Dont you hate it when they ask you if your rich?

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#1 chucholucho
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Maybe its just me, im considered to be a priveleged young man with a family that supports him entirely during his studies, though Im not full of money that comes entirely from heredity, my family has struggled the past 15 years to be in the economic status were right now.

The thing that annoys me about this is that you can never tellwhich of the both ways the person is asking the question, (of course when dealing with acquaintances or soon to be friends.)...: the serious, or the just messing around type.

Then, any answer you give backis used against you! If you say yes.... "oh EXCUUUUSEEEE MEEEEEE ......how modest"... if you say no... they mock about it anyway... "sure, your not rich, look at your monitor and your PS3 and your fashionable clothes".... it frustrates the hell out of me...

The strange thing is that its normal that poor people keepshouting "Im poor man! I dont have any money" to every person they encounter, though its strange to see a person say "Im so rich man I have a PS3 I have a lot of money I bought 4 games yesterday", (though im not saying the latter is appropiate).... why is saying your poor accepted then?

And lastly, try asking a guy .. "Hey man, are you poor? now that should create an uprise from some... how is it different from asking a stupid queston that you probably know the answer to, and then pick on the person no matter what their answer is.

Its been a while since I added a topic, so I expect lots of mistakes both in meaning and structure...

Out.

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#2 double_decker
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It doesn't matter to me anyways, so I never ask. I work hard but will probably never make alot of money. I have rich relatives that are down to earth and respect me even if I am not in their economic class. If someone flaunts it then I don't even bother asking it, just move on and find people I relate with
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#3 Putzwapputzen
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no i dont hate it at all. im not rich myself. i know im not, i dont mind, sure i wish that i was rich but i dont care if people ask me that quesiton or not. but i do understand where ur coming from. i knwo its none of peoples businesses to know whether or not your rich or not. soo i do understand ur pov. but me personally i dont care.
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#4 Fortier
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I used to resent rich kids, until I realized how absolutely moronic I was being. I only dislike people who think they are better because they're rich, otherwiseI don't give a damn about your economic status.
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#5 Banestyrelsen
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I would wager people make fun of you because they can tell it's a big deal for you. Don't just say "yes", take command and say "Hell yeah! I got money coming out of my ears! I could buy your soul if I wanted".
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#6 trav_have
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I didnt feel like reading your whole post, but I got the basis of it.

I have to say this: I hate when people ask if Im rich, since I have a PS3, Wii, Widescreen TV and a hottub and stuff. In no ways am I rich. I bought my PS3 by myself, the Wii and the TV. But it was hard worked money, and after I bought the stuff I was broke, and re-earned everything again. The hot-tub, well, thats just one of the many things my mom has bought herself without needing it, without actually having the money. Pays it off over time.

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#7 freshgman
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Economic status doesnt really matter to me. If you think you better than everyone than you'll be missing out
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#8 double_decker
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Pays it off over time.

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Yeah, alot of people live off loans and such (not that you are one of these) and appear wealthy but are just dodging the day when things catch up with them and lose everything
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#9 Charlie_Weasley
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TC, people ask you that because they know you don't like it. No one likes you, you have no friends, and you'll be a virgin forever.
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#10 EmilioDigsIt
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Maybe you should stop flashing your Benjamins at me every time you drive by in your Caddy with 20s.
I think that'll stop me from making fun of your richness.
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#11 clubhaxor
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Yeah at schoool my friends say 'you're family is so rich' all the time. I took them all out to dinner andmymum paid for all their dinners and for weeks all they could saywas ' omg you're so spoilt and rich that your parents can pay for all that' ...I just look at them like this :| You'd think they'd be appreciative but they turn it into a negative. And they always complain about my parents giving me money and not having to work like they do and when I go to uni I won't need a jobtopayforaccommodationetc it's just so annoying.I agree that I usually get whatever I want but they always tell me that....Think they should mind their own business.

