Ever been used by a girl?

I was once. I knew this girl last year year and she was awesome, only girl who I thought really understood me. I am the kinda guuy who isnt fooled by big boobs, I need some intelligence in a girl too. Anyway, this girl and I hang out for pretty much the whole year, then when I finally work up the courage to ask her our, it turns out she was only hanging out with me to get closer to a friend of mine. How I found that out though is the worst part,

I was really excited and slightly nervous to ask her out finally, so I go up to her car as she is leaving school and just as I am about to knock on her car window, I see her making out with my friend. I am so shocked by this that I just walk away. She follows me and tells me that she was never really interested in me and wanted him instead. I am too heartbroken to say much, so I just nod in acceptance. Not a good day overall:(

I guess my last girl kinda did. She promised to stop smoking and, three months later, admitted she had no intention of keeping that promise. I was really disappointed, and it didn't help when she text me saying:

"I always knew it wasn't going to last, but I didn't expect it to end so soon."

What...so you were seeing how long you could hold on for? Pfft, that's harsh.

Oh and also....this next line was the icing on the cake. The night before I dumped her, she got a bit funky with me, which was ok I guess, but when we we were done, she said:

"There, I've ****** you for the last time. You can do what you want now."

*sigh*

Oh well. :lol:

That sucks man :(
I don't really know.My brother was used by a girl,the girl was trying to get to me.I found out that she used my brother and I confronted her with it.
Lto_thaG

Must have sucked for your brother, is he older or younger than you?

[QUOTE="Lto_thaG"]That sucks man :(
I don't really know.My brother was used by a girl,the girl was trying to get to me.I found out that she used my brother and I confronted her with it.
Film-Guy

Must have sucked for your brother, is he older or younger than you?

They call men cruel. Women can be just as horrible.

Sorry that had to happen to you man.

I was once. I knew this girl last year year and she was awesome, only girl who I thought really understood me. I am the kinda guuy who isnt fooled by big boobs, I need some intelligence in a girl too. Anyway, this girl and I hang out for pretty much the whole year, then when I finally work up the courage to ask her our, it turns out she was only hanging out with me to get closer to a friend of mine. How I found that out though is the worst part,

I was really excited and slightly nervous to ask her out finally, so I go up to her car as she is leaving school and just as I am about to knock on her car window, I see her making out with my friend. I am so shocked by this that I just walk away. She follows me and tells me that she was never really interested in me and wanted him instead. I am too heartbroken to say much, so I just nod in acceptance. Not a good day overall:(

Film-Guy

I'm not sure if it's your username or what, but when I read your story I imagined you as Edward Norton, in Fight Club, during the screen when his apartment blows up. I just imagined him walking up to a car about to knock then gets that expression on his face. When you walk away, the girl is the hotel guy. She says she wanted to get with you friend and I imagine you just putting up you hand and walking away. That's the perfect expression for you, just shocked and in disbelief.

I feel really sorry for you. That is so terrible Film-Guy. Girls always make out how sneaky guys can be - well watch out fellas because they can do it right back! Some will have no hesitation to say or do things that will lead you on and then they will break your heart. Worst of all is that you can't really do anything about it.

Believe me my friend the easiest way to get over this is to embrace someone that really cares about. That is a cliche certainly but when you around someone who truly enjoys your company you will find that you will quickly forget about your other problem.

The world is your oister - go out there and find someone!

Also, if you want to talk to me more about it just give me a buzz here on GS!!

I don't trust girls. o.OZephgaldarien

Same here. Only because I've had a bad experience. The only female in existence that I trust is my mother. I've been beat up banged up man so I know how you feel.

I was with my ex-gf for 4 years. Long story short, she only got with me because 1. She wanted to get away from her "ruthless" mother. 2. She never liked me for my looks. She said I wasnt her type. She said this later on of course when we broke up. 3. She only stayed with me (in the relationship) for personal gain. A place to live, money, so she could go to college and start her career. 4. She cheated behind my back for 8 months and I had to find out through my best friend and mother. Best friend being a big doofus for not telling me even though he knew it for months. My parents even had a clue about it. I was blind to it all. 5. She said she was glad that she cheated on me.

How about that for 4-years of my life? Completely wasted, when I could have been out there living my life, dating a good girl, with a moral fiber. My ex-gf was the epitome of evil. An earth-walking Shiva. She was cold-heart, with no compassion, manipulative, a LIAR, just bad...

