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#1 ff3138
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Ok, there is this girl I have been going to school with for a while, since Freshman year(I'm a Sophmore) I like her a lot, she has all the same hobbies as me, video games, anime, that kinda stuff. We are pretty good friends in school but she has a Bf and they've been going out for like 5 months, I never met him though becuase he goes to a different school, should I wait or stop liking her?

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#2 iloverikku11
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kill he bf and she will be all yours. ;)
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#3 ff3138
Member since 2005 • 1508 Posts

kill he bf and she will be all yours. ;)iloverikku11

I've done in the past, it didn't work.

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#4 Wilfred_Owen
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This was posted yesterday. This users movie literally changed my life.
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#5 SolidSnake35
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How can you just stop liking her? I don't see why, if you do like her, waiting would be such an issue.
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#6 kitty  Moderator
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If she has a bf then that means she's taken... So the answer is simple, either wait or find a different girl to like. Sorry if you take that as being rude...
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#7 ff3138
Member since 2005 • 1508 Posts

How can you just stop liking her? I don't see why, if you do like her, waiting would be such an issue.SolidSnake35

Her and her Bf seem to be like really close, I don't to bother her and tell her because then it may ruin friendship/.

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#8 LJS9502_basic
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You are her friend...she has a bf...move on. Best that way.
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#9 Ilived
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Get a girlfriend and then pretend that she is your new playmate.
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#10 Directions2
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kill yourself and she will pitty you, then she will proceed to deficate on you body ;)
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#11 Darth_Tyrev
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If you're able to just "stop liking her" than I don't it really matters, lol.
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#12 Directions2
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kidnap her and she will be all yours.
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#13 Funkyhamster
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Yeah, definitely don't tell her...
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#14 mfsa
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Does she know you like her? From whatever she may have told you, or from her body language, do you get the impression she likes you?

The best thing to do in these situations, in my experience, is to just be open and honest. Tell her how you feel. She may feel the same way. The worst case scenario is that you will, through awkwardness, no longer remain friends. The best case scenario is that she feels the same about you, will politely end things with her boyfriend and you will become a couple.

So, I guess the question is, are you willing to risk losing what sounds like a pretty fruitful friendship?

If you are, then tell her. Tell her everything. She will appreciate it, whatever happens.

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#15 ChicaQueenWarGa
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This was posted yesterday. This users movie literally changed my life.Wilfred_Owen

It even changed my life...Now, I know when a guy wants to date me.

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#16 Clamwich
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I was in the exact same situation as you once... and my advice is to move on. At least until she breaks up with her boyfriend.
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#17 Serraph105
Member since 2007 • 36092 Posts

take her to dinner as just friends and then when your done chowing down ask her if she would ever really go out with you if she didnt have a boyfriend

then try and get a new girlfriend while plaing the waiting game depending on her answer

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#18 ChicaQueenWarGa
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I was in the exact same situation as you once... and my advice is to move on. At least until she breaks up with her boyfriend.Clamwich

Yup, just be really close friends with her. Maybe her bf would be jealous and break up with her. :)

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#19 Sajo7
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It even changed my life...Now, I know when a guy wants to date me.ChicaQueenWarGa

All the time?

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#20 TheEndBoss
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Ok, there is this girl I have been going to school with for a while, since Freshman year(I'm a Sophmore) I like her a lot, she has all the same hobbies as me, video games, anime, that kinda stuff. We are pretty good friends in school but she has a Bf and they've been going out for like 5 months, I never met him though becuase he goes to a different school, should I wait or stop liking her?

ff3138

I don't think there's any point in waiting if you'll just be able to stop liking her immediately. That basically means you don't like her too much if you can do that. Trying to get the two to break up is pretty harsh unless the boyfriend's not a good guy, which you probably wouldn't know since, like you said, you've never met him. I'd say find another girl. Doesn't mean you have to stop liking the one you're asking advice for on a gaming forum (not the best place, just so you know), but you won't be waiting for what could be potentially a long time being single. But if you have trouble getting a girlfriend in general, then you might have a problem.

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#21 the_foreign_guy
Member since 2005 • 22657 Posts

This was posted yesterday. This users movie literally changed my life.Wilfred_Owen

:lol: Thank you.

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#22 munkey102
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I had too.

