Easiest ways to move on from a 1+ year relationship?

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#1 Daffy101
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any advice?

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Layla is a good song.
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Cruise the internet for some sites I can recommend to you personally ;)
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#4 pianist
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Be patient and keep busy.  If you cared about the relationship, it will hurt for a while.  But the feeling will always subside.  Time is really good for killing romantic emotions, and so you just have to keep yourself occupied while your brain accustoms itself to being single again.
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#5 Solid_Link22
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You know what they say it takes whatever time you spent with someone to get over them.
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#6 nobodyshero87
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I would suggest posting on GS , play videogames with your friends , hang out with your friends and just stay active...
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#7 users-name
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u cud go have a one night stand
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#8 Daffy101
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Be patient and keep busy.  If you cared about the relationship, it will hurt for a while.  But the feeling will always subside.  Time is really good for killing romantic emotions, and so you just have to keep yourself occupied while your brain accustoms itself to being single again.pianist

I've been keeping myself busy but at night I'm not really busy. I try to play video games but I keep thinkin about it. I don't think there's really anything to do except keep busy and let time go by.
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You know what they say it takes whatever time you spent with someone to get over them.
Solid_Link22
I thought it was every 1 month is 1 week of being sad about it. I watch too much scrubs...
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#11 badaboom187
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go out and hang out with people, have fun
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#12 foxhound_fox
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Uh... move on? That is all you really can do... there is no thing that can "make" or "help" you move on. You just have to do it.
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#13 funnymario
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Take up a job/sport? You'll have other things to think about that way
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[QUOTE="pianist"]Be patient and keep busy. If you cared about the relationship, it will hurt for a while. But the feeling will always subside. Time is really good for killing romantic emotions, and so you just have to keep yourself occupied while your brain accustoms itself to being single again.Daffy101

I've been keeping myself busy but at night I'm not really busy. I try to play video games but I keep thinkin about it. I don't think there's really anything to do except keep busy and let time go by.

Yeah, you'll feel like that for a while. It's unavoidable and beyond your control, really. People will tell you to just let it go, but it isn't that simple. They should instead say "just wait it out." That's advice that is actually realistic. Just try to stay optimistic - and remember that there are advantages to being single that you may not see at the moment. After a while, you may begin to appreciate the freedom your situation offers, for instance.

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#16 04JETTA
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jus kno taht every day is a nu day and that if u wait it out your life will evolve and be better then ever bfore
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#18 metallica_fan42
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Grab a tub of rocky road ice cream and watch re-runs of Saved by the Bell.
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#19 slateman_basic
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Friends. Go out with them all the time. Keep busy. The busier you are, the less chance you have to think about it.
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#20 bminns
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don't stay in touch with your ex, and hang out with your buds a lot.
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#21 1ND1FF3R3NT
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Make sure you cry, because it's good. If you don't want to be seen, then do it in private, but you need to cry a little.

After that, I'd reccomend doing a lot of crazy s*** with your friends...and burning things.

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#22 zeus_gb
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any advice?Daffy101

There is no easy way.

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#23 mattes2542
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Just tell yourself its her loss and not yours.
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#24 X360PS3AMD05
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it wasn't meant to be and accept it....that is if it really wasn't meant to be :? You should also read this.
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#25 O_Rly_FTW
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