Gaiz, my heart hurts, what are some things you do to help relieve hurt?

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#1 MuddVader
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I know this may sound silly to some of you guys, but its a serious question.
As you can imagine i'm not asking for a doctors aide and I dont mean literal pain, just emotional discomfort, you know, the kind you get when you remember someone doesnt love you, and you cant get them out of your mind.

I automatically think of sweets lol, but thats not a very good thing to turn to, but other than that, I dont know of anything such as a mental excercise that can help me distract my mind.

Any suggestions?

Actual help is much appreciated, and i'm sure i'm not the only one going through this sort of situation so I wont be the only one you are helping.
Trolling, no appreciated so much.

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I guess just try to keep busy. Get absorbed into a book or a video game, maybe? I tend to sleep allot when I feel like that.
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pOrnz? It always helps me feel loved .
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#4 MuddVader
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I guess just try to keep busy. Get absorbed into a book or a video game, maybe? I tend to sleep allot when I feel like that. quadraleap
its 3am though -.-
pOrnz? It always helps me feel loved .Solid_Tango

Yeah.. thats not exactly the kind of comfort i'm looking for right now ._.

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#5 walton13
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MUSIC! It's what I turned to after being dumped from a long term relationship... and don't listen to mainstream stuff, find some remixes or underground stuff...

I'm listening to this right now

http://hypem.com/#/track/1068873/B+o+B++-+Nothing+On+You+Remix+Feat+Big+Boi

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#6 MuddVader
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not the right song =\

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You mean right at this moment or in general? If you're talking about just now, then like Quadraleap, I'd just go for a book or something. It's better to tire your eyes and brain a little than just hope for sleep to come.
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You mean right at this moment or in general? If you're talking about just now, then like Quadraleap, I'd just go for a book or something. It's better to tire your eyes and brain a little than just hope for sleep to come.jimmyjammer69
At the moment and all the time, I talk to her quite a bit. Not as much lately as I wish though because she just recently got a job. Thats another thing thats bothering me, I'm starting to feel her drifting away, as if i'm losing importance to her.. I dont have any books atm, and the only two series' that I can think of are romance.
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Get smashed and bang as many people as possible.

Or sit in a dark room listening to The Smiths idk.

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#10 deactivated-590595a6292ce
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Try and get into something, I mean really into it, so you don't think about whats going on in life.

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#11 MuddVader
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Get smashed and bang as many people as possible.

Or sit in a dark room listening to The Smiths idk.

freek666
I dont drink, and i'm not the type who wants sex and so on from a random, or even an acquaintance. I need love, that of which I wont receive.
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[QUOTE="jimmyjammer69"]You mean right at this moment or in general? If you're talking about just now, then like Quadraleap, I'd just go for a book or something. It's better to tire your eyes and brain a little than just hope for sleep to come.MuddVader
At the moment and all the time, I talk to her quite a bit. Not as much lately as I wish though because she just recently got a job. Thats another thing thats bothering me, I'm starting to feel her drifting away, as if i'm losing importance to her.. I dont have any books atm, and the only two series' that I can think of are romance.

Sounds rough. Making plans about what it's within your power to do might put your mind at rest. I remember trying to make myself into a veritable freaking superman to try and win back one girl. I started going to the gym four times a week, worked my ass off to try and earn enough to give her whatever she wanted and made all sorts of little self improvements just to be her ideal guy. What I discovered down the road was that she just wasn't worth THAT much to me, but I came out of it with renewed confidence and my life back on track.
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Go and do things you enjoy, which in my case i can't without a job............
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beat the monkey.
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#15 MuddVader
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beat the monkey.mr-sheep
What did this monkey ever do to me D=?
Go and do things you enjoy, which in my case i can't without a job............X360PS3AMD05
I cant do what I want to without a job either.. Been trying for 3 years and all I have is this ***** part time sales job when i'm not even the outgoing type.
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I would suggest that you try and find something to keep yourself busy/distracted. If that doesn't work, you can always date that scorch guy.
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#17 MuddVader
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[QUOTE="scorch-62"]I would suggest that you try and find something to keep yourself busy/distracted. If that doesn't work, you can always date that scorch guy.

Yeah, I totally could. I could so rock that dudes world and show him that he never needs a woman in his life... Too bad I don't role that way, huh =0
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[QUOTE="MuddVader"][QUOTE="scorch-62"]I would suggest that you try and find something to keep yourself busy/distracted. If that doesn't work, you can always date that scorch guy.

Yeah, I totally could. I could so rock that dudes world and show him that he never needs a woman in his life... Too bad I don't role that way, huh =0

You will someday. ;__;
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1) Keep yourself occupied with friends and you'll have no time to think about foolish emotions. 2)Get high or drunk or both.
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cover your chest in peanut butter while staring promiscuously at the toaster.

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Listen to some ANGRY MUSIC!!!

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1) Keep yourself occupied with friends and you'll have no time to think about foolish emotions. 2)Get high or drunk or both.RK-Mara
Speaks the truth! God bless cheap booze!
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#23 Anti-Venom
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get involved in pokemon card tournaments and win. You'll feel like a real man and get all the chicks
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I move fast. I still remember, but in a different view.
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Gaiz? are we writing for lolcats?

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#26 Big_Bad_Sad
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Whisky and adult entertainment does it for me.