girl advice! a little advice appreciated.

I'd never see the day I'd post a thread like this here, but here it goes. will talk in short sentances as to get the point across without giving out much detail, for classified reasons.

met this girl on myspace a couple of years back. she is my friends friend. we'd always talk and share a lot of things in common.but we only hung out about 2 or 3 times. a couple of months ago I asked her to junior prom as friends but she said "it would be kind of weird going with a friend". we've been talking a lot recently. we have been webcamming almost every night from about 12AM to 4AM, and we are always talking and I always make her laugh.but whenever I ask her to hang out, she never wants to. she said something along the lines that during the summer it's like her only time to be able to do what she wants to do by herself so she's rarely going out.I'm starting to dig her. is it just friends or something more? what should I do next? advice appreciated. thanks

tell her you are starting to feel attracted to her. I think she sort of already knows anyways.

tell her you are starting to feel attracted to her. I think she sort of already knows anyways.

BumFluff122

I think she knows too. like we did this game where we have to say 10 nice things about eachother and I said she's "pretty". and sometimes I give those corny hints like if she says "I gotta go change", I'll say like , "oh let me help you!", but we play it off like a joke.

Repeatedly punch her in the stomach till she agrees to go out with you. hama666

last time I tried that I got arrested for some reason

Well, no sense beating a dead horse. If you've asked her to hang out numerous times and she always declines, then she's probably not interested in being anything more than just friends. Which is something she already said when you asked her to prom. Sorry dude.

All you have to say is "Bewbies" and run away.

Well, no sense beating a dead horse. If you've asked her to hang out numerous times and she always declines, then she's probably not interested in being anything more than just friends. Which is something she already said when you asked her to prom. Sorry dude.

elblanquito_81

tell her you are starting to feel attracted to her. I think she sort of already knows anyways.

BumFluff122

[QUOTE="elblanquito_81"]

Well, no sense beating a dead horse. If you've asked her to hang out numerous times and she always declines, then she's probably not interested in being anything more than just friends. Which is something she already said when you asked her to prom. Sorry dude.

Baselerd

but why wouldn't she want to hang out as just friends??

[QUOTE="BumFluff122"]

tell her you are starting to feel attracted to her. I think she sort of already knows anyways.

jwsoul

thanks. she is a grade lower than me but we are both 16. (I'm turning 17 in 2 weeks). and she is also saying how she feels that she should have been born in an earlier time period, she is definately mature for her age and she's different from a lot of other girls. I think I'll continue to take my original path and just throw out suttle hints here and there. we'll see as time passes

She likes you but is afraid to admit it. I think that's quite obvious.-Tish-

really? how do you figure?

but why wouldn't she want to hang out as just friends??DRAGONPIECEZ

[QUOTE="-Tish-"]She likes you but is afraid to admit it. I think that's quite obvious.DRAGONPIECEZ

really? how do you figure?

[QUOTE="-Tish-"]She likes you but is afraid to admit it. I think that's quite obvious.DRAGONPIECEZ

really? how do you figure?

[QUOTE="Baselerd"][QUOTE="elblanquito_81"]

Well, no sense beating a dead horse. If you've asked her to hang out numerous times and she always declines, then she's probably not interested in being anything more than just friends. Which is something she already said when you asked her to prom. Sorry dude.

DRAGONPIECEZ

but why wouldn't she want to hang out as just friends??

[QUOTE="DRAGONPIECEZ"]

[QUOTE="Baselerd"] Yepelblanquito_81

but why wouldn't she want to hang out as just friends??

then what's the webcam for 5 hours a night about? straight up boredom?

Try a little harder.If she's web-camming with you for hours every night, she's just playing hard to get. Ask her on a casual date, like a movie.

[QUOTE="DRAGONPIECEZ"]

[QUOTE="-Tish-"]She likes you but is afraid to admit it. I think that's quite obvious.stereointegrity

really? how do you figure?

why you had a similar experience too?

I don't know. I think she's getting the suttle hints, but I feel if I press too much further and on the chance she doesn't dig me, it'll make it awkward afterwards.

[QUOTE="Baselerd"][QUOTE="elblanquito_81"]

Well, no sense beating a dead horse. If you've asked her to hang out numerous times and she always declines, then she's probably not interested in being anything more than just friends. Which is something she already said when you asked her to prom. Sorry dude.

but why wouldn't she want to hang out as just friends??

Just seems like she doesnt want anything more, but u never know, she might want to in the future... just be the way you are with her, as friends or whatever and leave the ball in her court. I dont think theres much else you can do, just try not to get too attached.

Try a little harder.If she's web-camming with you for hours every night, she's just playing hard to get. Ask her on a casual date, like a movie.

effena

this. if there's one thing about her, it's this

Just seems like she doesnt want anything more, but u never know, she might want to in the future... just be the way you are with her, as friends or whatever and leave the ball in her court. I dont think theres much else you can do, just try not to get too attached.

sarahxox

these are exactly my original intentions as well.

[QUOTE="elblanquito_81"]

[QUOTE="DRAGONPIECEZ"]

but why wouldn't she want to hang out as just friends??

DRAGONPIECEZ

then what's the webcam for 5 hours a night about? straight up boredom?

She prolly likes you a bit... but interweb thing like that can be easy too mistake.

[QUOTE="DRAGONPIECEZ"]

[QUOTE="Baselerd"] Yepluke1889

but why wouldn't she want to hang out as just friends??

but I know it's true that she usually is NEVER hanging out with friends. justcousins. and she actually asked me to hang out three timesbefore, so if she asked me to hang out before, I don't see the problem now.

