Girl Advice: WTH is her problem?

So anyway, there's this one girl who recently started working at my job. She's pretty hot, and I'd totally do her. She also seems like a really nice girl, and she's nice to me. And she seems to like me too, which isn't necessarily a bad thing. Nice hot girls liking you is usually a good thing.

But honestly, this chick is starting to get on my freaking nerves.

Because, like, she somehow feels the need to get my attention and try to talk to me every time I see her. Like, I get to work and I ignore her. Because that's just how I roll. I like everyone, but I'm the quiet dude who doesn't talk to people, so I just run with that. I get to work, start working, and don't waste time with chitter-chatter.

So anyway, I see this girl when I get to work and usually don't say anything to her. Not that I don't like her or anything, but I work with a LOT of people, and I have better ways to spend my time than stopping to say hello to everyone. If they say hi to me first, I'll stop, engage in some VERY brief small talk, then continue working.

But this chick is starting to annoy me. She'll say hi to me when she first sees me, then we'll have some small talk. But she then will NOT leave me the **** alone!. Every time I pass by her, she tries to get my attention, or talk to me about something. I'll be going about my merry way, busy as hell, and then she'll wave at me or loudly say my name so that I say hello to her back. And the whole time I'm justy thinking..."this is a nice girl, and I guess I like her, and she is pretty hot, but I'm sort of busy right now. Why won't she LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE? Didn't I just say hello to her FIVE FREAKING MINUTES AGO?"

So...any ideas on what the hell is up with this chick? Have any of you ever met a woman who acted like this after meeting you only a week earlier, and without the two of you ever ONCE having had a meaningful conversation about anything?

Really, we've never even actually TALKED. We've had very brief small talk, and that's it. And then, within a week, I almost feel like I've got a stalker. It's actually really starting to creep me the **** out.

So anyway, is this woman someone who I should be worried about? Is she a total psycho, or is she just a little bit too enthusiastic about being friendly?

she wants to do you

:)

I know your problem dude... just give her attention. Dont foget to do your thing, I mean if she is hot... you cant resist:P

Just invite her to your house or coffee... what the hell you americans do:P, trust me on this opne ;)

I'd say she is just trying to get your attention and show her interest in you while going a little overboard...you should probably just when she annoys you explain that you're really busy and that you'd like to see her outside of work to have these conversations where you can really concentrate and not just have work on the back of your mind..

If you don't like her or want to go out with her you can still express to her that you're busy and don't have time to talk, keeping things unexpressed never works out very well..

she wants to do you

:)

lonewolf604

Like the porno style in the photocopying room.

you gotta give her the heat

She actually sounds pretty cute imo, I'd say she's just enthusiastic, I'd like to meet her. :P

I don't think of girls as "doable", and I think you're being kind of a jerk, although you DID say you're the quiet kind of guy...

she wants to do you

:)

lonewolf604

Hmm.. two things:

1. You might be her first love (might, ok..)

2. You are the one that she have been waiting for so long.

So..try to ask her, what kind of things that she likes about you the most. From there, you can figure out why. :)

Um, a girl likes you and wants to talk to you and that annoys you?Tauruslink

some can be very annoying though

[QUOTE="Tauruslink"]Um, a girl likes you and wants to talk to you and that annoys you?andyboiii

some can be very annoying though

True... I met this one girl at my friends grad party, I mean she was good looking but everything else about her sucked, she wouldn't shut the hell up...

Mr. Geezer...

Read ur first and second sentence... Now think about it as if she was thinking it......

Yeah thats whats going on....

Wow... just wow.

I feel a hint of arrogance coming from you.

Hot girl tries to get your attention... and you get annoyed?

So anyway, there's this one girl who recently started working at my job. She's pretty hot, and I'd totally do her. She also seems like a really nice girl, and she's nice to me. And she seems to like me too, which isn't necessarily a bad thing. Nice hot girls liking you is usually a good thing.

But honestly, this chick is starting to get on my freaking nerves.

Because, like, she somehow feels the need to get my attention and try to talk to me every time I see her. Like, I get to work and I ignore her. Because that's just how I roll. I like everyone, but I'm the quiet dude who doesn't talk to people, so I just run with that. I get to work, start working, and don't waste time with chitter-chatter.

So anyway, I see this girl when I get to work and usually don't say anything to her. Not that I don't like her or anything, but I work with a LOT of people, and I have better ways to spend my time than stopping to say hello to everyone. If they say hi to me first, I'll stop, engage in some VERY brief small talk, then continue working.

But this chick is starting to annoy me. She'll say hi to me when she first sees me, then we'll have some small talk. But she then will NOT leave me the **** alone!. Every time I pass by her, she tries to get my attention, or talk to me about something. I'll be going about my merry way, busy as hell, and then she'll wave at me or loudly say my name so that I say hello to her back. And the whole time I'm justy thinking..."this is a nice girl, and I guess I like her, and she is pretty hot, but I'm sort of busy right now. Why won't she LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE? Didn't I just say hello to her FIVE FREAKING MINUTES AGO?"

So...any ideas on what the hell is up with this chick? Have any of you ever met a woman who acted like this after meeting you only a week earlier, and without the two of you ever ONCE having had a meaningful conversation about anything?

Really, we've never even actually TALKED. We've had very brief small talk, and that's it. And then, within a week, I almost feel like I've got a stalker. It's actually really starting to creep me the **** out.

So anyway, is this woman someone who I should be worried about? Is she a total psycho, or is she just a little bit too enthusiastic about being friendly?

MrGeezer

Ya, she is probably just super friendly anyway, and she happens to have a crush on you. Of course she wants your attention!

I bet if she knew you were into her too, she wouldn't try so hard.

well i was gonna say hit it a quit it but im thinking if she's clingy now she be even more after you hit it. the girl obviously has an interest in you. if your interested in her make a move, set out of your box and maybe even say hi to her one morning but if you wanna just get rid of her then keep doing what your doing cause im sure she'll catch on...........or just tell her your gay:P.Blitz_Nemesis

Finally someone highlights the biggest problem with just "doing her."

She's clingy now and she BARELY gets a hello out of you. Imagine how bad she'll be when you do stuff with her.

She actually sounds pretty cute imo, I'd say she's just enthusiastic, I'd like to meet her. :P

I don't think of girls as "doable", and I think you're being kind of a jerk, although you DID say you're the quiet kind of guy...

black_cat19

He's gay

she wants to do you

:)

lonewolf604

Badly... Go for it, dude. ;)