[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="MagnumPI"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="PhantasmCipherX"] Okay... so I just got out of this 2 year long relationship with my ex-fiance. It's been 3 months since we last broke up and I started to get over my loss. Until... I found out she's had sex with a few people and has been fooling around with alot (sexually) lately. I always thought she could never stoop to this kind of level... (we both lost our virginities to eachother) and she repeatedly stated she wasn't capable of doing crap like this. She's completely changed since the broke up... but I didn't realize she'd be screwing people left and right. It just isn't her...
How should I be reacting to this...? At the moment I'm torn... and it makes me sick. I love this girl with all of my heart and I nearly did get over my loss. Then I found about about THIS.... ugh... should I just move on? Or confront her about it...? I can't believe this...
MagnumPI
Yeah, now that she is no longer with you, she's gonna be having sex with people who aren't you. If you have a problem with that, too bad. You're just gonna have to get over it, because right now who she has sex with is none of your dang business.
You don't pay attention, do you? She has gone wild like apornstar doing whatever it takes to get the money for cocaine & methamphetamines.
There had to be symptoms. Didn't he ever wonder why her butthole & mouth is all stretched out? For all he knows she was pulling a six on one while he wasn't around.
He's worried about her obviously. Probably not her, probably what she may have given him.
If he's that worried, he can go get tested. But he didn't say a damn thing about EVER suspecting her cheating on him. In fact, he specifically stated that he thinks she's only started doing that after the breakup. Perhaps you would have noticed that if you'd been paying attention.
It doesn't matter how many guys she ****s, it's STILL none of his damn business. She can stand on the street corner and prostitute herself to bums, and it's still none of his damn business.
1st Not everything needs to be said, but he did say it indirectly.I'm sure the thought crossed his mined. And he said "I don't think" read into that. He said "I don't think" Meaning he doesn't know, but he has given it thought.
2nd just because they can test him for diseases doesn't mean they can cure the diseases. "OOH OOH no need to worry because they can test me for diseases, they may not be able to cure it but **** it, because they can test it. Don't worry be happy.
3rd How could Iexpect you to understand someone with family values when you don't have any. Since he hasbeen with herfor so long she had become family to him. So naturally he is gonna worry about her since he cares. Who she ****s is not the problem. If she continues to do what she's doing she will most likely get sick. Promiscuous people attract promiscuous partners.
4th We get it, you don't care. There is no need to elaborate or point outhow much you don't care. You might think you're a dictionary but you're not. Attitude expresses more than words. There's only two things that come out of a person's mouth. Truth and bull. And both tell the truth. You can BS a naive man but you can't BS a wise man, because a wise man has heard it all before.
5th it is his business, because she made it his business. It's too late now.
First, no, he didn't say it AT ALL. He didn't say "he doesn't think" she could cheat on him. Like I said before, pay attention. He said "he never thought she could" become so promiscuous, and THAT is in context of her POST-breakup activity. Again, pay attention. He never said ANYTHING indicating that he ever thought she could have been cheating on him when they were together.
Secondly, it's pretty pretty premature to worry about incurable diseases if he hasn't even gotten tested. Once he gets diagnosed postive for incurable diseases, then we can discuss this further.
Thirdly, he can worry all he wants, but it's still none of his business. And if I don't have any family, could you please tell me who I spent Christmas with? Because I THOUGHT they were my family. But you say otherwise, and that sort of creeps me out. If they weren't my family, then I'd really like to know who they are.
Fourthly, I get it. You think you're wise. Congratulations.
Fifthly, she didn't make it his business at all. What she does after they break up is none of his freaking business. She only "made it his business" if she gave him veneral diseases by cheating on him, and that has not at all been established to be the case.
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