Ever lost someone close, but never cared?

Have you ever lost any close or someone you knew but didnt care, or just wasn't all that bereaved?

Seriously it happened to me twice. First with the passing of my grandfather, then my uncle.

wtf is wrong with me? :S is this normal?...

There are three reasons as to why you did not care:

1) You and your grandfather/uncle were not personally close.

2) You accept death in some kind of superhuman stride.

3) Something the **** is wrong with you.

YEP! ^.^

There's nothing wrong with it. I just accept death and welcome it. Many people tend to mourn over it, but I say be joyful. Atleast they don't have to put up with life anymore. When I was around 7 or 8 my Uncle died and I didn't shed a single tear, but my brother that always got wipped by him was screaming with tears. Right now my grandma is in the hospital and I'm not really caring. Don't even think I'll go see her. (I'm Not Evil!!!!) Also, my great gandma died 2 months ago and I didn't go to the funeral. The whole family thinks there's something wrong with me. :P

Same thing with 9-11 (Maybe I shouldn't bring this up...). I was 9 when it happened, and I didn't really care. The only reason why I continued watching the news was because it sounded interesting {IOW: awesome} and I wanted to see more footage of it. But over time (minutes) I got annoyed and wished people would shut up and move on. Even still, peopel are talking about it. I don't understand why. It's Been Five Years, GET OVER IT!!!

P.S. Were we even given any evidence allowing us to accuse someone of this "tragedy"? 'Cause I don't recall seeing a video tape pf 3 guys in hoods bragging about blowing up two buildings. (seriously)

How did U feel about 9-11 bOrk?

No. I've always cared.LJS9502_basic

Same here. My Grandfather passed away almost two weeks ago and im still feeling the loss.

Not close, but related to the family.

Everyone was crying in every corner of the house. I was seeing Blade Runner.

No , if i lose some one close to me i care if not then we wouldnt of been close.

Just because they're family doesn't mean we're close. I was quite upset when my Mom's mother died because we were always good friends, but my Dad's father is in the hospital right now and I'm barely even concerned about it. He's a very selfish man and I've never really liked him.

The only reason that it would upset me is because I know that some of the rest of my family would be hurt by it if he died.

I came back from a school trip - kind of like a week abroad thing - and upon my return, I was told that my grandmother had died.

For some bizarre reason, I took it surprisingly well. :?

EDIT: that was many years ago, not recently.

No. I've always cared.LJS9502_basic

same

I came back from a school trip - kind of like a week abroad thing - and upon my return, I was told that my grandmother had died.

For some bizarre reason, I took it surprisingly well. :?

EDIT: that was many years ago, not recently.

luke1889

I always care. I recently lost my mom on February 15 and it made depressed for about a week. I'm doing much better now that she is resting in peace.xTw1st4x

My cousin shot himself about a year ago; I was more schocked than upset.

I don't deal with other peoples grief well. If I'm at a funeral, I avoid my upset family like the plague. I'm pretty inhuman.