Ever been dumped for 'liking a girl too much' ?!

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#1 Brazil_Surfer
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I was having a very casual relationship with this girl, we hooked up a couple of times on weekend and texted each other now and again. On friday I was hanging out with her in a club, upon leaving she said she didn't want to see me anymore because I 'like her too much'. I couldn't really think of any response to that , was deffinitely a first because I thought that was a good thing. Any of you heard this before?

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#2 super_mario_128
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Probably didn't want anything more than a casual relationship. And no, I have never had a partner. violin.jpg
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#3 xTheExploited
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No but I have definitely been in the kind of relationship where you like the other person significantly more than they like you.
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#4 Empirefrtw
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I was having a very casual relationship with this girl, we hooked up a couple of times on weekend and texted each other now and again. On friday I was hanging out with her in a club, upon leaving she said she didn't want to see me anymore because I 'like her too much'. I couldn't really think of any response to that , was deffinitely a first because I thought that was a good thing. Any of you heard this before?

Brazil_Surfer
Well if she wanted to be your friend and you started to push towards a more then friends relationship then yeah I could see it happening.
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#5 F0urTwenty
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Sorry man, that really sucks. It happened to a friend of mine who just fell way to hard for this one chick, and sure enough he got the hammer. She is probably a girl who 'doesn't know what she wants' and is best to stay away from those.
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#6 RobboElRobbo
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Probably didn't want anything more than a casual relationship. And no, I have never had a partner. violin.jpgsuper_mario_128

It's funny because jpg files don't make any noise

That's why it's funny

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#7 Empirefrtw
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Sorry man, that really sucks. It happened to a friend of mine who just fell way to hard for this one chick, and sure enough he got the hammer. She is probably a girl who 'doesn't know what she wants' and is best to stay away from those.F0urTwenty
Or maybe she does know what she wants and he wasn't what she wanted.
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#8 XilePrincess
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If she dumps you for that, she didn't want to have any sort of relationship with you in the first place. And/or wanted to hook up with anyone she could get her mitts on, and didn't want to be restricted in any way.
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#9 F0urTwenty
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[QUOTE="F0urTwenty"]Sorry man, that really sucks. It happened to a friend of mine who just fell way to hard for this one chick, and sure enough he got the hammer. She is probably a girl who 'doesn't know what she wants' and is best to stay away from those.Empirefrtw
Or maybe she does know what she wants and he wasn't what she wanted.

Well, either way he will be staying away from her clearly. So, were both right. YAY! to the cloud.
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#10 ImaPirate0202
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I hate to further a stereotype, but I've had a girl break up with me for being too nice.

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#11 F0urTwenty
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I hate to further a stereotype, but I've had a girl break up with me for being too nice.

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Ugh, now that really sucks.
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#12 Joshywaa
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If she dumps you for that, she didn't want to have any sort of relationship with you in the first place. And/or wanted to hook up with anyone she could get her mitts on, and didn't want to be restricted in any way.XilePrincess

Or maybe he liked her waaay too much?

So much so that it was borderline creepy?

Perhaps?

Conjectures?

Maybe Not?

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#13 lawlessx
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I hate to further a stereotype, but I've had a girl break up with me for being too nice.

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You can't be the gentlemen all the time..have to plan a badass once in awhile. once you have those two traits in order girls will jump all over you.
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#14 huytttr
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I cant say that was a reason for a breakup on my behalf. but then again i hardly ever remember those type of things.
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#15 -Big_Red-
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[QUOTE="F0urTwenty"][QUOTE="ImaPirate0202"]

I hate to further a stereotype, but I've had a girl break up with me for being too nice.

Ugh, now that really sucks.

Yeah, but I do see where shes coming from.
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#16 F0urTwenty
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="F0urTwenty"][QUOTE="ImaPirate0202"]

I hate to further a stereotype, but I've had a girl break up with me for being too nice.

Ugh, now that really sucks.

Yeah, but I do see where shes coming from.

Maybe he needed more passion ;). Girls always love a man with passion. PASSION ftw!
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#17 ImaPirate0202
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[QUOTE="F0urTwenty"][QUOTE="ImaPirate0202"]

I hate to further a stereotype, but I've had a girl break up with me for being too nice.

-Big_Red-

Ugh, now that really sucks.

Yeah, but I do see where shes coming from.

