Finally broke up with my "girlfriend" lifes good!!! Oh yeah!!!!

So after months of posting my frustrations on the forums, I finally decided to kick this girl out of my life for good! I know this isn't a big deal to most of you, but its a great deal to me financially and emotionally. I knew it was the right time to let her go when all the red flags were popping up in my head. Here are my reasons for the termination of the relationship:

-Always taking and not giving

-Always wanted me to do most of the work in the relationship

-Lying about little things for no reason

-Had a child from a previous bad relationship

-No future goals in life

Well now that she is out of my life, I feel this burden has finally been lifted of my shoulders.

Thoughts?

1. Congrats! :)

2. How did she take things?

3. Have you got a contingency plan, just in case the initial euphoria fades and you find yourself lonely and miserable?

Good for you TC. Looks like you made the right decision.

How did she take the break up?

Good for you TC. Looks like you made the right decision.

How did she take the break up?

muller39

You are a monster... that poor poor woman.

Good for you man. No one needs negatives in their lives. ChampionoChumps

Unless your a photographer.

[QUOTE="ChampionoChumps"]Good for you man. No one needs negatives in their lives. tenaka2

Unless your a photographer.

So after months of posting my frustrations on the forums, I finally decided to kick this girl out of my life for good! I know this isn't a big deal to most of you, but its a great deal to me financially and emotionally. I knew it was the right time to let her go when all the red flags were popping up in my head. Here are my reasons for the termination of the relationship:

-Always taking and not giving

-Always wanted me to do most of the work in the relationship

-Lying about little things for no reason

-Had a child from a previous bad relationship

-No future goals in life

Well now that she is out of my life, I feel this burden has finally been lifted of my shoulders.

Thoughts?

thats means no sex on the menu.

Adamantium4k2

Had a child from a previous bad relationshipAdamantium4k2

Sad that it took you months to do it.....LJS9502_basic

This feeling will only last about 2 days... make sure you don't fall back into it. Vulnerability mode starts in 72 hours.undergroundLPx

Thanks for all the positive feedback!

Dont worry, I'm not going back and if she tries to contact me, I'll ignore her. I would rather be alone than to be with someone that makes my life miserable.

Thanks for all the positive feedback!

Dont worry, I'm not going back and if she tries to contact me, I'll ignore her. I would rather be alone than to be with someone that makes my life miserable.

Adamantium4k2

Nice job man, I remember your previous thread and it sounded like you were being put in a bad position because she only had her own interests in mind. Glad you got it sorted out, as I think she was leading you down a bad path. Old thread if anyone is interested: http://www.gamespot.com/forums/topic/29295497/uhhh-help-my-girlfriend-wants-me-to-move-in-with-herGeneral_X

Oh I remember that thread.

Good to know that everything turned out great for you TC. It' s better to be alone than with someone that drains every bit of your happiness each day.

Good job!!! Plenty of viable reasons to break up.

Broke up with my ex 6-7 months ago.

-lied about little things for no discerible reason.

-Mother controlled most of her money and spent most of it (still perplexed by this one).

-Was insane.

I had a no kid rule until I hit 30 (now 32). I'll consider a woman with one kid now, no more.

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New thread in Nov confirmed.

Good job!!! Plenty of viable reasons to break up.

Broke up with my ex 6-7 months ago.

-lied about little things for no discerible reason.

-Mother controlled most of her money and spent most of it (still perplexed by this one).

-Was insane.

I had a no kid rule until I hit 30 (now 32). I'll consider a woman with one kid now, no more.

Boddicker

Any guy that uses that line when referring to an ex was most likely the problem to begin with -- I'll never understand why every so many guys who break up with their girl calls them crazy/insane/psycho, etc. JUST BECAUSE IT DIDN"T WORK OUT DOESN"T MEAN WE WERE CRAZY!!!!

[spoiler] [/spoiler]

New thread in Nov confirmed.