I seriously wish I never met her. People have told ee she was a B***H, get over her but seriously, I didnt need that in my life. People have told me, it's part of life, she was meant to be in your life so that you'll become a stronger and better person. WRONG. All it did was make me hate serious relationships. Before her, I was all FOR relationships and love. After all that, I want to be single for the rest of my life. Of course, this is just all me and it doesnt apply to anyone else. It's life and it's serious business. Just be careful who you meet. They may not appear to be who you think they are.

IMPORTANT: Keep documents of everything if you can. From what you purchase living together, to your school tuition. Everything financial. Trust me, it's going to come back and bite you in the head and it's going to leave a deep wound. I forgot to add that my ex-gf, after we broke up, charged off $6000 on my credit cards. She didnt steal my credit cards.. No, she was smart. She used my information to open up new accounts. Of course, I reported all this but the credit card companies nor the police wants to do anything about it.

I've never been unfortunate enough to have been used by a girl, then again prior to my girlfriend, I'd never had anything serious with others. However, one of my best friends kind of went of the rails for a few months a couple years ago. She'd come out of a really tough relationship and I think she was trying to get back at her ex. Glad to say, that she's back to herself and has been going out with another of my mates for the past year.

I'm sorry for what happened to you, but personally, she ain't worth it. You're better off without her - you'll get over her and find plenty of other girls (or maybe even men :P).

They call men cruel. Women can be just as horrible.

Sorry that had to happen to you man.

SimpJee

It's "some women."

Come on, you're from GameSpot. Everybody acts like they actually want to end up with a "cruel woman" here. I'd blame the threads like "Where to find a girl?" and "I saw this girl of my dreams on bus..." or also "So I was buying milk today..."

I was once. I knew this girl last year year and she was awesome, only girl who I thought really understood me. I am the kinda guuy who isnt fooled by big boobs, I need some intelligence in a girl too. Anyway, this girl and I hang out for pretty much the whole year, then when I finally work up the courage to ask her our, it turns out she was only hanging out with me to get closer to a friend of mine. How I found that out though is the worst part,

I was really excited and slightly nervous to ask her out finally, so I go up to her car as she is leaving school and just as I am about to knock on her car window, I see her making out with my friend. I am so shocked by this that I just walk away. She follows me and tells me that she was never really interested in me and wanted him instead. I am too heartbroken to say much, so I just nod in acceptance. Not a good day overall:(

Film-Guy

[QUOTE="SimpJee"]

They call men cruel. Women can be just as horrible.

Sorry that had to happen to you man.

Chitzu

It's "some women."

Come on, you're from GameSpot. Everybody acts like they actually want to end up with a "cruel woman" here. I'd blame the threads like "Where to find a girl?" and "I saw this girl of my dreams on bus..." or also "So I was buying milk today..."

I disagree. I think it's most women unless you can change my mind. Which I dont think you can. After a horrific experience like mine, how can someone like me trust any women. I would rather be single forever than to experience trauma like I have. And I mean this sincerely, because we ARE discussing a sensitive topic here.

You obviously haven't been mistreated, or you must be the most optimistic guy in the world! OR, you always had a good women by your side. If so, I envy you. I dont have that kind of luck, and I'm not being superstitious!

[QUOTE="Zephgaldarien"]I don't trust girls. o.OElann2008

Same here. Only because I've had a bad experience. The only female in existence that I trust is my mother. I've been beat up banged up man so I know how you feel.

I was with my ex-gf for 4 years. Long story short, she only got with me because 1. She wanted to get away from her "ruthless" mother. 2. She never liked me for my looks. She said I wasnt her type. She said this later on of course when we broke up. 3. She only stayed with me (in the relationship) for personal gain. A place to live, money, so she could go to college and start her career. 4. She cheated behind my back for 8 months and I had to find out through my best friend and mother. Best friend being a big doofus for not telling me even though he knew it for months. My parents even had a clue about it. I was blind to it all. 5. She said she was glad that she cheated on me.

How about that for 4-years of my life? Completely wasted, when I could have been out there living my life, dating a good girl, with a moral fiber. My ex-gf was the epitome of evil. An earth-walking Shiva. She was cold-heart, with no compassion, manipulative, a LIAR, just bad...