[QUOTE="DRAGONPIECEZ"]

[QUOTE="-Tish-"]She likes you but is afraid to admit it. I think that's quite obvious.-Tish-

really? how do you figure?

[QUOTE="-Tish-"][QUOTE="DRAGONPIECEZ"]

really? how do you figure?

jwsoul

if you guys wouldn't mind sharing your experiences that'd be great

[QUOTE="elblanquito_81"]

Because, most likely, she's aware of your feelings for her and doesn't want to feel like she's leading you on by agreeing to hang out.

DRAGONPIECEZ

then what's the webcam for 5 hours a night about? straight up boredom?

[QUOTE="DRAGONPIECEZ"]

[QUOTE="elblanquito_81"]

Because, most likely, she's aware of your feelings for her and doesn't want to feel like she's leading you on by agreeing to hang out.

elblanquito_81

then what's the webcam for 5 hours a night about? straight up boredom?

I can definately see where you're coming from. I can't set my hopes too high. I did all that I can, now it's her turn to follow through if she's interested... but sometimes I feel like I'd feel better if I just get it off my chest and just straight up tell her. rejected or accepted, I just hate hiding it. but doing that could really put a sting to our friendship, (if you can call webcamming and hanging out 3 or 4 times a friendship).

[QUOTE="BumFluff122"]

tell her you are starting to feel attracted to her. I think she sort of already knows anyways.

I think she knows too. like we did this game where we have to say 10 nice things about eachother and I said she's "pretty". and sometimes I give those corny hints like if she says "I gotta go change", I'll say like , "oh let me help you!", but we play it off like a joke.

[QUOTE="DRAGONPIECEZ"]

[QUOTE="BumFluff122"]

tell her you are starting to feel attracted to her. I think she sort of already knows anyways.

Serraph105

I think she knows too. like we did this game where we have to say 10 nice things about eachother and I said she's "pretty". and sometimes I give those corny hints like if she says "I gotta go change", I'll say like , "oh let me help you!", but we play it off like a joke.

QFT. maybe I'll give her a friendly compliment or play that game again...NO wait..., once again, I can't get too friendly. I may just have to go for it...

[QUOTE="elblanquito_81"]

Well, if she see you as just a friend then maybe it's just that she likes talking to you. You did she you make her laugh after all. I mean, if a girl turns you down when asked to prom and tells you she's find it weird going with a friend, declines your invitations to hang out, and tells you she likes to spend her summer doing things she wants to do by herself, then it doesn't really get any clearer than that. If she's dropping all these hints and she feels you're either ignoring them or just not picking them up, why would she put herself in a situation where she would feel uncomfortable knowing you might take it wrong way if agrees to hang out?? :? I'm sure she'd be dreading thinking that at any moment you might try to make a move on her and she'd have no choice but to bluntly tell you she doesn't like you like that.

DRAGONPIECEZ

I can definately see where you're coming from. I can't set my hopes too high. I did all that I can, now it's her turn to follow through if she's interested... but sometimes I feel like I'd feel better if I just get it off my chest and just straight up tell her. rejected or accepted, I just hate hiding it. but doing that could really put a sting to our friendship, (if you can call webcamming and hanging out 3 or 4 times a friendship).

[QUOTE="Serraph105"][QUOTE="DRAGONPIECEZ"]

I think she knows too. like we did this game where we have to say 10 nice things about eachother and I said she's "pretty". and sometimes I give those corny hints like if she says "I gotta go change", I'll say like , "oh let me help you!", but we play it off like a joke.

QFT. maybe I'll give her a friendly compliment or play that game again...NO wait..., once again, I can't get too friendly. I may just have to go for it...

yeah last night we cut it down to 2:30 XP.

yes thanks for the advice guys. if she doesn't get the hints soon I'm just gonna go out and say it. I don't care, like you guys said she should appreciate that I'm being truthful and that way I could go out fighting with no regrets and I don't have to keep wondering. I appreciate the helpeach of you havegiven to me.

yeah last night we cut it down to 2:30 XP.

yes thanks for the advice guys. if she doesn't get the hints soon I'm just gonna go out and say it. I don't care, like you guys said she should appreciate that I'm being truthful and that way I could go out fighting with no regrets and I don't have to keep wondering. I appreciate the helpeach of you havegiven to me.

DRAGONPIECEZ

Tell you what mate, you will feel so much better if you do regardless of if she says yes or no. Because it feels good to get something like that off your chest trust me.

[QUOTE="DRAGONPIECEZ"]

yeah last night we cut it down to 2:30 XP.

yes thanks for the advice guys. if she doesn't get the hints soon I'm just gonna go out and say it. I don't care, like you guys said she should appreciate that I'm being truthful and that way I could go out fighting with no regrets and I don't have to keep wondering. I appreciate the helpeach of you havegiven to me.

lucky326

Tell you what mate, you will feel so much better if you do regardless of if she says yes or no. Because it feels good to get something like that off your chest trust me.

my intentions exactly

should I tell her myself or make a friend say it? I assume the best route to take is for me to say it myself

[QUOTE="Baselerd"][QUOTE="elblanquito_81"]

Well, no sense beating a dead horse. If you've asked her to hang out numerous times and she always declines, then she's probably not interested in being anything more than just friends. Which is something she already said when you asked her to prom. Sorry dude.

DRAGONPIECEZ

but why wouldn't she want to hang out as just friends??

Because she knows that as soon as you see her in person you'll loose all control and go crazy on her. I believe this was on Malcom in the Middle...

I'd never see the day I'd post a thread like this here, but here it goes.

DRAGONPIECEZ

Is it me or does every girl help thread begin like this?

If your in the "friends" stage there really isn't much you can do.

Why dont you talk in person instead of always talking via webcam. Make it a more personal experience.