too busy to talk to anyone sometimes.

The thing is you dont really know the circumstances and you are just speculating on negative conclusions. You are just making harder on yourself in thinking they dont care.

Just one friend calls which is one too many. I avoid those calls like the plague.

Just one friend calls which is one too many. I avoid those calls like the plague.

binpink

Me too. I tend to ignore calls because I hate talking on the phone that much. :P

[QUOTE="J-WOW"][QUOTE="needled24-7"]i did, but the way you said it, made it seem like the only time you thought about calling them was when you were on the phone with that girl. you are just as much at fault for not talking to them as they are for not talking to you.

They could have been busy themselves. I know sometimes I would be too busy to talk to anyone sometimes.

The thing is you dont really know the circumstances and you are just speculating on negative conclusions. You are just making harder on yourself in thinking they dont care.

[QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

[QUOTE="J-WOW"] well that was probably becuz I was doing all my college registration stuff last minute so I wasnt think about handing out with friends, but I fifnsh my college stuff last week and then I realize they hadnt called me or anything in a long time. I kind of feel like they have forgotten about me........J-WOW

They could have been busy themselves. I know sometimes I would be too busy to talk to anyone sometimes.

The thing is you dont really know the circumstances and you are just speculating on negative conclusions. You are just making harder on yourself in thinking they dont care.

You should take the initiative to call them.

[QUOTE="binpink"]

Just one friend calls which is one too many. I avoid those calls like the plague.

TheMightyHoov

Me too. I tend to ignore calls because I hate talking on the phone that much. :P

[QUOTE="binpink"]

Just one friend calls which is one too many. I avoid those calls like the plague.

TheMightyHoov

Me too. I tend to ignore calls because I hate talking on the phone that much. :P

Me too! Maybe cuz it's so on the spot, too much pressure or something. That and I'm lazy and a hermit and want to be left alone. :P

Yeah, they do. Not all the time, but pretty often. We like to make plans and hang out

[QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

[QUOTE="binpink"]

Just one friend calls which is one too many. I avoid those calls like the plague.

SmittyPeppers

Me too. I tend to ignore calls because I hate talking on the phone that much. :P

Im exactly like that. Its a toss up if I will actually answer lol

I ill watch my phone going "..........Nah"

[QUOTE="J-WOW"][QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

They could have been busy themselves. I know sometimes I would be too busy to talk to anyone sometimes.

The thing is you dont really know the circumstances and you are just speculating on negative conclusions. You are just making harder on yourself in thinking they dont care.

You should take the initiative to call them.

[QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

[QUOTE="binpink"]

Just one friend calls which is one too many. I avoid those calls like the plague.

binpink

Me too. I tend to ignore calls because I hate talking on the phone that much. :P

Me too! Maybe cuz it's so on the spot, too much pressure or something. That and I'm lazy and a hermit and want to be left alone. :P

It just makes me uncomfortable. My conversation flow smoothly when face to face but over the phone my mind goes blank and awkward silences ensue :P

[QUOTE="J-WOW"][QUOTE="InEMplease"]

You're a "fake friend" ,and you would drop ypur college "friends"more easily than your actual "friends." You should call the people you actually care about, considering they stopped calling you because they believe you stopped caring. It's your life, however, so do what you please.

So what stopped you? If you want, you can easily call a few friends, tell them to be wherever whenever, tell the to tell a few friends, and then you've got a kick-ass reunion. If something happens, just reschedule. Use facebook.

[QUOTE="J-WOW"][QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

They could have been busy themselves. I know sometimes I would be too busy to talk to anyone sometimes.

The thing is you dont really know the circumstances and you are just speculating on negative conclusions. You are just making harder on yourself in thinking they dont care.

Maybe you will call tomorrow as well. There are friends who are there with you forever, no matter how often you call. Maybe you have a few of these friends. Maybe you don't.

[QUOTE="J-WOW"][QUOTE="InEMplease"]

Maybe you will call tomorrow as well. There are friends who are there with you forever, no matter how often you call. Maybe you have a few of these friends. Maybe you don't.

You came to us...

As I have said, live as you please.

[QUOTE="J-WOW"][QUOTE="InEMplease"]

You came to us...

As I have said, live as you please.

Haha. Now, what's stopping you from confronting one of your old friends that you actually once cared about?

So I've noticeits been more than a moth since a single close friend of mine has called me. I have two main friends and neither of them have call me. One came over my house one day and never heard from him again, the other I helped move like a month ago and she hasnt ever called me or anything since. Its really wierd since we were pretty much our only friends in school (we dun grajuated in June 5) and we would always be there for each other.

The funny thing that made me realize that its been a long time since I've heard from them was that yesrterday a little girl called me and I didnt know who it was. When she told me who she was and I couldnt believe it, I tought it was a joke. It was a girl I use to be cool with in one of my art classess. Now shes 15 and Im 18 so dont get any ideas. She called me to tell me she was pregnant (yeah I know right :? )and I after talking to her a I started thinking, "man where are my friends at? havent seen them in forever".

I felt like calling them, but I said **** it they obviously dont care about me, why do I have too chase after them. Im starting college in a week so I'll probably make some new friends then.J-WOW

We rarely ever talk on the phone. We do text and talk online often, though.

[QUOTE="J-WOW"]I felt like calling them, but I said **** it they obviously dont care about me, why do I have too chase after them. Im starting college in a week so I'll probably make some new friends then.

Hexagon_777

They probably think the same. Don't be stubborn. Organise something!

maybe just maybe

Nope, my friends and I text eachother, when I get a phonecall from them it's usually a prank call.

Close friends? Calls? What are you talking about? (never)