I seriously wish I never met her. People have told ee she was a B***H, get over her but seriously, I didnt need that in my life. People have told me, it's part of life, she was meant to be in your life so that you'll become a stronger and better person. WRONG. All it did was make me hate serious relationships. Before her, I was all FOR relationships and love. After all that, I want to be single for the rest of my life. Of course, this is just all me and it doesnt apply to anyone else. It's life and it's serious business. Just be careful who you meet. They may not appear to be who you think they are.

IMPORTANT: Keep documents of everything if you can. From what you purchase living together, to your school tuition. Everything financial. Trust me, it's going to come back and bite you in the head and it's going to leave a deep wound. I forgot to add that my ex-gf, after we broke up, charged off $6000 on my credit cards. She didnt steal my credit cards.. No, she was smart. She used my information to open up new accounts. Of course, I reported all this but the credit card companies nor the police wants to do anything about it.

damn, that sum cold hearted ****. But always think of the brightside, atleast she's out of your life now. Like my father always says "Bad days exist so you have something to talk about on the good days."

I don't trust girls. o.OZephgaldarien

Start dating boys :lol:

Yes, I have. My first girlfriend lied about being raped. She phoned me up, saying she was being chased and that she loved me etc and then the line went dead. She was on holiday at the time so there was nothing I could do. She came back after a few days and told me it was all a joke. I was 13, she was my first love and I was pretty naive so I had no reason not to believe her. She was a massive compulsive liar anyway. It seems she got kicks out of manipulating me.

Apart from that, the vast majority of my relationships have been about the girl 'wanting someone to love her, compliment her' etc. Its never actually been about me. Seems I'm always the compliment monkey or something...
Its no suprise that I'm celibate now.

Yes, I have. My first girlfriend lied about being raped. She phoned me up, saying she was being chased and that she loved me etc and then the line went dead. She was on holiday at the time so there was nothing I could do. She came back after a few days and told me it was all a joke. I was 13, she was my first love and I was pretty naive so I had no reason not to believe her. She was a massive compulsive liar anyway. It seems she got kicks out of manipulating me.

Apart from that, the vast majority of my relationships have been about the girl 'wanting someone to love her, compliment her' etc. Its never actually been about me. Seems I'm always the compliment monkey or something...
Its no suprise that I'm celibate now.

manicfoot

Who the hell jokes about that :?

[QUOTE="Elann2008"]

[QUOTE="Zephgaldarien"]I don't trust girls. o.OII_Seraphim_II

Same here. Only because I've had a bad experience. The only female in existence that I trust is my mother. I've been beat up banged up man so I know how you feel.

I was with my ex-gf for 4 years. Long story short, she only got with me because 1. She wanted to get away from her "ruthless" mother. 2. She never liked me for my looks. She said I wasnt her type. She said this later on of course when we broke up. 3. She only stayed with me (in the relationship) for personal gain. A place to live, money, so she could go to college and start her career. 4. She cheated behind my back for 8 months and I had to find out through my best friend and mother. Best friend being a big doofus for not telling me even though he knew it for months. My parents even had a clue about it. I was blind to it all. 5. She said she was glad that she cheated on me.

How about that for 4-years of my life? Completely wasted, when I could have been out there living my life, dating a good girl, with a moral fiber. My ex-gf was the epitome of evil. An earth-walking Shiva. She was cold-heart, with no compassion, manipulative, a LIAR, just bad...

I seriously wish I never met her. People have told ee she was a B***H, get over her but seriously, I didnt need that in my life. People have told me, it's part of life, she was meant to be in your life so that you'll become a stronger and better person. WRONG. All it did was make me hate serious relationships. Before her, I was all FOR relationships and love. After all that, I want to be single for the rest of my life. Of course, this is just all me and it doesnt apply to anyone else. It's life and it's serious business. Just be careful who you meet. They may not appear to be who you think they are.

IMPORTANT: Keep documents of everything if you can. From what you purchase living together, to your school tuition. Everything financial. Trust me, it's going to come back and bite you in the head and it's going to leave a deep wound. I forgot to add that my ex-gf, after we broke up, charged off $6000 on my credit cards. She didnt steal my credit cards.. No, she was smart. She used my information to open up new accounts. Of course, I reported all this but the credit card companies nor the police wants to do anything about it.

damn, that sum cold hearted ****. But always think of the brightside, atleast she's out of your life now. Like my father always says "Bad days exist so you have something to talk about on the good days."