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#24 suicidalpoptrt
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If you're able to just "stop liking her" than I don't it really matters, lol.Darth_Tyrev
I was gonna say that RAWR
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#25 EboyLOL
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When in doubt, whip it out.
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#26 Serraph105
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seriously dude take my advice on page 1 i got that trick from a girl and its worked for me a couple of times now it just takes a little more courage what with a all the builup toward that one question and all
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#27 Serraph105
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When in doubt, whip it out.EboyLOL

oh somebody needs to sig that

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#29 MarineXXII
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This was posted yesterday. This users movie literally changed my life.Wilfred_Owen

lmao, classic

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#30 SorasGhost009
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i havent tried this yet, but a friend recommened it, play total eclipse of the heart by bonnie tyler(or taylor not sure but who cares)
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#31 ParasiteDemon
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Girls? Ha! You're gay
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#32 AdamPA1006
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Ok, there is this girl I have been going to school with for a while, since Freshman year(I'm a Sophmore) I like her a lot, she has all the same hobbies as me, video games, anime, that kinda stuff. We are pretty good friends in school but she has a Bf and they've been going out for like 5 months, I never met him though becuase he goes to a different school, should I wait or stop liking her?

ff3138

dude if your still looking at this thread and looking for serious advice. I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months, and it would be crazy hard to break up with her. what im saying is that her and her BF are probably really close, and aeven if they do break up soon no way she would go out with someone that soon. I would try to get interested in different girls.

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#33 ElZilcho90
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[QUOTE="EboyLOL"]When in doubt, whip it out.Serraph105

oh somebody needs to sig that

Done.

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#34 WSGRandomPerson
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You're better off killing the feelings when you can, don't waste your time if she already has one. It could end up bad.
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#35 livingrapture
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go for it or you could try the underhanded thing im good at like get the bf drunk then put a tiny move on her then he will get angery then she will hate him then your in. lol
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#36 Tjeremiah1988
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This was posted yesterday. This users movie literally changed my life.Wilfred_Owen

lol'd, who made this?

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#37 nintendoman562
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[QUOTE="EboyLOL"]When in doubt, whip it out.Serraph105

oh somebody needs to sig that

hey i said it first it some other thread back a few months ago!
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#38 EboyLOL
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[QUOTE="Serraph105"]

[QUOTE="EboyLOL"]When in doubt, whip it out.nintendoman562

oh somebody needs to sig that

hey i said it first it some other thread back a few months ago!

I recall saying it over a year ago. It's basically been my catchphrase whenever I feel like going into a girl topic. Not that you couldn't have thought it up as well.
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#39 the_foreign_guy
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[QUOTE="Wilfred_Owen"]This was posted yesterday. This users movie literally changed my life.Tjeremiah1988

lol'd, who made this?

I did. I even put my name in the end credits. :?

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#40 Tjeremiah1988
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[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]

[QUOTE="Wilfred_Owen"]This was posted yesterday. This users movie literally changed my life.the_foreign_guy

lol'd, who made this?

I did. I even put my name in the end credits. :?

yea, i noticed after I posted. Also, I think you made a typo on one of em.

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#41 remmbermytitans
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I had too.

munkey102

lol, so true, why on earth would you come to gamespot for advice? not to be mean or anything, but I'm sure that half the people here, haven't had a girlfriend, and I'm sure, half of that group would take a free Wii, PS3 and XBOX 360 with unlimited free games, over a girlfriend... but while you're here, I'll give you my 2 cents..

My girlfriend and I have been going out for 15 months, and we're great.. We like the same things, video games, movies, kinda like you and the girl you're crushing... However, we would never have happened if one of us didn't take a first step to get the relationship going... So what I suggest you do, is you tell her how you feel, but also tell her that you'll respect her by letting her make a decision on whether or not she wants to keep going out with her BF... If she decides to choose you, lucky you, if not, well, you can wait up and maybe she'll turn around, or try for another girl... Either way, live life with no regrets, cause you may end up regretting it...

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#42 the_foreign_guy
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yea, i noticed after I posted. Also, I think you made a typo on one of em. Tjeremiah1988

A little typo yeah. I'm making a revised one at a later time. I just had some more ideas I can put. I'll also do other topics. I'm going to start a whole series. :D

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#43 diflogeit
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chances are that she and her bf will break up eventually, so catch her on the rebound
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#44 deactivated-5f4694ac412a8
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Just get really buff, kick his ass, and give her lots of stuff. And I'm being serious here, too. You should get really strong, because that will improve your level of attractiveness. If you get in some stupid fight with him over nothing, she'll be impressed if you win it, and giving shows that you care about her.
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#45 Lisaanne30
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Try to move on and if later your both single at the same time well then make your move

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#46 CommanderShiro
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Move on. She already has a boyfriend, and 90% of the time friends to boyfriend/girlfriend relationships don't work out at all. Better to still have a good friend, then to lose one.
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#47 Clamwich
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Just get really buff, kick his ass, and give her lots of stuff. And I'm being serious here, too. You should get really strong, because that will improve your level of attractiveness. If you get in some stupid fight with him over nothing, she'll be impressed if you win it, and giving shows that you care about her.DeathScape666

And if you go Super Sayan, she will fall for you instantly.

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#48 sexy-hippo
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chances are that she and her bf will break up eventually, so catch her on the rebounddiflogeit

Not a good idea!

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#49 Lazorz
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Either way, live life with no regrets, cause you may end up regretting it...

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Quote of the day.