does this mean i dont have a life?

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#1 sabbath2gamer
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well i spend most of my time on the computer like hours a day

but i do go to school i workout everyday and im a balck belt (i go to karate clases every tuesadya and thurseday)

i have lots of friends (but the main thing that bothers me is that they dont go out much like to parties and such so that basically leaves me not going since i dont want to go to a party and be a loner you know)

but i have alot of fun when im playing games with random ppl and we talk and i spend alot of time on the GS forums since the ppl here are pretty kik back but it just gets to me since i have two sisters that go to clubs likeevery day and sometiems i feel like im missing out on something but i dont have a car and im only 16 o i can go out much

so what are your opinions anyone else feel like this

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#2 CptJSparrow
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No, being dead means that you do not have a life.
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#3 Scarface_tm431
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Not at all, and parties and clubs are really overrated.
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#4 Krigen89
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You live the life you CAN live.. so you're fine. No one can live a perfect life, we all have to work/go to school, we all have financial contraints (more or less depending...), you have stuff to do like do your laundry, go to the grocery store, etc. on top of your regular activities (gym, karate, etc). It's only normal that you can't do everything you'd like to do...

NOW, if you want things to change, you just might have to make friends with people that go out/do whatever else you feel like doing with friends.

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#5 Krigen89
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Not at all, and parties and clubs are really overrated.Scarface_tm431

That's ssssoooooo wrong... latino club chicks >>>>>>>>> anything else on earth.

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#6 jc_xbox_regnier
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If you have friends...you have a life...lol

and you said that you're doing karate...so it's not like if you were always on the computer...

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well i spend most of my time on the computer like hours a day

but i do go to school i workout everyday and im a balck belt (i go to karate clases every tuesadya and thurseday)

i have lots of friends (but the main thing that bothers me is that they dont go out much like to parties and such so that basically leaves me not going since i dont want to go to a party and be a loner you know)

but i have alot of fun when im playing games with random ppl and we talk and i spend alot of time on the GS forums since the ppl here are pretty kik back but it just gets to me since i have two sisters that go to clubs likeevery day and sometiems i feel like im missing out on something but i dont have a car and im only 16 o i can go out much

so what are your opinions anyone else feel like this

sabbath2gamer

lol im exactly the same, when i get back home from college i get straight on my computer, i have mates from college on xfire so i just talk to them that way, besides its over an hours journey for me to get to where my college is so its even furhter if i wana get to my mates' houses...

there are also college parties every now and then but from general feedback it seems that they usually suck, plus most of us are under 18 so the chances of actually having fun, or doing anything at all are slim...

i wouldnt worry about it, when you go to uni, or get a job later you will probly tend to hang around more as you'll have more freedom, thats what i intend to do anyway, for now whenever i get money i buy more games to play with my mates :P

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#8 tman93
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It depends are you happy with yourself and where your at? If you awnsered yes then congrats, you have a life.
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#9 ernie1989
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That's similar to how I live my life, but I would recommend that you at least try something new every once in a while. You never know if there's something you didn't think you'd like but would end up liking a lot.
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#11 Luncbox1
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Don't live your life by how society expects you to live it. That's only one way (and usually not a very fulfilling way) to live your life. Do whatever the hell you want to do and leave it at that.
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#12 duxup
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You've got friends, you've got some different hobbies you participate in. You get some exercise. Sounds like a life to me.

Don't go believing those body spray ads or what TVs and movies have to say. Your life is yours, provided you're healthy, happy, not hurting anyone it's all good.

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#13 AAllxxjjnn
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Don't live your life by how society expects you to live it. That's only one way (and usually not a very fulfilling way) to live your life. Do whatever the hell you want to do and leave it at that.Luncbox1

Couldn't have said it better myself.

