Excuses you use to deny the hang out request

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#1 massiv-damage
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You know, when that guy you can't stand asks you to chill with him? I mean, he's a nice guy, you wouldn't want to hurt him, you just don't want to be with him any more than you have to (ie school, work).

"I got stuff to do"

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#2 Pirate700
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I use the sam excuse I use for friends I don't want to hang out with. I either tell them I'm bussy or I just don't want to.

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#3 michael_1234576
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I have to wash my hair
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#4 tofu-lion91
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I've denied going out saying I need to wash my hair. It's always been true but obviously washing my hair doesn't take all night...well an hour or so but hey ^____^
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#5 Denion
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I'm busy or no.

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#6 tofu-lion91
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I have to wash my hairmichael_1234576
Heyy great minds think alike! :lol:
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#7 -TheSecondSign-
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I punch that person in the face for no apparent reason, and they stop asking me to hang out.

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#8 JimCarreyForYou
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I have something to do.
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#9 hydralisk86
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[QUOTE="michael_1234576"]I have to wash my hairtofu-lion91
Heyy great minds think alike! :lol:

Well, just because you guys had the same idea doesn't make your minds great. Maybe it's because you guys have similar minds which are not so great... J/p, I've never had that problem, because I hang out with people who are my friends, or that I get along with.
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#10 194197844077667059316682358889
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"Sorry, it's my night to brush the dog's teeth" I have an acquaintance who is a cameraman and editor for, um, adult gay movies and whenever he doesn't want to hang out with straight friends, he'll just start to explain in vivid detail about something he has to edit and they are usually so eager to get him to shut up, it gets him a free pass. I think that I would prefer to just tell people I didn't like them over going that route.
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#11 JC346
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I either say I need to go to my grandmother's house, or just say I don't want to.
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#12 JimCarreyForYou
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Other: I have no money to go out. I don't have money and my car is without gas.
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#13 XD4NTESINF3RNOX
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either that i don't feel like it or just not answer the phone :) wow like literally after i posted this the phone rang and it was my friend wanting to hang out like no lie kinda creepy

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#14 chugachea
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My friends are nosy and no excuse gets me out. If i say i'm doing something they don't believe me and question me further. From there i usually have to make up something completely bizarre.

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#15 DrSponge
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"I'm too tired"
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#16 194197844077667059316682358889
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My friends are nosy and no excuse gets me out. If i say i'm doing something they don't believe me and question me further. From there i usually have to make up something completely bizarre.

chugachea
"Sry, I have to run this One Ring to Mordor; maybe when I get back?"
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#17 moose_knuckler
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Shoot, I've gotta go polka dancing with my aunt tonight.
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#18 tomo90
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'Need to fix my bike'

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#19 nocoolnamejim
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Depends. If you don't want to hang with the guy because you don't feel you have a lot in common, any joint interests, or shared activities that you'd both enjoy...then I'd say that. If you don't want to hang with the guy because you think you're in different social cliques in high school, then my advice would be to "man up" and either say that (which would be pretty shallow) or get over it and try and get to know the guy before shutting him down.
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#20 Scianix-Black
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I have a paper to do.

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#21 JustPlainLucas
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Well, if it's for something at night, I usually say I have work early the next morning, or if it's during the day, I say I'm helping my parents with something.
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#22 geodisicdome
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'not tonight man. i'm watching james bond and getting high'
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#23 Pirate700
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'not tonight man. i'm watching james bond and getting high'geodisicdome
:| That's an excuse?

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#24 McJugga
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"No thanks."

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#25 Niff_T
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I never have that problem cause I'm not friends with people I won't want to hang out with... :P

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#26 comp_atkins
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hanging with my chick
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#27 XilePrincess
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people that arent friends and love shoving their way into plans like they are: "busy(something really good is on dr phil today)", "have to watch my sister(she's almost 13 and really doesnt need a babysitter)", "homework(I do online school, all my work is 'home' work)", "my cat has a broken leg(true) and he needs help moving (not really true, he's a trooper)" I've used "I left my BC pills at home, can't take them late" before, but that was true, just convenient that it gave me an opportunity not to hang out with that person.. Guy I can't stand: "**** off I don't want to hang out with you". Why would I sugarcoat it if I can't stand him? I don't care who he's nice to, I can't stand him.
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#28 howlrunner13
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I never have that problem cause I'm not friends with people I won't want to hang out with... :P

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Same.

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#29 Nerd_Man
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Usually when that happens to me, I just tell the person I'm busy and can't go out.

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#30 VaguelyTagged
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GTFO*smiles gently*

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#31 JimCarreyForYou
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I click on *Decline* invitation.
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#32 Anti-Repellent
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"I don't feel well and want to lie down/sleep. Sorry."

Which is pretty much how I feel 24/7, so it's a real excuse..

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#33 Pirate700
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What I really can't stand are the friends that try to guilt trip you into hanging out with them or make you feel like your obligated to do so. :x

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#34 awesomeface
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When I'm on the phone, I just yell "what?" as if someone is calling me, and tell that person that I have to go, and won't be able to hang out. In person, I just tell them I have homework.
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#35 tofu-lion91
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(I do online school, all my work is 'home' work) XilePrincess
I couldn't do that - I'd LIVE on gs and never get any work done! ...well I mostly do that anyway but at least I get most of my work done at college :P
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#36 JimCarreyForYou
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What I really can't stand are the friends that try to guilt trip you into hanging out with them or make you feel like your obligated to do so. :x

Pirate700
Haha, ya on HS they always managed me to go with them like that.
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#37 FragStains
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1) I'm counting my toes tonight, sorry. 2) I'm defrosting my freezer with a hair dryer, sorry. 3) I'm in the middle of a herpes outbreak, sorry. 4) I have to sit in my bathtub drinking merlot and eating pills, sorry. 5) Sure, I haven't murdered anyone lately. 7 sound good. Dress in loose fitting clothing and bring your dental records.
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#38 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

What I really can't stand are the friends that try to guilt trip you into hanging out with them or make you feel like your obligated to do so. :x

JimCarreyForYou

Haha, ya on HS they always managed me to go with them like that.

Even after college I had buddies that still did that. Then they'd get all pissed off when I didn't feel like doing something with them.

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#39 mattykovax
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My friends all know that if I just say im not doing much it means I am being anti-social. That or I do not feel well. Anyone who is not close enough to know that is code for wanting alone time I would not waste tiem with anyways.
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#40 deactivated-57e5de5e137a4
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No thanks that would suck and be boring.
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#41 FatalFantasy206
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I try to never make excuses, I am a very upfront (though never rude) person.

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#42 sarahxox
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'Im skint.'

'but you wont need any money'

'well its obviously boring so no.'

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#43 themagicbum9720
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i bash whatever they want me to do and hang up.
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#44 luke1889
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"I don't want to. I'd rather be at home." :lol: Or, "I'm too tired." :P

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#45 DrSponge
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i bash whatever they want me to do and hang up.themagicbum9720
You sound exactly like me >_>
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#46 Pirate700
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I try to never make excuses, I am a very upfront (though never rude) person.

FatalFantasy206

A lot of folks don't seem to be able to take "I don't feel like it" as an acceptable answer though.

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#47 Serraph105
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I usually just tell them I have stuff to do or I am too tired which are usually true cause I love going out and doing stuff with people.

If I dont like them however I usually just tell them to **** off

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#48 shoeman12
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i've got something to do.
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#49 lonewolf604
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family dinner, or anything family related, they can't get mad at that now can they?
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#50 GodofBigMacs
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I just say I'm really tired and have a lot of homework.