Thank you for reading my rant, lol. I appreciate your optimism, and I think I will take your advice. :) I'm going to save your father's quote. Great quote. Thank you!

Yes, I have. My first girlfriend lied about being raped. She phoned me up, saying she was being chased and that she loved me etc and then the line went dead. She was on holiday at the time so there was nothing I could do. She came back after a few days and told me it was all a joke. I was 13, she was my first love and I was pretty naive so I had no reason not to believe her. She was a massive compulsive liar anyway. It seems she got kicks out of manipulating me.

Apart from that, the vast majority of my relationships have been about the girl 'wanting someone to love her, compliment her' etc. Its never actually been about me. Seems I'm always the compliment monkey or something...
Its no suprise that I'm celibate now.

manicfoot

Same boat buddy, same boat. I know how you feel.

One of my ex-gf threatened to commit suicide by OD'ing if I broke up with her. I wanted to break up with her because she really needed help, and I was more than willing to help her with that, together. So I waited until she got better than we broke up. But deep in the back of my mind, I'm pretty sure she wouldnt have done it. Although, I didnt want to risk it. She was special to me once, before everything went haywire.

[QUOTE="manicfoot"]

Yes, I have. My first girlfriend lied about being raped. She phoned me up, saying she was being chased and that she loved me etc and then the line went dead. She was on holiday at the time so there was nothing I could do. She came back after a few days and told me it was all a joke. I was 13, she was my first love and I was pretty naive so I had no reason not to believe her. She was a massive compulsive liar anyway. It seems she got kicks out of manipulating me.

Apart from that, the vast majority of my relationships have been about the girl 'wanting someone to love her, compliment her' etc. Its never actually been about me. Seems I'm always the compliment monkey or something...
Its no suprise that I'm celibate now.

Elann2008

Same boat buddy, same boat. I know how you feel.

One of my ex-gf threatened to commit suicide by OD'ing if I broke up with her. I wanted to break up with her because she really needed help, and I was more than willing to help her with that, together. So I waited until she got better than we broke up. But deep in the back of my mind, I'm pretty sure she wouldnt have done it. Although, I didnt want to risk it. She was special to me once, before everything went haywire.

Man, god must not love you :?

I was about to complain about how sucky my life has been for a while now, but now feel ashamed :(

[QUOTE="manicfoot"]

Yes, I have. My first girlfriend lied about being raped. She phoned me up, saying she was being chased and that she loved me etc and then the line went dead. She was on holiday at the time so there was nothing I could do. She came back after a few days and told me it was all a joke. I was 13, she was my first love and I was pretty naive so I had no reason not to believe her. She was a massive compulsive liar anyway. It seems she got kicks out of manipulating me.

Apart from that, the vast majority of my relationships have been about the girl 'wanting someone to love her, compliment her' etc. Its never actually been about me. Seems I'm always the compliment monkey or something...
Its no suprise that I'm celibate now.

Elann2008

Same boat buddy, same boat. I know how you feel.

One of my ex-gf threatened to commit suicide by OD'ing if I broke up with her. I wanted to break up with her because she really needed help, and I was more than willing to help her with that, together. So I waited until she got better than we broke up. But deep in the back of my mind, I'm pretty sure she wouldnt have done it. Although, I didnt want to risk it. She was special to me once, before everything went haywire.

That must've been horrible for you :( At least you waited, though. Shows you're a good person :) Once I broke up with that girl she sent me texts like "I just drank a pint of my own blood" and messed up stuff like that. She said she cut herself as well, but I didn't believe any of it.

Call me stupid but this topic could make 30 year old men cry :(Rhen_Var

tell me about it. I've had some crazy ex's but atleast they were crazy in that "im so kinky it hurts" and not in that "im gonna eat your soul" kind of way :( People here, have had such bad experiences.

Yes, I have. My first girlfriend lied about being raped. She phoned me up, saying she was being chased and that she loved me etc and then the line went dead. She was on holiday at the time so there was nothing I could do. She came back after a few days and told me it was all a joke. I was 13, she was my first love and I was pretty naive so I had no reason not to believe her. She was a massive compulsive liar anyway. It seems she got kicks out of manipulating me.

