ex girlfriends

ok. my girlfriend of over two years recently broke up with me, about a month ago. a lot of stuff happened and we argued a lot but we loved each other, we have broken up a bunch of times but always got back together. but this time it is real and i ahte it and she already has a new boyfriend.... like ...... already i couldnt believe it. over two years, and we did everything together traveled and stuff. she is saying how happy she is to her friends, not just saying it, she actualy is. now i cant believe this, after a few weeks of us breaking up i stayed at her hose and we slept together, and held each other all night so i figured we would get back together, the next morning she said just because that happened didnt mean anyhing. another stab to the heart. then one day she just stoped answering my calls and txts etc. she said she woke uo and didnt want to do it anymore at all....

i know i have rambled on but i am just very very sad, she has already moved on, i know nothing lasts forever but how can she be this over us already?????? life sucks. everything is boring or sad or lasts too long, i cant enjoy anything its funny how much your life goes from amazing to pfft so quickly.

Yeah. Something similar happened to me once. You'll find someone else. And, it'll take some time, but you'll be fine.

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I have a similar problem, I suggest you

A) Find someone new to fill that "pffft" paart of your life.

B) She fell in love with you at the start for a reason, find that reason, and exploit it.

Good luck

yeah i know i am trying to move on, i have been in a few long term relationships before, but this one was a lot more special than the others we had so many little special things that i wont go into, but yeah im trying to forget about her. girls suck.

i just wanted to tell someone and i thought a few answes on here might cheer me up. i loved that desolation thing :)

I know this is gonna sound harsh, but as my brother so elequently put it to me at one point in time:

"Dude, grow up. Get over it! You act like there is only one girl in the world."

I thought he was being harsh, but its true. Let me give u an example. You go watch a movie and its the best movie ever. You think to yourself "WOW! no movie will ever be better than that!." a few years later you watch a movie that tops it and u say "WOW! no movie will ever be better than that!" What does this have to do with anything? Basically you are all over this girl because she is in the moment. You know those people who die lonely because they missed their chance with their one and only? yeah, their losers. They decided to not move on. If you wanna be the self pitying guy that all the married couples keep around because they feel sorry for u, then so be it. But i would suggest u move on. Go out and meet some new girls. Your ex moved on, its about time you did too.

Im not saying loving sumone is bad, im just saying that brooding over a lost releationship is pointless and a complete waste of time.

girls suck.

i loved that desolation thing :)

sAndroid17

You have no idea how long I've been waiting to post that. :lol:

I have a similar problem, I suggest you

A) Find someone new to fill that "pffft" paart of your life.

B) She fell in love with you at the start for a reason, find that reason, and exploit it.

Good luck

Nasty_butler_9

I know this is gonna sound harsh, but as my brother so elequently put it to me at one point in time:

"Dude, grow up. Get over it! You act like there is only one girl in the world."

I thought he was being harsh, but its true. Let me give u an example. You go watch a movie and its the best movie ever. You think to yourself "WOW! no movie will ever be better than that!." a few years later you watch a movie that tops it and u say "WOW! no movie will ever be better than that!" What does this have to do with anything? Basically you are all over this girl because she is in the moment. You know those people who die lonely because they missed their chance with their one and only? yeah, their losers. They decided to not move on. If you wanna be the self pitying guy that all the married couples keep around because they feel sorry for u, then so be it. But i would suggest u move on. Go out and meet some new girls. Your ex moved on, its about time you did too.

Im not saying loving sumone is bad, im just saying that brooding over a lost releationship is pointless and a complete waste of time.

II_Seraphim_II

[QUOTE="sAndroid17"] girls suck.

i loved that desolation thing :)

Jandurin

You have no idea how long I've been waiting to post that. :lol:

[QUOTE="Nasty_butler_9"]

I have a similar problem, I suggest you

A) Find someone new to fill that "pffft" paart of your life.

B) She fell in love with you at the start for a reason, find that reason, and exploit it.

Good luck

sAndroid17

Yeah brother I hear you, just try your best, maybe she'll come around, maybe she won't, I can tall you, it's up to you if you want her that bad

Why not focus on some video game girls?