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#14 -theCHUD-
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i dont have a life, i have a few friends and stay at home a lot playing games, internet, tv. i go to school and work and thats it. i go out to parties and bars but not very frequently at all, i've probably done these things like 5 times this school year.

i usually go out for dining, movies, beaches and biking

last night me and my roommates hung out, had a few drinks and such and they asked me to go to a party with them, i said no and they were so disappointed. one went as far as to say "who are you? when did you lose your penis and get a vagina is it that time of the month?" it bothered me a bit but for him its so strange to see a college guy not going out to every party. i know they like me but they also think i'm weird cause i'm not like them i guess. now i got to turn them down for 420 and i don't think that'll turn out well

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#15 TheSystemLord1
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Sounds like you have a perfectly balanced life to me. Parties and clubs are more often than not for people who have no lives. They are great every once in awhile, but the people you find there week in and week out need to grow up a little bit.
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#16 buxboy
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well i spend most of my time on the computer like hours a day

but i do go to school i workout everyday and im a balck belt (i go to karate clases every tuesadya and thurseday)

i have lots of friends (but the main thing that bothers me is that they dont go out much like to parties and such so that basically leaves me not going since i dont want to go to a party and be a loner you know)

but i have alot of fun when im playing games with random ppl and we talk and i spend alot of time on the GS forums since the ppl here are pretty kik back but it just gets to me since i have two sisters that go to clubs likeevery day and sometiems i feel like im missing out on something but i dont have a car and im only 16 o i can go out much

so what are your opinions anyone else feel like this

sabbath2gamer
The whole karate thing is sort of a nerd thing but who am I to judge? Gamespot is my home page.
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#17 BusyEricT
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Perhaps the question should be: Do you think you have a life? Forget our opinions, the only thing that matters is if you're happy or not.
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#18 -Phaz-
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Theres no such thing as 'no life' its just a different lifestyle than what someone else might enjoy, however on the social front, im at your age and on school terms i go to parties every couple of weeks and in the holidays, every couple of days theres parties that i go to, just make friends with some of the people that go to them so you dont feel like a loner.
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#19 ebbderelict
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Not at all, and parties and clubs are really overrated.Scarface_tm431
Agreed.
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#20 RainandSunshine
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I think guys who talk about having black belts in karate are funny. Because most of them still can't defened themselves.
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#21 Gigagamer2
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u still have a life, dont worry about it. Im like you, i spend a lot of time on the computer. Hell, im a brown belt in karate, and im not much of a party animal. Id much rather just do random stuff with mates then drink drink drink
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#22 chief_527
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Not at all, and parties and clubs are really overrated.Scarface_tm431

No there not.....

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#23 sabbath2gamer
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well thanks see this is why i like th GS forums wise ppl heck most of these reply soundled like quotes

ps. the 2 guys that said karate is for nerds and cant defend themselves is true but im the type of guy that like to prove them wrong i guess you can say im fit i have the body and when i do get into fights i usually always win and thats all thanks to the 11 years of karae iv been in.

but once again thank you all i guess its true one user said ppl that go to clubs week in and week out do need to grow up abit

and ill try to make friends with ppl so i can experemt more but your right its not good to party everyday.

thaks that makes me feel alot better

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[QUOTE="Scarface_tm431"]Not at all, and parties and clubs are really overrated.Krigen89

That's ssssoooooo wrong... latino club chicks >>>>>>>>> anything else on earth.

throw in some asian chicks and I'm sold

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#25 chief_527
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well thanks see this is why i like th GS forums wise ppl heck most of these reply soundled like quotes

ps. the 2 guys that said karate is for nerds and cant defend themselves is true but im the type of guy that like to prove them wrong i guess you can say im fit i have the body and when i do get into fights i usually always win and thats all thanks to the 11 years of karae iv been in.

but once again thank you all i guess its true one user said ppl that go to clubs week in and week out do need to grow up abit

and ill try to make friends with ppl so i can experemt more but your right its not good to party everyday.

thaks that makes me feel alot better

sabbath2gamer

Ok so your 16 and you telling me that people that go to clubs need to grow up a bit? yeah that very sincere, since you probably haven't been to a 21 an over club. People that enjoy music girls/boys and like to have a good time go to clubs. I'm not insulting the way you live. In the contrary, everyone has their own life style but don't be hypocrite.

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#26 greenprince
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Dude you have a life, partying or drinking does not determine if you're happy or have a life ( trust me I experimented in college) Just live your life as you to live it as, don't listen to the guy who thinks his life****is superior to yours because you don't go to parties every-week or get wasted. Seriously if you're happy then you have a life, trust me, I learned this the hard way. I use to believe in order to have a life that you needed to be popular, have alot of friends, go to parties every-week and get wasted. Yet I learned throughout the years that I wasn't happy of what I was doing, live your life and if life has taught me anything, is that to Love others and feel their appreciation, that's the greatest experience I ever felt that no drug can replace.
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#27 big_boss4life
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[QUOTE="Scarface_tm431"]Not at all, and parties and clubs are really overrated.Krigen89

That's ssssoooooo wrong... latino club Dudes >>>>>>>>> anything else on earth.