Meh, I think she was just being a teenager. I do consider myself alot more laid back and quiet than most.

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#18 Mario2007
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Just yesterday, I got dumped because she thought I deserved better. Whatever that means.
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#19 artichoke
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Kinda, there was a girl I really liked and we were kinda unofficially dating. She said she didn't know what she wanted and was confused, and ended up betraying me and ditching me for another guy who was a total player. A couple of her friends said that maybe she had just wanted something less serious.
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#20 Ninja-Hippo
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Unfortunately it's quite tricky to end up in a relationship were both people like each other equally. It's a delicate balance. I wouldn't get offended or upset about it. Just put yourself in her shoes. If she's just not that into you and she feels things are progressing it's only fair to you that she put an end to it before you get serious and she really lets you down.
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#21 F0urTwenty
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Just yesterday, I got dumped because she thought I deserved better. Whatever that means.Mario2007
She didn't have the bal.. I mean vagina's to say she cheated on you, maybe. My best guess at least because why the hell would she randomly say that bull, makes no sense. Other forces were at work.
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#22 Ninja-Hippo
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Just yesterday, I got dumped because she thought I deserved better. Whatever that means.Mario2007
Don't dwell on the reasons that you're given; i think people come up with all kinds of crap when they break up with you, both to not hurt your feelings as well as to lower the guilt they feel about upsetting another person. You deserve better is such a line. That way they feel like they're somehow doing you a favor. As soon as you insist that you don't want any better and you're quite happy to be with them obviously the real reason comes out, because they'll still want to break up with you. Ah, relationships. Why bother? :P
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#23 loserbam828
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Sorry man, that really sucks. It happened to a friend of mine who just fell way to hard for this one chick, and sure enough he got the hammer. She is probably a girl who 'doesn't know what she wants' and is best to stay away from those.F0urTwenty

Fact. Girls do not know what they want.

:roll:

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#24 chansaet
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I've dumped a girl for being to into me before. You got to give her some space. This girl was way to clingly. She wouldn't give me any space. She was moving way to fast. It was like she was thinking about marriage. So I broke up with her.

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#25 mlbslugger86
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have i met a girl who know's for sure what she want's in life?

about the only one is my sister because she's married, but the gran majortity don't know what the hell they want,

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#26 mattbbpl
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Sounds like the basis for the song, "Hold on Loosely" by .38 Special.
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#27 SouL-Tak3R
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Nope, but I have broken up with a girl for just that reason haha

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#28 Gamingclone
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Well that is some reason to not be your friend. If she doesnt want the friendship to turn into anything then she should just touch your shoulder and say, "I like you, but thats all." Or something like that. I hope she wasnt your only friend, that would suck if she was.

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#29 acsam12304
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No but I have definitely been in the kind of relationship where you like the other person significantly more than they like you. xTheExploited

i know what you mean

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#30 Brazil_Surfer
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Well that is some reason to not be your friend. If she doesnt want the friendship to turn into anything then she should just touch your shoulder and say, "I like you, but thats all." Or something like that. I hope she wasnt your only friend, that would suck if she was.

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O it was far from a friendship, I thought it was going to be just a sexual relationship, ie hooking up on weekends. That was all I wanted out of it, then she comes up with that, I mean wtf? I wasn't clingy or anything, just showed her attention when I thought she wanted it. She couldn've at least been straight and said she wasn't into me, girls bs so freaking much.
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#31 inyourface_12
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I think that is caled smothering. and no, i am the opposite way

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#32 Dantus12
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[QUOTE="Gamingclone"]

Well that is some reason to not be your friend. If she doesnt want the friendship to turn into anything then she should just touch your shoulder and say, "I like you, but thats all." Or something like that. I hope she wasnt your only friend, that would suck if she was.

Brazil_Surfer

O it was far from a friendship, I thought it was going to be just a sexual relationship, ie hooking up on weekends. That was all I wanted out of it, then she comes up with that, I mean wtf? I wasn't clingy or anything, just showed her attention when I thought she wanted it. She couldn've at least been straight and said she wasn't into me, girls bs so freaking much.

Maybe She wanted more,and you wanted only a sexual relationship,and She noticed it.I got dumped for being to:

-serious

-un serious

-ambitious

-a gentleman

Women are complicated,it part of the challenge,and it`s great.