Girl help pl0x

I never thought i would make a thread about this, anyway here goes.

So, i wanna know if you guys think this girl likes me. we are both freshman, in high school and she hasn't done the classic stuff, like look at me and giggle or whisper to her friends as i walk past but just yesterday, in class the teacher had her move away from her friends because they kept talking over him and she came and sat by me and while the teacher was busy, she started talking to me and asked me what i wanted to do when i grow up, then she said i looked like a really strong, military type guy. normally, this would immediately make me think she liked me but she hasn't done the giggling or whispering or flirting.

so, off topic, what do you think?

EDIT: i would have asked her but i have this problem with low self esteem, its not that im worried about her rejecting me, cuz i understand thats part of dating but my low self esteem stops me from asking her out, so anything i can do to improve my lowself esteem?

She either likes you or is teasing you with her friends because you're weird. So asking her will either go well, or burn and crash so horribly you probably won't hear the end of it for the rest of school. GL with that.cheese_game619

Would love to hear more opinions?

so,what do you want to hear?

so,what do you want to hear?

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Anytime a woman goes out of her way to talk to me it makes me think that there may be some interest there. Woman are very aware of that fact also so I would try to talk to her again. If she is receptive then you'll have your answer.

for me women are complex... it is events like that wherein: a) you don't want to assume the girl likes you since you don't want to get embarrassed b) you don't know the fact that she likes you but on my opinion, not YET (yes YET meaning there is a possibility) try to monitor her inconspicuously/unnoticed and try to see her reaction to youkendouken

Like I said in my last post if a woman initiates conversation with you there's a huge chance she may be interested. Woman know that if they initiate a conversation that we will think they like us. Therefore, they use that as a subtle way to let you know they may be interested. Have you ever tried to initiate conversation with a woman and she totally blows you off? That because they are not interested in you so they don't talk to you at all. Get it?:)

Oh my god, do I have to spell it out for you?

Write her a note, with two boxes. "Do you like me? Check yes or no"

60% of the time, it works everytime. :)

she does not like you. she justlikes to talk.

she does not like you. she justlikes to talk.

zmbi_gmr

so, off topic, what do you think?

thah-dude

Answer to this question is simple and correlated with another question. Have you seen this look?

You may miss alot of oportunities with women if you don't get over that fear. I used to be like you and in retrospect I missed alot of opportunities that I still regret but I didn't realise itat the time. Just because a woman rejects you doesn't mean you need to be totally embarrased. That's part of the whole dating thing. If you can't get over the rejection then you are doomed. I don't know any guy who has never been rejected. No need to be embarrassed.

Like I said in my last post if a woman initiates conversation with you there's a huge chance she may be interested. Woman know that if they initiate a conversation that we will think they like us. Therefore, they use that as a subtle way to let you know they may be interested. Have you ever tried to initiate conversation with a woman and she totally blows you off? That because they are not interested in you so they don't talk to you at all. Get it?:)

junglist101

Also, i know its not just cause she cant stop talking, she actually talked to me cuz she wanted to.

she started talking to me and asked me what i wanted to do when i grow upthah-dude

From my experience, this question only comes from the age bracket that believes the other gender has cooties.

[QUOTE="thah-dude"]she started talking to me and asked me what i wanted to do when i grow upOleg_Huzwog

From my experience, this question only comes from the age bracket that believes the other gender has cooties.

[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

[QUOTE="thah-dude"]she started talking to me and asked me what i wanted to do when i grow upthah-dude

From my experience, this question only comes from the age bracket that believes the other gender has cooties.

And she clearly thinks you have cooties, so no, she's not interested in you.

[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

[QUOTE="thah-dude"]she started talking to me and asked me what i wanted to do when i grow upthah-dude

From my experience, this question only comes from the age bracket that believes the other gender has cooties.

Here is the deal. If you like her, ask her out. I can't tell you much anything about low self esteem problems, but I can tell you this. The more you are willing to play and lose in the game of love, the more of a winnar thou art. Ask her out, and if you are nervous about it, try to think about this: You are NOT asking a girl out. You are NOT asking the love of your life out. You are asking someone to have fun (like you'd ask any other bro if he wants to play videogames with you) with you. If she accepts, try to have fun and get along. If she's the one she'll respond to your having fun.curono

Huh... to me it sounds like just being social. Maybe gauge it out and try to do something and take it from there?

Don't turn it into this who likes who stuff. Just ask her to grab a bite to eat or something

Anytime a woman goes out of her way to talk to me it makes me think that there may be some interest there. Woman are very aware of that fact also so I would try to talk to her again. If she is receptive then you'll have your answer.

junglist101