Apart from that, the vast majority of my relationships have been about the girl 'wanting someone to love her, compliment her' etc. Its never actually been about me. Seems I'm always the compliment monkey or something...
Its no suprise that I'm celibate now.

manicfoot

[QUOTE="manicfoot"]

Yes, I have. My first girlfriend lied about being raped. She phoned me up, saying she was being chased and that she loved me etc and then the line went dead. She was on holiday at the time so there was nothing I could do. She came back after a few days and told me it was all a joke. I was 13, she was my first love and I was pretty naive so I had no reason not to believe her. She was a massive compulsive liar anyway. It seems she got kicks out of manipulating me.

Apart from that, the vast majority of my relationships have been about the girl 'wanting someone to love her, compliment her' etc. Its never actually been about me. Seems I'm always the compliment monkey or something...
Its no suprise that I'm celibate now.

XxSTILL_BORNxX

So i take it this pretend rape act is more common than i thought? :?

[QUOTE="manicfoot"]

Yes, I have. My first girlfriend lied about being raped. She phoned me up, saying she was being chased and that she loved me etc and then the line went dead. She was on holiday at the time so there was nothing I could do. She came back after a few days and told me it was all a joke. I was 13, she was my first love and I was pretty naive so I had no reason not to believe her. She was a massive compulsive liar anyway. It seems she got kicks out of manipulating me.

Apart from that, the vast majority of my relationships have been about the girl 'wanting someone to love her, compliment her' etc. Its never actually been about me. Seems I'm always the compliment monkey or something...
Its no suprise that I'm celibate now.

Mr_Lurker

Who the hell jokes about that :?

Edit- She's 16, he was 40...

[QUOTE="XxSTILL_BORNxX"][QUOTE="manicfoot"]

Yes, I have. My first girlfriend lied about being raped. She phoned me up, saying she was being chased and that she loved me etc and then the line went dead. She was on holiday at the time so there was nothing I could do. She came back after a few days and told me it was all a joke. I was 13, she was my first love and I was pretty naive so I had no reason not to believe her. She was a massive compulsive liar anyway. It seems she got kicks out of manipulating me.

Apart from that, the vast majority of my relationships have been about the girl 'wanting someone to love her, compliment her' etc. Its never actually been about me. Seems I'm always the compliment monkey or something...
Its no suprise that I'm celibate now.

II_Seraphim_II

So i take it this pretend rape act is more common than i thought? :?

[QUOTE="Elann2008"][QUOTE="manicfoot"]

Yes, I have. My first girlfriend lied about being raped. She phoned me up, saying she was being chased and that she loved me etc and then the line went dead. She was on holiday at the time so there was nothing I could do. She came back after a few days and told me it was all a joke. I was 13, she was my first love and I was pretty naive so I had no reason not to believe her. She was a massive compulsive liar anyway. It seems she got kicks out of manipulating me.

Apart from that, the vast majority of my relationships have been about the girl 'wanting someone to love her, compliment her' etc. Its never actually been about me. Seems I'm always the compliment monkey or something...
Its no suprise that I'm celibate now.

manicfoot

Same boat buddy, same boat. I know how you feel.

One of my ex-gf threatened to commit suicide by OD'ing if I broke up with her. I wanted to break up with her because she really needed help, and I was more than willing to help her with that, together. So I waited until she got better than we broke up. But deep in the back of my mind, I'm pretty sure she wouldnt have done it. Although, I didnt want to risk it. She was special to me once, before everything went haywire.

That must've been horrible for you :( At least you waited, though. Shows you're a good person :) Once I broke up with that girl she sent me texts like "I just drank a pint of my own blood" and messed up stuff like that. She said she cut herself as well, but I didn't believe any of it.

Yeah, it was pretty nutz. Thanks man, I appreciate the compliment.

A million things probably went through your mind. That must have been tough. :( I wouldnt know what to do. At least in my situation, she only threatened me. She didnt say she did anything like your ex did.

[QUOTE="SimpJee"]

They call men cruel. Women can be just as horrible.

Sorry that had to happen to you man.

Chitzu

It's "some women."

Come on, you're from GameSpot. Everybody acts like they actually want to end up with a "cruel woman" here. I'd blame the threads like "Where to find a girl?" and "I saw this girl of my dreams on bus..." or also "So I was buying milk today..."

Gah'd do I seriously need to spell everything out word for word? I thought the "can" took care of the "some women" portion without me having to put those words in there.

