friend crisis (sort of)?

ok let me just start by saying that i have 2 best friends.

freind #1: we really havent done much out of school for a long time and were starting to slip away. he hangs out with some kids that i dont like and are jerks to me. he was a really good best friend but we just started to slip away.

friend #2: we hang out quit a bit. but i just always get mad and stuff bc he has like 2 billion other friends that he hangs out with. for example i asked if he wanted to do something this weekend and he said he was booked for the weekend (he already has plans with other friends). we dont really talk about personal stuff that much.

idk what to do i just always feel left out and stuff. what should i do?

I don't like the concept of "best friends"...it's sort of a limitation.

there's a common theme here, they have other friends, you don't.

Get more friends.

there's a common theme here, they have other friends, you don't.

Get more friends.

HybridPhoenix

yea thats so easy isnt it?

Don't be so clingygobo212

whats that mean?

[QUOTE="HybridPhoenix"]

there's a common theme here, they have other friends, you don't.

Get more friends.

kbubba92

yea thats so easy isnt it?

It is for me and it's obviously easy for your friends too

Easy, be yourself and let them go. Individualism always triumphs over following another person's traits, and not to mention most people are self centered **** these days.

Friends won't ever last forever, I've learned it the extremely hard way.

Well, he can't make his friends stop hanging out with the new ones, so he can either learn to like friend #2's groups so he can hang out with them, make new friends, or do nothing..

It's best to be with a group of friends with whom you share a common interest. Making favorites is what leads to this sort of thing. I have many friends because I am with a bunch of gamers/geeks, there are some I spend more time with merely because of their more open schedule or being in the same class/lunch, but I don't value them more than others.