Does my coworker like me more than a friend?

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#1 foreignGuy1
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Well she's 23 I'm 20 and idk if she likes me or not she gives me hints she does for example she said I love it when you're here. Then she always find a way to be near me like she stood in front of me her boobs were touching my arm and whenever she hand me something she does it gentle and slowly so our hands can touch .she rub her fingers on my back when she walked past me asking me something. Whenever we're working together she talks to me non stop and even stares at me sometimes sshe is seeing someone tho she mentioned but what do you think?

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#3  Edited By madsnakehhh
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Before my coworker and i began dating, she was all the time talking to me getting my attention and since we were friends for a few years already, the change in her attitude was pretty obvious, she grabbed my arm, her eyes always made contact with mine in a very peculiar way, there were always subtle touches with her hand, our legs, etc. so going with that experience, i'll say that you coworker probably likes you.

However...if she is seeing someone...do not involve with her in any way until she is single, first of all make sure that you are not getting mixed signs, however and if you are 100% sure that she likes you, you need to know if she has a BF, you'll probably going to find out a lot in a casual conversation where you can ask her out.

Almost forgot...do you like her?

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#4  Edited By RichieTickles
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She's probably teasing you, but if you wanna be sure, she if she wants to hang out and "not" drink alcohol at your place. News Flash: "not" drinking loosens people up to say things they normally wouldn't.

Also, doesn't matter if there's a bf. GF/BF's are like jobs, a person should always be searching for a better one while spouses are the careers u keep for 10+ years.

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#5  Edited By elkoldo
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The **** you waiting for? Bang her.

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#6 Master_Live
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@elkoldo said:

The **** you waiting for? Bang her.

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#7 johnd13
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You seem comfortable with each other so just ask her if she has a boyfriend. If she replies yes, then say sth like "Well and I was going to ask you out, nvm" and see where it goes. If she replies no just ask her out. From your description it certainly sounds like she wants the D unless she simply enjoys teasing younger boys.

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@madsnakehhh said:

However...if she is seeing someone...do not involve with her in any way until she is single

Yes to the rest of your post except for this part... What I mean is, if I liked a girl with a boyfriend and I was getting the feeling that she liked me too, I wouldn't just stand back and wait for her to be single before making a move... She might not ever be single if the guy is decent enough and she feels like I'm keeping a distance. Of course I wouldn't go all homerun on her ass, but you have to find a balance between respectful distance and letting her know that you're interested. The "if you want to be with me great, I'm all for it, but me and only me".

Of course maybe I just interpreted your definition of "involve" the wrong way.

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#9 fenriz275
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Don't date a coworker unless it's a job you know is short term.

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#10 VaguelyTagged
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is she hot?

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#11 deactivated-5b797108c254e
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Why are you asking us? Ask her! If she's comfortable rubbing her breasts on your arm she's probably comfortable enough answering a simple question.

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#12  Edited By foreignGuy1
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Well guys I asked her for kik she said she doesn't use it, but I know she has text, so I need an opportunity to ask her for it. When we do talk, she talks the most, eliminating me from getting a chance to ask her before customers come. I'm writing her a poem I will hand it to her, is that okay guys? Also yes I do like her she's cute

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#14  Edited By deactivated-598fc45371265
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@foreignguy1 said:

I'm writing her a poem I will hand it to her, is that okay guys? Also yes I do like her she's cute

a poem eh?

Red Hot

The first thing I noticed

Was the sun on her red hair

Turning it to blazing fire

As it tumbled

Onto the white flesh of her shoulders

The pastel shades

Of her meager top

Struggled to contain the vibrancy of her breasts

And her naked midriff tantalized

The waistband of her skirt sat on her hips

While the white cotton below

Encased her rolling buttocks and strong thighs

A gust of summer breeze

Lifted her skirt allowing glimpses of her white thighs

Then as she walked

The sunlight behind her illuminated her form

More than hinting at the delights

Contained within the cotton of her skirt

My thoughts then turned

From her flaming red hair

To a burning desire

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#15 madsnakehhh
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@ianhh6 said:
@madsnakehhh said:

However...if she is seeing someone...do not involve with her in any way until she is single

Yes to the rest of your post except for this part... What I mean is, if I liked a girl with a boyfriend and I was getting the feeling that she liked me too, I wouldn't just stand back and wait for her to be single before making a move... She might not ever be single if the guy is decent enough and she feels like I'm keeping a distance. Of course I wouldn't go all homerun on her ass, but you have to find a balance between respectful distance and letting her know that you're interested. The "if you want to be with me great, I'm all for it, but me and only me".

