What do you guys think ? Does love exist and does it fade away and do you really think teenage love is true love or is it somekind of unwiseness.
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i am against the fact that as soon as a girl falls in love with a guy she directly sleeps with him. cuz this puts them as a victim to other men and thats sad to see a nice girl with morals turning slutty over time. AND the thing she says i loved him. arabi_89
those are some extreme generalizations :?
Of course it exists. People don't usually know what it is though. And they get it confused and ruin their lives.
The love between a mother and child is unchanging and there is absolutely nothing that can defeat/change that love, nothing.
If a son pulled a gun on his mother, the mother would still love him with every fiber of her being. If someone is willing to risk their life for something I consider that love, although sometimes they can be misguided...
[QUOTE="dragonlife29"]Love is an illusion, fools! :xlzorro
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[QUOTE="dragonlife29"][QUOTE="lzorro"][QUOTE="dragonlife29"]Love is an illusion, fools! :xlzorro
Apathy.
If anything I think teenage love can be more powerful than adult love. Teenagers are like emotion factories that exagerate the drama behind events by a multiple of 10. As a result feelings like love, rejection, jealously, and sorrow often hit teens that much harder because of it.
The idea that teenage love is only puppy love or lust stems from a cultural belief that "real" love requires a given level of maturity. I disagree. While I would agree that love takes on many forms, I think belittling the love between teenagers or even younger children is a big mistake.
As for growing older and having love dissapate... I think it would be more accurate to say that it often takes on a different form. Many couples don't love each other after 30 years the same way they did as newlyweds.
Edit: Oh, and of course sometimes people fall out of love, and sometimes they end up hating each other for that matter.
We also have raging hormones... Or at least the ones going through puberty. I've seen people do weird things in the name of love.. Namely stealing my car and TP'ing that girl's boyfriend's house..If anything I think teenage love can be more powerful than adult love. Teenagers are like emotion factories that exagerate the drama behind events by a multiple of 10. As a result feelings like love, rejection, jealously, and sorrow often hit teens that much harder because of it.
The idea that teenage love is only puppy love or lust stems from a cultural belief that "real" love requires a given level of maturity. I disagree. While I would agree that love takes on many forms, I think belittling the love between teenagers or even younger children is a big mistake.
As for growing older and having love dissapate... I think it would be more accurate to say that it often takes on a different form. Many couples don't love each other after 30 years the same way they did as newlyweds.
Schwah
- Yes love exists
- No it does not "fade away." It can disappear, but it does not fade away.
- Teenage love is lust, plain and simple. There is more love in teenage friendship than there is teenage relationships
foxhound_fox
True, apart from your last point. My grandmother and grandfather met when they were thirteen, and they're still very much in love. I agree though, most teenage love is indeed just lust.
Edit: I think it's impossible to define the word "love". There are six billion different meanings of the word, so to some love may not exist, yet to others it could be everywhere. It's all down to the individual.
Sanskrit has ninety-six words for love, ancient Persian has eighty, Greek three and English only one. So alot of feelings can be described under the word "love", where as a Sanskrit speaker could use one word to describe his love for his horse. I guess it all falls down to the individuals definition of the word "love".
I don't know why the hell I just wrote all that :shock:
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