[QUOTE="Elann2008"][QUOTE="manicfoot"]

Yes, I have. My first girlfriend lied about being raped. She phoned me up, saying she was being chased and that she loved me etc and then the line went dead. She was on holiday at the time so there was nothing I could do. She came back after a few days and told me it was all a joke. I was 13, she was my first love and I was pretty naive so I had no reason not to believe her. She was a massive compulsive liar anyway. It seems she got kicks out of manipulating me.

Apart from that, the vast majority of my relationships have been about the girl 'wanting someone to love her, compliment her' etc. Its never actually been about me. Seems I'm always the compliment monkey or something...
Its no suprise that I'm celibate now.

II_Seraphim_II

Same boat buddy, same boat. I know how you feel.

One of my ex-gf threatened to commit suicide by OD'ing if I broke up with her. I wanted to break up with her because she really needed help, and I was more than willing to help her with that, together. So I waited until she got better than we broke up. But deep in the back of my mind, I'm pretty sure she wouldnt have done it. Although, I didnt want to risk it. She was special to me once, before everything went haywire.

Man, god must not love you :?

I was about to complain about how sucky my life has been for a while now, but now feel ashamed :(

I hope not, lol.

Naw dont be. We all have our interpretations of a sucky life. What you go through is probably just as sucky as what I go through in life, it's just that it's different. I guess it's how we deal with it, and maybe I deal with it worst than others, or vice versa.

A psychic told me I have no luck with women, so dont bother. She said, right now, steer clear and focus on yourself. lol

[QUOTE="Zephgaldarien"]I don't trust girls. o.OElann2008

Same here. Only because I've had a bad experience. The only female in existence that I trust is my mother. I've been beat up banged up man so I know how you feel.

I was with my ex-gf for 4 years. Long story short, she only got with me because 1. She wanted to get away from her "ruthless" mother. 2. She never liked me for my looks. She said I wasnt her type. She said this later on of course when we broke up. 3. She only stayed with me (in the relationship) for personal gain. A place to live, money, so she could go to college and start her career. 4. She cheated behind my back for 8 months and I had to find out through my best friend and mother. Best friend being a big doofus for not telling me even though he knew it for months. My parents even had a clue about it. I was blind to it all. 5. She said she was glad that she cheated on me.

How about that for 4-years of my life? Completely wasted, when I could have been out there living my life, dating a good girl, with a moral fiber. My ex-gf was the epitome of evil. An earth-walking Shiva. She was cold-heart, with no compassion, manipulative, a LIAR, just bad...

I seriously wish I never met her. People have told ee she was a B***H, get over her but seriously, I didnt need that in my life. People have told me, it's part of life, she was meant to be in your life so that you'll become a stronger and better person. WRONG. All it did was make me hate serious relationships. Before her, I was all FOR relationships and love. After all that, I want to be single for the rest of my life. Of course, this is just all me and it doesnt apply to anyone else. It's life and it's serious business. Just be careful who you meet. They may not appear to be who you think they are.

IMPORTANT: Keep documents of everything if you can. From what you purchase living together, to your school tuition. Everything financial. Trust me, it's going to come back and bite you in the head and it's going to leave a deep wound. I forgot to add that my ex-gf, after we broke up, charged off $6000 on my credit cards. She didnt steal my credit cards.. No, she was smart. She used my information to open up new accounts. Of course, I reported all this but the credit card companies nor the police wants to do anything about it.

Wow I would have serious broken down if that was me.

[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"][QUOTE="XxSTILL_BORNxX"][QUOTE="manicfoot"]

Yes, I have. My first girlfriend lied about being raped. She phoned me up, saying she was being chased and that she loved me etc and then the line went dead. She was on holiday at the time so there was nothing I could do. She came back after a few days and told me it was all a joke. I was 13, she was my first love and I was pretty naive so I had no reason not to believe her. She was a massive compulsive liar anyway. It seems she got kicks out of manipulating me.

Apart from that, the vast majority of my relationships have been about the girl 'wanting someone to love her, compliment her' etc. Its never actually been about me. Seems I'm always the compliment monkey or something...
Its no suprise that I'm celibate now.

XxSTILL_BORNxX

So i take it this pretend rape act is more common than i thought? :?