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#12 chucholucho
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I just feel its stupid to ask something you already know the answer for... because being RICH relies on your own sole perception of it....(the one that answers the question)... it doesnt realllymatter what one answers cause its not gonna change the wayhe or she thinks..... everyone has its own perception of being rich...having a lot of money, or maybe buying lots of stuff, spending lots of cash in the weekends..... what I dont understand is why asking someone if he's poor not socially accepted...or widely used... at least where im from and I guess here in the states as well... it makes more sense to ask if a person is poor because maybe he or she is indeed rich but likes to save a lot of money, or hes more the humble plain kind of person, or maybe he's indeed troubled financially...

haha... I dunno maybe im taking it too far.

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#13 quadraleap
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People that flaunt such things are really weak in other areas and they probably unaware of why they are even doing it...but yeah, material worth is nothing if you dont have substance.

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#14 FootFetish24
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i am rich. its a social tool. good for me in benefit on the long run.
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#15 double_decker
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People that flaunt such things are really weak in other areas and they probably unaware of why they are even doing it...but yeah, material worth is nothing if you dont have substance.

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I have substance but no wealth, I have no balance:cry:
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#16 chucholucho
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Incorrect at all senses. And if you read closely people that usually ask you dont really know you, how would they know you dont like it? it is annoying Ill tell you that, but its more stupid ..

and ive broken some cherries too

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#17 quadraleap
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[QUOTE="quadraleap"]

People that flaunt such things are really weak in other areas and they probably unaware of why they are even doing it...but yeah, material worth is nothing if you dont have substance.

double_decker

I have substance but no wealth, I have no balance:cry:

You have the more valuable thing -

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#18 double_decker
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You have the more valuable thing -

quadraleap
but which to choose, being rich and having the easy life or being poor with substance and working hard and barely making enough
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#19 chucholucho
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[QUOTE="quadraleap"]

You have the more valuable thing -

double_decker

but which to choose, being rich and having the easy life or being poor with substance and working hard and barely making enough

If you have substance and work hard chances are your reach high only if you truly believe it.

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#20 quadraleap
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[QUOTE="quadraleap"]

You have the more valuable thing -

double_decker

but which to choose, being rich and having the easy life or being poor with substance and working hard and barely making enough

Each has its own hell, but at least earning your way you learn your way. Peace of mind is key to either predicament. Too many variables for me to ponder right now. ;)

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#21 double_decker
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Each has its own hell, but at least earning your way you learn your way. Peace of mind is key to either predicament. Too many variables for me to ponder right now. ;)

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I know, peace of mind is something neither of us will probably never have:(
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#22 double_decker
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If you have substance and work hard chances are your reach high only if you truly believe it.

chucholucho
I'm sorry but I didn't understand that:?
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#23 quadraleap
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[QUOTE="quadraleap"]

Each has its own hell, but at least earning your way you learn your way. Peace of mind is key to either predicament. Too many variables for me to ponder right now. ;)

double_decker

I know, peace of mind is something neither of us will probably never have:(

Never forget the life raft, even if it is a fragment.

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#24 double_decker
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Never forget the life raft, even if it is a fragment.

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I'll be waiting, oars in hand;)
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#25 X360PS3AMD05
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Never asked it just assumed...................but i am poor :P
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#26 quadraleap
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[QUOTE="quadraleap"]

Never forget the life raft, even if it is a fragment.

double_decker

I'll be waiting, oars in hand;)

...gently down the stream, hopefully.

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#27 double_decker
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...gently down the stream, hopefully.

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They would never find us 8)
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#28 serbsta69
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No i dont really mind, im not rich but ive got quite a bit of money, well i consider rich to be someone with a lot of money, and that certainly isnt me.
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#29 double_decker
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No i dont really mind, im not rich but ive got quite a bit of money, well i consider rich to be someone with a lot of money, and that certainly isnt me.serbsta69
Damn I was going to ask you for money too:(:P
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#30 omerdv
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I don't care what they say, I say I will be someday...now I have pretty much a good amount of money for a 15 year old.....

ARE YOU RICH? ARE YOU MAD AT ME NOW? :P

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#31 quadraleap
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[QUOTE="quadraleap"]

...gently down the stream, hopefully.

double_decker

They would never find us 8)

...as long as we didnt leave a trail of beer cans. ;)

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#32 double_decker
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...as long as we didnt leave a trail of beer cans. ;)

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If they followed them they wouldnt like the result when they caught up with us;)
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#33 dreamdude
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Tell them that it bothers you and if their your friends then they should respect you.