[QUOTE="Boddicker"]

Good job!!! Plenty of viable reasons to break up.

Broke up with my ex 6-7 months ago.

-lied about little things for no discerible reason.

-Mother controlled most of her money and spent most of it (still perplexed by this one).

-Was insane.

I had a no kid rule until I hit 30 (now 32). I'll consider a woman with one kid now, no more.

TecmoGirl

Any guy that uses that line when referring to an ex was most likely the problem to begin with -- I'll never understand why every so many guys who break up with their girl calls them crazy/insane/psycho, etc. JUST BECAUSE IT DIDN"T WORK OUT DOESN"T MEAN WE WERE CRAZY!!!!

[spoiler] [/spoiler]

New thread in Nov confirmed.

[QUOTE="Boddicker"]

Good job!!! Plenty of viable reasons to break up.

Broke up with my ex 6-7 months ago.

-lied about little things for no discerible reason.

-Mother controlled most of her money and spent most of it (still perplexed by this one).

-Was insane.

I had a no kid rule until I hit 30 (now 32). I'll consider a woman with one kid now, no more.

TecmoGirl

Any guy that uses that line when referring to an ex was most likely the problem to begin with -- I'll never understand why every so many guys who break up with their girl calls them crazy/insane/psycho, etc. JUST BECAUSE IT DIDN"T WORK OUT DOESN"T MEAN WE WERE CRAZY!!!!

I dated her for almost two years. A few months in I broke up with her for 2 weeks to date another girl ( I know, dick move). Everyday of that 2 weeks she left 20-30 voicemails and 100+ texts. It even got to the point that I was having my new gf answer the phone and telling her to F' off. It stressed my new gf out so much she left and I stupidly got back with the psycho.

She faked a pregnancy after this (she eventually came clean months after the "miscarriage").

In her defense she had severe daddy issues (stepdad molested her) and her mom was a bad alcoholic. I will admit that for the last year of our relationship I knew I needed to leave her, but I guess I just got comfortable. It was a monstrous thing to do.

It looks like you were on a really bad relationship. However, I can't help to say this: "enjoy your right hand for a while".

[spoiler] [/spoiler]

New thread in Nov confirmed.

[QUOTE="Boddicker"]

Good job!!! Plenty of viable reasons to break up.

Broke up with my ex 6-7 months ago.

-lied about little things for no discerible reason.

-Mother controlled most of her money and spent most of it (still perplexed by this one).

-Was insane.

I had a no kid rule until I hit 30 (now 32). I'll consider a woman with one kid now, no more.

TecmoGirl

Any guy that uses that line when referring to an ex was most likely the problem to begin with -- I'll never understand why every so many guys who break up with their girl calls them crazy/insane/psycho, etc. JUST BECAUSE IT DIDN"T WORK OUT DOESN"T MEAN WE WERE CRAZY!!!!

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

[spoiler] [/spoiler]

New thread in Nov confirmed.

[QUOTE="Boddicker"]

Good job!!! Plenty of viable reasons to break up.

Broke up with my ex 6-7 months ago.

-lied about little things for no discerible reason.

-Mother controlled most of her money and spent most of it (still perplexed by this one).

-Was insane.

I had a no kid rule until I hit 30 (now 32). I'll consider a woman with one kid now, no more.

chrisrooR

Any guy that uses that line when referring to an ex was most likely the problem to begin with -- I'll never understand why every so many guys who break up with their girl calls them crazy/insane/psycho, etc. JUST BECAUSE IT DIDN"T WORK OUT DOESN"T MEAN WE WERE CRAZY!!!!

I dated her for almost two years. A few months in I broke up with her for 2 weeks to date another girl ( I know, dick move). Everyday of that 2 weeks she left 20-30 voicemails and 100+ texts. It even got to the point that I was having my new gf answer the phone and telling her to F' off. It stressed my new gf out so much she left and I stupidly got back with the psycho.

She faked a pregnancy after this (she eventually came clean months after the "miscarriage").

