First time! (Another girl thread)

Yo I am nineteen and this girl is seventeen. I have a crush on her, and I met her at the Mcdonald restaurant sometimes ago but never got the chance to talk to her. She looks at me and smile when I "stare" at her. It happens very often when I visit Mcdonald but we never talk except for ordering a menu. Two days ago I took the step to be a man. I wrote a letter on Facebook and told her she was a cute girl and that if she remembers me. She answers back and I keep talking about job application to MCdonald and now we talk a little bit about school since the school she's graduating at is the school I went too last year.

So I don't know what my next move is, and I don't want this to be a friend-zone type of thing soon, we've nearly spoken much to each other and I've added her on Facebook. I want to take the step and be honest with her and tell her that I love her or something like that, be real you know what I'm saying?

So what can you Gamespot "Professionalists" say about this?

Thanks, peace and one love.

Ask her out?

Ask her out?

swizz-the-gamer

Tip: Don't tell the girl you barely know who you stare at in McDonalds that you love her.bobbetybob

Jesus, I was 13 when I asked my girl out. I'm still going out with her, and I'm 15. You can't ask her out?

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Ask her out?

Welis

[QUOTE="swizz-the-gamer"]

Ask her out?

Welis

"Wanna catch a movie some time?" Seriously, not hard.

[QUOTE="swizz-the-gamer"]

Ask her out?

Welis

Have a long and nice conversation with her first, and just before either of you are about to go, ask her out. Simple. People shouldnt be shy of women, because women feel the same about men they see (this is coming from my gf :P )

Yeah well.. I am not as confident as you are maybe. I am a wuss when it comes to girl.Welis

Just go for it. You're never going to reproduce with that attitude.

:P

Yeah well.. I am not as confident as you are maybe. I am a wuss when it comes to girl.Welis

Dont get me wrong, it can be nerve racking, first time asking a girl out and i almost fainted lol :P but seriously, you have nothing to lose. First try and be comfortable talking to her, and when you feel like asking her out, then ask her out ;)

Asking her out, well I don't want to sound desperate on her. I am kinda paranouid when it comes to if she think I might be a) A stalker b) A freak c) Desperate But okay, I'll.... ask her out 0_o And yeah I am 19Welis

OR she might think that you...i dunno...LIKE her?!?

Tell her how you feel (don't use LOVE, though), ask her out...see where it goes.

Easy.

if you keep on just talking on fb or where ever about some crap like school or work or what ever it will turn into the freind thing and you dont want that.. just ask if she wants to go out sometime..see what she says.. can only be yes or no so dont sweat it..

Hmm you guys are right. I need to work on my self esteem and I need to ask her out. It has to be done!Welis

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Ask her out?

Welis

Why don't you find out more about her personality and such...don't rush into things...

Why don't you find out more about her personality and such...don't rush into things...

Xx_Hopeless_xX

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Why don't you find out more about her personality and such...don't rush into things...

Welis

I would still wait it out and see if you REALLY like her personality and such...no one's saying wait months..just don't rush into it...it usually never ends well..

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Why don't you find out more about her personality and such...don't rush into things...

Xx_Hopeless_xX

I would still wait it out and see if you REALLY like her personality and such...no one's saying wait months..just don't rush into it...it usually never ends well..

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[QUOTE="Welis"] That's what my sister said to me. Not rush out yet and ask her out.. But the majority on GS says so. I just don't want it to end in a friend zone, so I feel it has to be rushed or give her some space. Still haven't respond to her last email yet.Welis

I would still wait it out and see if you REALLY like her personality and such...no one's saying wait months..just don't rush into it...it usually never ends well..

No idea :x..

love her!?! just try and ask her out.. whats the worse that could happen.. her saying no

Go for the kill.

As other people are saying here do not use the word "Love". That will instantly kill everything. She may even stop talking to you completely and think you are just some weird stalker.

As other people are saying here do not use the word "Love". That will instantly kill everything. She may even stop talking to you completely and think you are just some weird stalker.

bigblunt537

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As other people are saying here do not use the word "Love". That will instantly kill everything. She may even stop talking to you completely and think you are just some weird stalker.