Oh ok, i thought it was an upcoming fad or sumthing :P But yeah, sum girls are just sketchy like that. luckily all the girls i have gone with have been pretty honest, and imon good terms with all most of my exes. But sum women really are horrible people...but i guess u could say the same about guys too :(

[QUOTE="Elann2008"]

[QUOTE="Zephgaldarien"]I don't trust girls. o.OLonelynight

Same here. Only because I've had a bad experience. The only female in existence that I trust is my mother. I've been beat up banged up man so I know how you feel.

I was with my ex-gf for 4 years. Long story short, she only got with me because 1. She wanted to get away from her "ruthless" mother. 2. She never liked me for my looks. She said I wasnt her type. She said this later on of course when we broke up. 3. She only stayed with me (in the relationship) for personal gain. A place to live, money, so she could go to college and start her career. 4. She cheated behind my back for 8 months and I had to find out through my best friend and mother. Best friend being a big doofus for not telling me even though he knew it for months. My parents even had a clue about it. I was blind to it all. 5. She said she was glad that she cheated on me.

How about that for 4-years of my life? Completely wasted, when I could have been out there living my life, dating a good girl, with a moral fiber. My ex-gf was the epitome of evil. An earth-walking Shiva. She was cold-heart, with no compassion, manipulative, a LIAR, just bad...

I seriously wish I never met her. People have told ee she was a B***H, get over her but seriously, I didnt need that in my life. People have told me, it's part of life, she was meant to be in your life so that you'll become a stronger and better person. WRONG. All it did was make me hate serious relationships. Before her, I was all FOR relationships and love. After all that, I want to be single for the rest of my life. Of course, this is just all me and it doesnt apply to anyone else. It's life and it's serious business. Just be careful who you meet. They may not appear to be who you think they are.

IMPORTANT: Keep documents of everything if you can. From what you purchase living together, to your school tuition. Everything financial. Trust me, it's going to come back and bite you in the head and it's going to leave a deep wound. I forgot to add that my ex-gf, after we broke up, charged off $6000 on my credit cards. She didnt steal my credit cards.. No, she was smart. She used my information to open up new accounts. Of course, I reported all this but the credit card companies nor the police wants to do anything about it.

Wow I would have serious broken down if that was me.

I broke down so many times throughout that relationship. It was the first time as a young man (trying to make it out in the world) where I felt true pain. It's like that feeling you get in the middle of your chest, over and over again, almost every day. Why we didnt break up before that, I have no clue. Life has its mysteries. I guess I have a knack for saving people who are troubled.

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[QUOTE="Zephgaldarien"]I don't trust girls. o.OLonelynight

Same here. Only because I've had a bad experience. The only female in existence that I trust is my mother. I've been beat up banged up man so I know how you feel.

I was with my ex-gf for 4 years. Long story short, she only got with me because 1. She wanted to get away from her "ruthless" mother. 2. She never liked me for my looks. She said I wasnt her type. She said this later on of course when we broke up. 3. She only stayed with me (in the relationship) for personal gain. A place to live, money, so she could go to college and start her career. 4. She cheated behind my back for 8 months and I had to find out through my best friend and mother. Best friend being a big doofus for not telling me even though he knew it for months. My parents even had a clue about it. I was blind to it all. 5. She said she was glad that she cheated on me.

How about that for 4-years of my life? Completely wasted, when I could have been out there living my life, dating a good girl, with a moral fiber. My ex-gf was the epitome of evil. An earth-walking Shiva. She was cold-heart, with no compassion, manipulative, a LIAR, just bad...

I seriously wish I never met her. People have told ee she was a B***H, get over her but seriously, I didnt need that in my life. People have told me, it's part of life, she was meant to be in your life so that you'll become a stronger and better person. WRONG. All it did was make me hate serious relationships. Before her, I was all FOR relationships and love. After all that, I want to be single for the rest of my life. Of course, this is just all me and it doesnt apply to anyone else. It's life and it's serious business. Just be careful who you meet. They may not appear to be who you think they are.

IMPORTANT: Keep documents of everything if you can. From what you purchase living together, to your school tuition. Everything financial. Trust me, it's going to come back and bite you in the head and it's going to leave a deep wound. I forgot to add that my ex-gf, after we broke up, charged off $6000 on my credit cards. She didnt steal my credit cards.. No, she was smart. She used my information to open up new accounts. Of course, I reported all this but the credit card companies nor the police wants to do anything about it.

Wow I would have serious broken down if that was me.