First date. Stuck in a dilemma. HELP!

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#1 mr-sheep
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Okay, people of gamespot. I'm taking this girl out tonight for dinner to my favorite spot. Prolli do a lil something something afterwards haha whatever decides to come up. At this moment, we are going alone, just the two of us.

A few days ago she really wanted another couple to come along too. Those two can't make it tonight so yeah, like I said earlier it's just the two of us going now. She's cool with it, but I have a feeling that she won't be that comfortable tonight even though I personally see that things won't be awkward at all.

I was wondering if I should a fast one and show up with another couple when I pick her up tonight? Or should I just screw it and have a more intimate affair with her.

Hmmmm.....

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Don't grab random people. That's 100x worse than just being alone together, if she doesn't know them well. I'd just go alone if I were you, if you're comfortable she'll eventually become comfortable because the vibe of the whole situation is really relaxed.
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#3 mr-sheep
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Don't grab random people. That's 100x worse than just being alone together, if she doesn't know them well. I'd just go alone if I were you, if you're comfortable she'll eventually become comfortable because the vibe of the whole situation is really relaxed.XilePrincess
I wasn't going to pick up random people haha, I'm thinking, her good friend and her date for prom. But yeaaaah.
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Just go alone with her.
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Go alone and keep your lips moving, relaxed environment
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Go by yourself. But lower your expectations. I doubt that you'll get some. Nothing on you, it's just girls don't usually...er.. "give a dude a cookie" on the first date. Also, go to Olive Garden. Or Red Lobster. Both are good date places. But don't forget to sit in a booth and tell her a story all about how my life got flipped, turned upside down. I'd like to take a minute just to sit right there and tell you all about how I became the prince of a town called Bel-Air. In west Philadelphia, born and raised, on a playground is where I spent most of my days. Chillin' out, maxin', relaxin' all cool, and shooting some b-ball out side the school. Well a couple of guys who were up to no good, started making trouble in my neighborhood. I got in one little fight and my mom got scared and said "You're moving with your auntie and uncle in Bel-Air". I whistled for a cab, and when it came near, the license plate said "Fresh" and it had dice in the mirror. If anything, I could tell that this cab was rare, but I though "Nah. forget it. Yo homes, to Bel-Air!" I pulled up to a house, about seven or eight, and I yelled to the cabbie "Yo homes. smell you later!" I looked at my kingdom, I was finally there, to sit upon my throne as the Prince of Bel-Air.
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Go by yourself. But lower your expectations. I doubt that you'll get some. Nothing on you, it's just girls don't usually...er.. "give a dude a cookie" on the first date. Also, go to Olive Garden. Or Red Lobster. Both are good date places. But don't forget to sit in a booth and tell her a story all about how my life got flipped, turned upside down. I'd like to take a minute just to sit right there and tell you all about how I became the prince of a town called Bel-Air. In west Philadelphia, born and raised, on a playground is where I spent most of my days. Chillin' out, maxin', relaxin' all cool, and shooting some b-ball out side the school. Well a couple of guys who were up to no good, started making trouble in my neighborhood. I got in one little fight and my mom got scared and said "You're moving with your auntie and uncle in Bel-Air". I whistled for a cab, and when it came near, the license plate said "Fresh" and it had dice in the mirror. If anything, I could tell that this cab was rare, but I though "Nah. forget it. Yo homes, to Bel-Air!" I pulled up to a house, about seven or eight, and I yelled to the cabbie "Yo homes. smell you later!" I looked at my kingdom, I was finally there, to sit upon my throne as the Prince of Bel-Air.GHlegend77

lol nice.

But on topic, go alone and lower your expectations. I doubt you'll get some. Nothing on you though...oh wait :shock:

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I'm guessing you two don't know each other too well yet. And if she's the one proposed to do the group date, chances are she's not entirely into you yet. If a girl is completely into you, she'll probably ditch everyone and everything just to spend more time with you

I'll keep it light and make it fun for her to be around me if I'm in your spot, that is, if you plan to see her a second time

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Do NOT invite other people, just make up for it with some stuff afterwards.

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Go by yourself. But lower your expectations. I doubt that you'll get some. Nothing on you, it's just girls don't usually...er.. "give a dude a cookie" on the first date. Also, go to Olive Garden. Or Red Lobster. Both are good date places. But don't forget to sit in a booth and tell her a story all about how my life got flipped, turned upside down. I'd like to take a minute just to sit right there and tell you all about how I became the prince of a town called Bel-Air. In west Philadelphia, born and raised, on a playground is where I spent most of my days. Chillin' out, maxin', relaxin' all cool, and shooting some b-ball out side the school. Well a couple of guys who were up to no good, started making trouble in my neighborhood. I got in one little fight and my mom got scared and said "You're moving with your auntie and uncle in Bel-Air". I whistled for a cab, and when it came near, the license plate said "Fresh" and it had dice in the mirror. If anything, I could tell that this cab was rare, but I though "Nah. forget it. Yo homes, to Bel-Air!" I pulled up to a house, about seven or eight, and I yelled to the cabbie "Yo homes. smell you later!" I looked at my kingdom, I was finally there, to sit upon my throne as the Prince of Bel-Air.GHlegend77
I could hear Will Smith in my head singing that :P
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Just go by yourself and be comfortable and relaxed with her. She'll soon relax too if she's nervous and you should have a good time. Also, if she's nervous then don't expect "a lot" of things to happen :P
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Go by yourself. But lower your expectations. I doubt that you'll get some. Nothing on you, it's just girls don't usually...er.. "give a dude a cookie" on the first date. Also, go to Olive Garden. Or Red Lobster. Both are good date places. But don't forget to sit in a booth and tell her a story all about how my life got flipped, turned upside down. I'd like to take a minute just to sit right there and tell you all about how I became the prince of a town called Bel-Air. In west Philadelphia, born and raised, on a playground is where I spent most of my days. Chillin' out, maxin', relaxin' all cool, and shooting some b-ball out side the school. Well a couple of guys who were up to no good, started making trouble in my neighborhood. I got in one little fight and my mom got scared and said "You're moving with your auntie and uncle in Bel-Air". I whistled for a cab, and when it came near, the license plate said "Fresh" and it had dice in the mirror. If anything, I could tell that this cab was rare, but I though "Nah. forget it. Yo homes, to Bel-Air!" I pulled up to a house, about seven or eight, and I yelled to the cabbie "Yo homes. smell you later!" I looked at my kingdom, I was finally there, to sit upon my throne as the Prince of Bel-Air.GHlegend77

LOL this is an epic post. You should do what this guy says, TC. :P