Welis

If you do ask her to a movie or something and you both start talking again I repeat don't use love then either. Wait at least 2-3 months before ever thinking of that word ever again and for any other possible future relationships. I know you're excited and I hope all works out, but don't ruin anything because of your excitement. Personally I'd get her number on facebook if you haven't done that already and stop talking to her on FB. Give her a call and talk to her as a strong confident man. Show your interested, but don't show your obsessed. Act as if you like her, but you know you can still find other people. If you put her on a pedestal she may just walk all over that night and then stop talking to you. Good luck.

[QUOTE="Welis"][QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

As other people are saying here do not use the word "Love". That will instantly kill everything. She may even stop talking to you completely and think you are just some weird stalker.

bigblunt537

If you do ask her to a movie or something and you both start talking again I repeat don't use love then either. Wait at least 2-3 months before ever thinking of that word ever again and for any other possible future relationships. I know you're excited and I hope all works out, but don't ruin anything because of your excitement. Personally I'd get her number on facebook if you haven't done that already and stop talking to her on FB. Give her a call and talk to her as a strong confident man. Show your interested, but don't show your obsessed. Act as if you like her, but you know you can still find other people. If you put her on a pedestal she may just walk all over that night and then stop talking to you. Good luck.

dude. for all you know she might think your inviting her to certain death since you stare at her like a stalker

So what can you Gamespot "Professionalists" say about this?

Welis

Buy her a ring and then go to her house in front of her parents and tell her how much

you love her and you want to marry her..and then honeymoon at Mcdonald's and then

all is good.

oki wouldtalk just a little longer you know see wat she likes and wat she enjoys doing that way wen you ask her out you know wereto take herbecause you no wat she likes and dont like ie she likes movies but hates meals. you take her to the movies and your theirlol... just ask her out if she says no then you know shes not interested but if she smiles and say err yea ok then your in lol

I wrote a letter on Facebook and told her she was a cute girl and that if she remembers me. (...)

Thanks, peace and one love.

Welis

Research her Facebook quizzes results.

Work with them, be creative.

Let's say her result for "My favorite vegetable" is potato. Cruse around the groceries store. Search for the biggest potato. It has to be frikkin huge. Enormous. We're talking about a potato colossus here. When you finally get the potato go with it to the McDonald's, meet the girl. Talk with her about the potato, the hardship you had to endure to obtain it. After she's, like wow that's the best potato ever, make the potato a gift to her.

Profit.

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I wrote a letter on Facebook and told her she was a cute girl and that if she remembers me. (...)

Thanks, peace and one love.

shinian

Research her Facebook quizzes results.

Work with them, be creative.

Let's say her result for "My favorite vegetable" is potato. Cruse around the groceries store. Search for the biggest potato. It has to be frikkin huge. Enormous. We're talking about a potato colossus here. When you finally get the potato go with it to the McDonald's, meet the girl. Talk with her about the potato, the hardship you had to endure to obtain it. After she's, like wow that's the best potato ever, make the potato a gift to her.

Profit.

FHUTA

FHUTA

MyNameisaMeme

Well I didn't actually "stare" at her like an awful stalker would do. I gave her a quick, uhm.. dunno the word but you get what I am saying I hope :Welis

Ask her out?

swizz-the-gamer

Oh great.. She joined a group called "I'm Single.. And you're going to have to be freakin' awesome to change that". Man, she puts a lot of pressure on me! OMGWelis

Don't worry about it mate you seem like a nice guy at least over the forums personally I think she'll probably say yes but if she doesn't don't worry about it I bet lots of other girls will say yes to you. Also don't listen to all the 13 year olds on this thread saying they ask girls out with no problem... at that age a relationship is a lot different than it is at 19...like a lot different :) I suggest you ask her out and good luck!

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[QUOTE="Welis"]

I wrote a letter on Facebook and told her she was a cute girl and that if she remembers me. (...)

Thanks, peace and one love.

bobbetybob

Research her Facebook quizzes results.

Work with them, be creative.

Let's say her result for "My favorite vegetable" is potato. Cruse around the groceries store. Search for the biggest potato. It has to be frikkin huge. Enormous. We're talking about a potato colossus here. When you finally get the potato go with it to the McDonald's, meet the girl. Talk with her about the potato, the hardship you had to endure to obtain it. After she's, like wow that's the best potato ever, make the potato a gift to her.

Profit.

like Nike says: Just Do It. ask her to a movie or dinner or lunch, chill with her, and if you like her, make it official. if not, just take it to the friend zone.killer_beanz

This basically. The friend zone isn't nearly as bad as everyone says anyways.