In her defense she had severe daddy issues (stepdad molested her) and her mom was a bad alcoholic. I will admit that for the last year of our relationship I knew I needed to leave her, but I guess I just got comfortable. It was a monstrous thing to do.Boddicker

lol! Even though I was just messing around about it, thnx for the explanation. But like, usually details like that tend to be greatly blown out of proportion(number of text and voicemails).

5 text messages = 500 for men

2 voice messages = 50

And i'm willing to bet that most of the time, they only receive those because the guy just faded out without any explanation and she just wants to know whats going on overall. Mens are usually cowards when it comes to breakups. But if all true, then point proven. Definitely crazy!

Because some women are insane. Overcontrolling, overly emotional, clingy sort-of-insane. I'm guessing you've been called insane/psycho before by an ex-lover?

Maybe behind my back by the ones who were manipulative, emotional abusing, ****s who like to use terms like that just to avoid their own faults. But I doubt it.

Every last one of my exes were @ssholes to me in one way or another, but I don't throw dirt on them in front of others because of it. There will always be some love there no matter how little overall, despite any problems I've had with them. I feel they deserve that amount of respect and anything less is just being totally sour -- especially when i'm suppose to had moved on from it. Also, even if I did throw dirt, that would probably just make other girls more interested in finding out for themseleves anyways.

[QUOTE="Boddicker"]

I dated her for almost two years. A few months in I broke up with her for 2 weeks to date another girl ( I know, dick move). Everyday of that 2 weeks she left 20-30 voicemails and 100+ texts. It even got to the point that I was having my new gf answer the phone and telling her to F' off. It stressed my new gf out so much she left and I stupidly got back with the psycho.

She faked a pregnancy after this (she eventually came clean months after the "miscarriage").

In her defense she had severe daddy issues (stepdad molested her) and her mom was a bad alcoholic. I will admit that for the last year of our relationship I knew I needed to leave her, but I guess I just got comfortable. It was a monstrous thing to do.TecmoGirl

lol! Even though I was just messing around about it, thnx for the explanation. But like, usually details like that tend to be greatly blown out of proportion(number of text and voicemails).

5 text messages = 500 for men

2 voice messages = 50

And i'm willing to bet that most of the time, they only receive those because the guy just faded out without any explanation and she just wants to know whats going on overall. Mens are usually cowards when it comes to breakups. But if all true, then point proven. Definitely crazy!

Because some women are insane. Overcontrolling, overly emotional, clingy sort-of-insane. I'm guessing you've been called insane/psycho before by an ex-lover?

Maybe behind my back by the ones who were manipulative, emotional abusing, ****s who like to use terms like that just to avoid their own faults. But I doubt it.

Every last one of my exes were @ssholes to me in one way or another, but I don't throw dirt on them in front of others because of it. There will always be some love there no matter how little overall, despite any problems I've had with them. I feel they deserve that amount of respect and anything less is just being totally sour -- especially when i'm suppose to had moved on from it. Also, even if I did throw dirt, that would probably just make other girls more interested in finding out for themseleves anyways.

From what I read, it just seems like you weren't ready for an adult relationship.

Time to celebrate.

Snap into a slim jim oh yeah!.

And then wash it down with some Kool-aid:

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

[QUOTE="Boddicker"]

I dated her for almost two years. A few months in I broke up with her for 2 weeks to date another girl ( I know, dick move). Everyday of that 2 weeks she left 20-30 voicemails and 100+ texts. It even got to the point that I was having my new gf answer the phone and telling her to F' off. It stressed my new gf out so much she left and I stupidly got back with the psycho.

She faked a pregnancy after this (she eventually came clean months after the "miscarriage").

In her defense she had severe daddy issues (stepdad molested her) and her mom was a bad alcoholic. I will admit that for the last year of our relationship I knew I needed to leave her, but I guess I just got comfortable. It was a monstrous thing to do.jeremiah06

lol! Even though I was just messing around about it, thnx for the explanation. But like, usually details like that tend to be greatly blown out of proportion(number of text and voicemails).