You could go out and get DOA extreme or something. Those girls will never tell you goodbye.

Why not focus on some video game girls?

You could go out and get DOA extreme or something. Those girls will never tell you goodbye.

ThaSod

[QUOTE="sAndroid17"][QUOTE="Nasty_butler_9"]

I have a similar problem, I suggest you

A) Find someone new to fill that "pffft" paart of your life.

B) She fell in love with you at the start for a reason, find that reason, and exploit it.

Good luck

Nasty_butler_9

Yeah brother I hear you, just try your best, maybe she'll come around, maybe she won't, I can tall you, it's up to you if you want her that bad

she told me she locked her window now, i was pretty shut down. so im just going to not talk, see or think about her. if it wa meant to be it wa meant to be. hahah im such a loser i just havnt talked to anyone abou this really so thanks.

Why not focus on some video game girls?

You could go out and get DOA extreme or something. Those girls will never tell you goodbye.

ThaSod

She has a new bf...she's moved on. Now it's time for you to do so as well. Don't look back...move forward. In time you won't remember what made her so special anyway.LJS9502_basic

Yeah. Something similar happened to me once. You'll find someone else. And, it'll take some time, but you'll be fine.

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Jandurin

haha thats awesome!

1) The reason it's over for good this time is because she found someone else, whereas the many other times you broke up, there was no one else available. In reality, it was probably 'over' long before that. Breaking up and getting back together over and over again in a 2-year long relationship isn't a good sign.

2) Yeah, she's happy now. Give her 2 years with this new guy and see where things are at. New relationships are always exciting, especially if you've just gotten out of a volatile one. But that happiness is probably fleeting. Even if it weren't, if you do love her, you should be happy for her happiness. Tough, I know... but that's what love is about.

3) You can expect this to bother you for a while, but you won't do yourself any favours by moping. What you need right now more than anything is social interaction with other people in your life. There will be others, so don't fret and don't mope. The sun is still shining. Get out there and experience it, even if it's too early to really enjoy it.

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]She has a new bf...she's moved on. Now it's time for you to do so as well. Don't look back...move forward. In time you won't remember what made her so special anyway.sAndroid17

Give it time. Eventually you'll get over her. Try not to dwell on her. New experiences. Keep busy and find others to hang out with. I'm separated so I know what it's like to have someone around...and then not. I'm much happier now..and since your relationship was rocky...I think you will be as well.

ok. my girlfriend of over two years recently broke up with me, about a month ago. a lot of stuff happened and we argued a lot but we loved each other, we have broken up a bunch of times but always got back together. but this time it is real and i ahte it and she already has a new boyfriend.... like ...... already i couldnt believe it. over two years, and we did everything together traveled and stuff. she is saying how happy she is to her friends, not just saying it, she actualy is. now i cant believe this, after a few weeks of us breaking up i stayed at her hose and we slept together, and held each other all night so i figured we would get back together, the next morning she said just because that happened didnt mean anyhing. another stab to the heart. then one day she just stoped answering my calls and txts etc. she said she woke uo and didnt want to do it anymore at all....

i know i have rambled on but i am just very very sad, she has already moved on, i know nothing lasts forever but how can she be this over us already?????? life sucks. everything is boring or sad or lasts too long, i cant enjoy anything its funny how much your life goes from amazing to pfft so quickly.

sAndroid17

Been there, done that. Give it a few months, and I guarentee you you'll be fine again. Also, you need activities to get her out of your mind. Hang with friends more, play some more games, find things to do. After a while, you'll be back on your game. When you're ready to "back into the market", you'll know it. And if you got her to fall in love with you, I'm sure some lucky girl out there will also fall in love. (Also, if you're up for it, try to befriend your ex again, not to get back with her, but just to show her, that even though she dumped you, you want to be friends, it might make her feel a little guilty. While it may not "fix" anything, making someone feel guilty is always fun. ;))

What I used to do (married now) is surf the online personals sites. You can make a free profile and just read about girls and look at their pictures. It helps to think about other girls, even if you're too hurt to actually pursue a relationship with any of them. Plus, if you're feeling vindictive, it can be satisfying to see girls who are better looking or who appear to be smarter than your ex. It wouldn't hurt to contact some of them, too. Some of those sites are for people who want to get married ASAP (eHarmony), but most people just want to meet other people and date, etc. It's like myspace, but the girls WANT to be contaced by strangers.