Fixed :p

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#28 moptopskate
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your only 16 im sure you will get better friends sooner or later in college or something.
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#29 SpootyHead
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Nah. Sounds like you have a life. You're only 16, no? Even if you are a junior in high school, don't feel so down about not going out all the time. Like you said, you don't have your own wheels too. You'll eventually start hanging out more, finding more people, and a lot of the parties I've gone to my junior year, are lame (alcohol or not). If you don't hang out when you're in college though, then you can say you don't have a life.
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#30 TheSystemLord1
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Ok so your 16 and you telling me that people that go to clubs need to grow up a bit? yeah that very sincere, since you probably haven't been to a 21 an over club. People that enjoy music girls/boys and like to have a good time go to clubs. I'm not insulting the way you live. In the contrary, everyone has their own life style but don't be hypocrite.

chief_527

What about people that do that stuff week in and week out?

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#31 albi321
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No you are not a loser, most of your social life will take place in college.
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#32 sandroDX
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Everyone has a life...
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#33 stefanlek
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In my humble opinion you don't have a life. This is because you question whether you have a life when you clearly do.

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#34 Elraptor
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You may be more social when you're in college or whatever. I wouldn't worry about it now.
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#35 X360PS3AMD05
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I have no job, i have no friends, i'm not in school, that's the definition of not having a life :D Oh and i'm 19.
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#36 SpootyHead
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[QUOTE="chief_527"]

Ok so your 16 and you telling me that people that go to clubs need to grow up a bit? yeah that very sincere, since you probably haven't been to a 21 an over club. People that enjoy music girls/boys and like to have a good time go to clubs. I'm not insulting the way you live. In the contrary, everyone has their own life style but don't be hypocrite.

TheSystemLord1

What about people that do that stuff week in and week out?

Clubbing is fun every once in a while, but it requires money, and only the rich brats that mommy and daddy give money to, and then people who work and make enough to budget for fun, can do that stuff. Don't feel too bad that you aren't going to clubs man. The clubs by me, you noly go cuz of the sex, drugs, and music, and really, none of it is worth it.

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#37 ebbderelict
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I think guys who talk about having black belts in karate are funny. Because most of them still can't defened themselves. RainandSunshine
I could be wrong here, as I've never taken any sort of martial arts, but isn't a lot of Karate supposed to be about learning focus, and self-discipline? To trivialize it: More Miyagi and less Cobra Kai?
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#38 mingo123
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everyone has a life...the no life thingy is just sad crap made up by losers

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#39 mingo123
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I have no job, i have no friends, i'm not in school, that's the definition of not having a life :D Oh and i'm 19.X360PS3AMD05

you still have a life...and who knows...you might be enjoying ur life more then those with jobs, gazillion friends and people who go school

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#40 iam2green
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u have a life. u go to karate class, u said u work out. u have a life. its people that stay home and play video games all day is who don't have a life.
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#41 mingo123
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u have a life. u go to karate class, u said u work out. u have a life. its people that stay home and play video games all day is who don't have a life.iam2green

yes they do

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#42 bobaban
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I have no job, i have no friends, i'm not in school, that's the definition of not having a life :D Oh and i'm 19.X360PS3AMD05

You and me both. I wonder why I ever get out of bed.

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#43 Nwordjohn
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If you're doing what you want to do and having fun with it then who cares? You're enjoying your life, not someone else's idea of how you should be living. Clubs and parties (at least here) are usually lame to begin with. A bunch of preppy kids driving their parents cars and talking about each other, playing music that blows, not my idea of a good time. I do like parties as much as the next person, but only when with friends and in good taste.

On the topic though, do what you want and you'll be fine.

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#44 YRMA-JAR
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you obviously do have a life if you have friends and stuff :) why dont you try going to a club or whatever to see if you like it or not?
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#45 Guiltfeeder566
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Peoples definition of life varies from person to person. You have a life. You don't need to go put to parties and clubs to have one.
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#46 ice_radon
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No, being dead means that you do not have a life.CptJSparrow
Word. But I would say you should prolly get out more anyways.