5 text messages = 500 for men

2 voice messages = 50

And i'm willing to bet that most of the time, they only receive those because the guy just faded out without any explanation and she just wants to know whats going on overall. Mens are usually cowards when it comes to breakups. But if all true, then point proven. Definitely crazy!

Because some women are insane. Overcontrolling, overly emotional, clingy sort-of-insane. I'm guessing you've been called insane/psycho before by an ex-lover?

Maybe behind my back by the ones who were manipulative, emotional abusing, ****s who like to use terms like that just to avoid their own faults. But I doubt it.

Every last one of my exes were @ssholes to me in one way or another, but I don't throw dirt on them in front of others because of it. There will always be some love there no matter how little overall, despite any problems I've had with them. I feel they deserve that amount of respect and anything less is just being totally sour -- especially when i'm suppose to had moved on from it. Also, even if I did throw dirt, that would probably just make other girls more interested in finding out for themseleves anyways.

[QUOTE="Boddicker"]

I dated her for almost two years. A few months in I broke up with her for 2 weeks to date another girl ( I know, dick move). Everyday of that 2 weeks she left 20-30 voicemails and 100+ texts. It even got to the point that I was having my new gf answer the phone and telling her to F' off. It stressed my new gf out so much she left and I stupidly got back with the psycho.

She faked a pregnancy after this (she eventually came clean months after the "miscarriage").

In her defense she had severe daddy issues (stepdad molested her) and her mom was a bad alcoholic. I will admit that for the last year of our relationship I knew I needed to leave her, but I guess I just got comfortable. It was a monstrous thing to do.TecmoGirl

lol! Even though I was just messing around about it, thnx for the explanation. But like, usually details like that tend to be greatly blown out of proportion(number of text and voicemails).

5 text messages = 500 for men

2 voice messages = 50

And i'm willing to bet that most of the time, they only receive those because the guy just faded out without any explanation and she just wants to know whats going on overall. Mens are usually cowards when it comes to breakups. But if all true, then point proven. Definitely crazy!

It's all true and the number of voicemails/texts is not exaggerated at all.

As for the fading out without an explanation; I explained my reasons very clearly and precisely.

1) I was tired of her CONSTANT lying. I mean she was lying about little stuff that there was no reason to lie about.

2) I was moving to another state for college (moving in 2 weeks as we speak). I don't do the long distance stuff and to be blunt I wanted my options open again.

This ended up with her calling my housephone 20-40 times a day and accusing me of having someone else everytime I picked up. It eventually stopped after 2-3 days.

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New thread in Nov confirmed.

[QUOTE="Boddicker"]

Good job!!! Plenty of viable reasons to break up.

Broke up with my ex 6-7 months ago.

-lied about little things for no discerible reason.

-Mother controlled most of her money and spent most of it (still perplexed by this one).

-Was insane.

I had a no kid rule until I hit 30 (now 32). I'll consider a woman with one kid now, no more.

TecmoGirl

Any guy that uses that line when referring to an ex was most likely the problem to begin with -- I'll never understand why every so many guys who break up with their girl calls them crazy/insane/psycho, etc. JUST BECAUSE IT DIDN"T WORK OUT DOESN"T MEAN WE WERE CRAZY!!!!

You are all crazy, we date as many girls as crazy to get to the least crazy of you.

Happy for you... but not me, I miss my g/f. eventho she means to me sometimes, but cuz she loves me. haven't get to see her in a month. Im sad.Dogswithguns

She views you as worthless and weak.

"life is good" lol the denial

You'll be crying a river in no time just wait...

Yo Idunno why people date girls like that. I want a girl without issues man.BranKetra

[QUOTE="BranKetra"]Yo Idunno why people date girls like that. I want a girl without issues man.Shottayouth13-