girl help topic # 5897623057290672589076-is this a good idea?

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#1 deactivated-5e0e425ee91d8
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see, earlier i got shot down by a friend of mine when i told her i liked her. thats past and we are still friends

tommarow, i was thinking i would send her a message basicly saying happy valintines, hope you have a good day and the song "your beautiful" by James blunt. as it says basicly what i have to say...

should i though? would she react badly to this for some reason?

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#2 CrimzonTide
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Yeah, good song choice. That will cover everything up well.
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#3 foxhound_fox
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You've been turned down. It is best to avoid doing anything that could be considered non-platonic.
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#4 cyberdarkkid
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No that would make her feel uncomfortable. You should wait a little longer before trying anything again.
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#5 MetallicaKings
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no no, thats perfect. shed dig that. do it.
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No that would make her feel uncomfortable. You should wait a little longer before trying anything again.cyberdarkkid
well, it was late last year, like october/nov...still to short?
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#7 awesomeface
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I would advise against that. But that's just me.
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see, earlier i got shot down by a friend of mine when i told her i liked her. thats past and we are still friends

tommarow, i was thinking i would send her a message basicly saying happy valintines, hope you have a good day and the song "your beautiful" by James blunt. as it says basicly what i have to say...

should i though? would she react badly to this for some reason?

darkspineslayer
she already shot you down... and your going to send her a lovesong... shes gonna find you creepy guy
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#9 cyberdarkkid
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[QUOTE="cyberdarkkid"]No that would make her feel uncomfortable. You should wait a little longer before trying anything again.darkspineslayer
well, it was late last year, like october/nov...still to short?

Yea that's long enough. But If she doesn't like it then just give up.
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#10 garrett_duffman
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[QUOTE="cyberdarkkid"]No that would make her feel uncomfortable. You should wait a little longer before trying anything again.darkspineslayer
well, it was late last year, like october/nov...still to short?

oooooh, so its been a few months... id say go ahead and try it, persistance is vital.
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#11 Rigga911
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she wont sleep with you man
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#12 prplminivandrvr
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Terrible idea. Stay friends, move on.
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#13 funnymario
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You are in the friend zone. You cannot escape the friend zone. Don't try to escape the friend zone.
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#14 foxhound_fox
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well, it was late last year, like october/nov...still to short?darkspineslayer

Unless she expresses an interest in developing more than just a friendship with you, you should just move on and find someone else (which doesn't mean wait until she does). Keeping at it will only make her feel more uncomfortable, make you seem desperate and most likely end up ruining the friendship. Some females find learning about male friends having feelings for them in the first place uncomfortable... to keep persisting will only make matters worse.
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she wont sleep with you manRigga911
who said that?
Terrible idea. Stay friends, move on.prplminivandrvr
you guys do get it sings "and i'll never be with you", right? i am agnologing that i got shot down
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#16 aliblabla2007
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You're in the friend zone, and you'll probably me stuck there forever.

So, that's one road closed. Time to go looking for the other couple million or so still open.

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#17 funnymario
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It doesn't need acknowledgment. She was there. Just move on.
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#18 cyberdarkkid
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[QUOTE="Rigga911"]she wont sleep with you mandarkspineslayer
who said that?
Terrible idea. Stay friends, move on.prplminivandrvr
you guys do get it sings "and i'll never be with you", right? i am agnologing that i got shot down

Yea the songs lyrics could back you up if she feels uncomfortable.
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#19 aRE-you-AFraid
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pick a better song. That one is terrible.
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#20 Rigga911
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[QUOTE="Rigga911"]she wont sleep with you mandarkspineslayer
who said that?

she told me, right after we got out of the shower together
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#21 AncientNecro
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listen to your stalker impulses, they always end up being right
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#22 Tjeremiah1988
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shes gonna say thanks but not really mean it. Dont bother.
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#23 XilePrincess
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if i shot somebody down and they still tried doing something like that they'd be considered creepy and I would distance myself from them greatly. don't do it.
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#24 freham2001
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Its a fact that you miss 100% of the chances you dont take. I say do it, i mean at the very least she will just say no, sorry. And if yall are good friends things should be ok and go back to normal. What have you got to lose man? :D
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