Getting over her

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#1 silentassasin05
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Strange topic i know.

But 2 days ago, my gf ripped my heart out. We were 3 days short of 1 Year 10 months and had plans to move away in Janruary.

Im struggling, not coping well. How do i get over her?

And no, please dont say go sleep with another girl.

I need help from my fellow gamespotters.

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#3 Lto_thaG
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Just move on with life...focus on other things.
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#4 gobo212
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All you can do is wait and like someone else said focus on other things. Time heals all wounds.
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#5 jimmyjammer69
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There's really no easy answer. Make sure you're not isolating yourself - go out and meet friends, join the gym, set yourself seemingly impossible targets at work. I know it's unimaginable at the moment, and maybe even a horrible thought, but eventually you will get over her and you'll appreciate your freedom again :)
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#6 duxup
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Keep yourself busy. Find things to do.
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#8 justblaze7204
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Time is a big thing here. I know it is generic but it is true when they say time heals all wounds. Also go out with some friends, not to pick up chicks, but go out with friends to a movie and go hiking or something active. It will get you mind off of it. ~Peace
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#9 horgen  Moderator
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Hang out with friends. Keep yourself bussy.
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#10 jekyll
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Just keep busy. You'll forget about her soon enough.
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#11 silentassasin05
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All my mates have moved away. And i have no job. I gave it away so her and i could concentrate on moving. But that fell through. And me old man goes to work early in the morning and doesn't get back till 6 + at night. So i have to much free time to think of stupid things to do to meself.....:(
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#12 Lto_thaG
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All my mates have moved away. And i have no job. I gave it away so her and i could concentrate on moving. But that fell through. And me old man goes to work early in the morning and doesn't get back till 6 + at night. So i have to much free time to think of stupid things to do to meself.....:(silentassasin05

Oh please :roll:
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#13 Jamiemydearx3
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Start talking to other girls, learn to forget. Youll heal with time. ;o
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#14 deactivated-5b5d7639964d6
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Hookers?
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#15 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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Just keep busy. You'll forget about her soon enough.jekyll
That's unlikely. He may miss her being there every moment less over time, but I doubt he'll forget her... TC: That sucks. It can't have been that abrupt? :(
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All my mates have moved away. And i have no job. I gave it away so her and i could concentrate on moving. But that fell through. And me old man goes to work early in the morning and doesn't get back till 6 + at night. So i have to much free time to think of stupid things to do to meself.....:(silentassasin05
Go. Get. A. Job.
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#17 LosDaddie
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Drink lots of beer :P

Seriously, the best way to get over any GF is to spend time with another girl. That doesn't necessarily mean sleep with another girl. Just spend time with another girl.

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#18 silentassasin05
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No, beer wont help. At the moment im doing ok. But it takes one little thing and it puts ya back in square one. I really dont know how she could of done this...
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#19 NecroKvltMuffin
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Make yourself realize it was a waste of time and that you were delusional.
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#20 dmc333
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Get a hobby.
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#21 AtomicBaconBits
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Focus on other activities you love to do,discover new things.Most importanty,don't let the negativity get to you.Just use the pain you feel,and turn it into something positive,something for motivation,don't let it consume you. I've been through exactly what's happening to you,it may take time,but you will get better.
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#22 vlin1108
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Get rid of her.
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#23 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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All you can really do is to keep living your life even though your life is without her now. You'll move on eventually. Time heals all.
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#24 mindstorm
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I dated one girl for over 2 years and was over her before we even broke up. Another girl, I dated for 5 months and had been to about 15 stores (no exaggeration) trying to find an engagement ring. She broke up with me and it took me longer to get over her than the time we dated. After 10 months I finally do not get upset when thinking about "what could have been." It's difficult to say just what helps a person get over someone but what tends to help me is realized I am less happy with a specific person than without. If it's more than an emotional attachment you had then it can take a while but if it's purely emotions, you can get over her quickly by obtaining an "emotional fix." This can be done many ways and many of those ways I do not recommend... If you were truly committed to her then not much more than time can help (with a little bit of the "fix").
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#25 MrLions
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Simply forget about her. :|
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#26 -Iconoclast-
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Talk to your friends.
Write about your feeling.
It's ok to be depressed.
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1800-NEED-AHOE
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#28 atm0073
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Not like I have much experience with breaking up (happened to me once and it was a short-lived relationship), but here is my two cents. Try doing things the way you did before you met her. If you're still having trouble moving on, try thinking of all the bad/negative things that happened in the relationship if there were any (besides the breakup), and focus your attention on those things; it could help ease some of the anxiety.
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#29 n0les02
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Get with another girl, I know it seems hard to imagine right now, but you need to get a rebound to forget about her. It always works

But best of luck to you

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#30 40ozbastard
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Kill her. That's how I got over my 4 year relationship.

Carl.

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#31 yusefdoodi
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Just keep playing video games... Buy alot, and just bring a lot of friends over and play a large amount of games at a time.
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#32 biggest_loser
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Go out with your friends or take up a sport such as lawn bowls. Alternatively you could join my team and I for a game of Left 4 Dead. And before you ask, yes your life could get a lot worse. Even before you sink to my Left 4 Dead level!!
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#33 Shad0ki11
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All you need to do is wake up. You're actually in a hospital bed in a deep coma. What you thought was a year and ten-month relationship was all just an illusion. You think you're typing on Gamespot right now? You see all of these people responding to the topic you just made? None of them actually exist. ;)

So look on the bright side, once you wake from your coma you won't have to worry about anything...except the crazed chimpanzee that wandered into the psychiatric ward about 10 minutes ago with a handfull of syringes.

You better wake up soon before the chimp makes it over to your bed!

This is your conscience speaking!

Wake up!~

This is the crazed chimp that will most likely kill you with syringes if you don't wake up.

^Beware the chimp!^

:shock:

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#34 silentassasin05
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Thanks all for the replies. Helpful. I think im going in the right direction. Damn chimp !!!
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#35 Dr_Brocoli
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go have sex with 10 other women RIGHT AWAY!!! im not lying, thatll get you over her completely! Yeah yes focus on fun stuff you do. I for example with my first heart-rippage startign to do a lot of running etc. Play some computer games, GO OUT AND DO STUFF AND NEVER STAY HOME MOPEING AROUUND.
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