Of course maybe I just interpreted your definition of "involve" the wrong way.

I probably didn't it put it correctly when i said involved, what i was trying to said is that sometimes a girl would just search for some "innocent fun" while her BF is not around (movies, meals, dance)...or even some not so innocent fun and both are incredible dangerous for you, but yeah i'm also agree with what you are saying.

@foreignguy1 Nah don't do it man, at least not now, also you definitely seem to have a crush on her already, and if she is not using KiK she still probably has Facebook or What's App, so next time your conversation is interrupted you might want to tell her, i'll text you later but i don't have your phone number.

From there you should definitely ask if she has a BF because you would love to ask her out.

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@Master_Live said:
@elkoldo said:

The **** you waiting for? Bang her.

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#18 themajormayor
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@thegerg said:

Ask her, not us.

No, ask us.

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@VaguelyTagged said:

is she hot?

Is she nice?

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#20  Edited By VaguelyTagged
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@trevorzyla said:

@VaguelyTagged said:

is she hot?

Is she nice?

lame.

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#21 johnd13
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@foreignguy1 said:

I'm writing her a poem I will hand it to her, is that okay guys?

What are you like 8? lol

Just ask her if she has a boyfriend. Asking won't take more than 5 seconds.

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#22 DaVillain  Moderator
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Everyone's given the poor kid a hard time. Okay first thing to do is, ask her do you like me or not? That's how ya ask son. Simple as that. Have anymore question, please feel free to ask us in OT for love advice and good luck kid, you need it.

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#23 deactivated-598fc45371265
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@johnd13 said:

@foreignguy1 said:

I'm writing her a poem I will hand it to her, is that okay guys?

What are you like 8? lol

Dude, if it's a good poem then she might be really turned on.

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#24 comp_atkins
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it sounds like sexual harassment. better take it up with hr

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#25  Edited By bforrester420
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It sounds like she's into you. She's definitely sending signals.

Do NOT give her a poem. If you've been dating her for a couple of weeks/months, then it's okay.

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#26 bforrester420
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@Storm_Marine said:

@johnd13 said:

@foreignguy1 said:

I'm writing her a poem I will hand it to her, is that okay guys?

What are you like 8? lol

Dude, if it's a good poem then she might be really turned on.

And if she isn't into him and/or it isn't a good poem, he might get made fun of unmercifully by his friends and coworkers for the foreseeable future.

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#27 Treflis
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You could always ask her in a casual manner when you're working alone again.
Something of the lines of " Hey, I've been wondering about a thing. You think I'm dateable? Like, would you date me if we had just met at a bar or something?"
And if she replied that she would you could just go " So wanna go on a date with me then?"
And then depending on her reaction you can either just blow it off as a tease or set a time and date.

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#28 deactivated-598fc45371265
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@bforrester420 said:

@Storm_Marine said:

@johnd13 said:

@foreignguy1 said:

I'm writing her a poem I will hand it to her, is that okay guys?

What are you like 8? lol

Dude, if it's a good poem then she might be really turned on.

And if she isn't into him and/or it isn't a good poem, he might get made fun of unmercifully by his friends and coworkers for the foreseeable future.

That's why it has to be a good poem.

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#29 johnd13
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@Storm_Marine said:

@bforrester420 said:

@Storm_Marine said:

@johnd13 said:

@foreignguy1 said:

I'm writing her a poem I will hand it to her, is that okay guys?

What are you like 8? lol

Dude, if it's a good poem then she might be really turned on.

And if she isn't into him and/or it isn't a good poem, he might get made fun of unmercifully by his friends and coworkers for the foreseeable future.

That's why it has to be a good poem.

He should give her your poem.