[QUOTE="sAndroid17"] girls suck.

i loved that desolation thing :)

Jandurin

You have no idea how long I've been waiting to post that. :lol:

ok. my girlfriend of over two years recently broke up with me, about a month ago. a lot of stuff happened and we argued a lot but we loved each other, we have broken up a bunch of times but always got back together. but this time it is real and i ahte it and she already has a new boyfriend.... like ...... already i couldnt believe it. over two years, and we did everything together traveled and stuff. she is saying how happy she is to her friends, not just saying it, she actualy is. now i cant believe this, after a few weeks of us breaking up i stayed at her hose and we slept together, and held each other all night so i figured we would get back together, the next morning she said just because that happened didnt mean anyhing. another stab to the heart. then one day she just stoped answering my calls and txts etc. she said she woke uo and didnt want to do it anymore at all....

i know i have rambled on but i am just very very sad, she has already moved on, i know nothing lasts forever but how can she be this over us already?????? life sucks. everything is boring or sad or lasts too long, i cant enjoy anything its funny how much your life goes from amazing to pfft so quickly.

sAndroid17

Women are evil :cry: xSIZEMATTER

It's the truth.

It sucks dude. Been there done that. But maybe she was ready to move on before you two broke up. It's hard to move on when you're hung on a girl, but you need to over the next few weeks, or it will just be harder for you. Find another girl, hang with your friends more. DO NOT THINK ABOUT HER AT ALL COSTS! The less you think about her before you find another woman, the easier it is to move on.

You should probably go ahead and spread some nasty rumors about her.

She has herpes.

She asked you to perform in a 1 guy, 1 girl, 1 cup.

She is down with interspecies erotica.

Etc...

ok. my girlfriend of over two years recently broke up with me, about a month ago. a lot of stuff happened and we argued a lot but we loved each other, we have broken up a bunch of times but always got back together. but this time it is real and i ahte it and she already has a new boyfriend.... like ...... already i couldnt believe it. over two years, and we did everything together traveled and stuff. she is saying how happy she is to her friends, not just saying it, she actualy is. now i cant believe this, after a few weeks of us breaking up i stayed at her hose and we slept together, and held each other all night so i figured we would get back together, the next morning she said just because that happened didnt mean anyhing. another stab to the heart. then one day she just stoped answering my calls and txts etc. she said she woke uo and didnt want to do it anymore at all....

i know i have rambled on but i am just very very sad, she has already moved on, i know nothing lasts forever but how can she be this over us already?????? life sucks. everything is boring or sad or lasts too long, i cant enjoy anything its funny how much your life goes from amazing to pfft so quickly.

sAndroid17

[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="sAndroid17"] girls suck.

i loved that desolation thing :)

gameroz

You have no idea how long I've been waiting to post that. :lol:

Are you talking seriously?

How can all the girls suck because ONE girl decided to move on AFTER they broke up??

Stop being immature and think. :|

You are talking like you've met countless girls and all of them were whores! This thread is pathetic...

[QUOTE="gameroz"][QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="sAndroid17"] girls suck.

i loved that desolation thing :)

teh_619

You have no idea how long I've been waiting to post that. :lol:

Are you talking seriously?

How can all the girls suck because ONE girl decided to move on AFTER they broke up??

Stop being immature and think. :|

You are talking like you've met countless girls and all of them were whores! This thread is pathetic...

I do love it when people forego courtesy in these threads and say what should be said - salute!

Are you talking seriously?

How can all the girls suck because ONE girl decided to move on AFTER they broke up??

Stop being immature and think. :|

You are talking like you've met countless girls and all of them were whores! This thread is pathetic...

teh_619