Girl I liked played me.

I have been talking to this girl for months now and it was going so good.We really liked eachother and things were going good.We went out few times, spent alot of time talking on the phone and texting.....Then this guy calls me today asking whats going on between us and im like, we have talked a few times and went out and he was quick to tell me that they have 2 kids and that she has been playing not only me but him as well.

This girl was great and I spent alot of time and energy on her and then this crap happens.Why do people do this.Im a such a nice guy and looking for something real but after this it makes me wonder about meeting new people.I know there are plenty of women out there and not to worry about that girl and move on but for some reason this is really bothering me.Has this happened to you?

I have been talking to this girl for months now and it was going so good.We really liked eachother and things were going good.We went out few times, spent alot of time talking on the phone and texting.....Then this guy calls me today asking whats going on between us and im like, we have talked a few times and went out and he was quick to tell me that they have 2 kids and that she has been playing not only me but him as well.

This girl was great and I spent alot of time and energy on her and then this crap happens.Why do people do this.Im a such a nice guy and looking for something real but after this it makes me wonder about meeting new people.I know there are plenty of women out there and not to worry about that girl and move on but for some reason this is really bothering me.Has this happened to you?

mrsniper83

Well on the bright side, you figured this out before things got too serious. I wouldn't lose any sleep over her. This discovery should be viewed as a positive rather than a negative.

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I have been talking to this girl for months now and it was going so good.We really liked eachother and things were going good.We went out few times, spent alot of time talking on the phone and texting.....Then this guy calls me today asking whats going on between us and im like, we have talked a few times and went out and he was quick to tell me that they have 2 kids and that she has been playing not only me but him as well.

This girl was great and I spent alot of time and energy on her and then this crap happens.Why do people do this.Im a such a nice guy and looking for something real but after this it makes me wonder about meeting new people.I know there are plenty of women out there and not to worry about that girl and move on but for some reason this is really bothering me.Has this happened to you?

Chargeagles1

Well on the bright side, you figured this out before things got too serious. I wouldn't lose any sleep over her. This discovery should be viewed as a positive rather than a negative.

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I have been talking to this girl for months now and it was going so good.We really liked eachother and things were going good.We went out few times, spent alot of time talking on the phone and texting.....Then this guy calls me today asking whats going on between us and im like, we have talked a few times and went out and he was quick to tell me that they have 2 kids and that she has been playing not only me but him as well.

This girl was great and I spent alot of time and energy on her and then this crap happens.Why do people do this.Im a such a nice guy and looking for something real but after this it makes me wonder about meeting new people.I know there are plenty of women out there and not to worry about that girl and move on but for some reason this is really bothering me.Has this happened to you?

mrsniper83

Well on the bright side, you figured this out before things got too serious. I wouldn't lose any sleep over her. This discovery should be viewed as a positive rather than a negative.

Oh one question. Who is this guy that called you in relation to her?

Welcome to life, its a cruel place. Suck it up and move on.

My ex dumped me after we were talking about marriage and what not. I gave up tons for her. Was played like a fiddle. She wasn't the one for you, feel bad but don't brood. Move on to the next one.

Women do that. They cry about being with a guy who doesn't give a **** about them but they play games and toy around with the man who treats them right. Its cruel world out there and sometimes its survival of the fittest. Unfortunately more so in relationship seeking and relations between couples.

that's why you don't go to dating websites. most on there lead a double life or are already saddled with kids and turn to the net as a last resort.

Yeah I got played, way worst than you... I think the best thing to learn is when meeting a new person, be very very simple, like put very little effort. You open yourself to attack if you put too much in at the start. Go to find out if they are serious about YOU, by first not giving a crap at first if that makes sense. A lot of women are "me me me," they think because they are female, that they are entitled to certain things. As long as you didnt spend a lot of money, it is not really a big deal. The best thing is to spend very little money at first.

Sorry to hear that. There's a saying: "There's plenty of fish in the sea" so don't get discouraged. Just move on and forget her.

*well

Things were going well.

I have been talking to this girl for months now and it was going so good.We really liked eachother and things were going good.We went out few times, spent alot of time talking on the phone and texting.....Then this guy calls me today asking whats going on between us and im like, we have talked a few times and went out and he was quick to tell me that they have 2 kids and that she has been playing not only me but him as well.

This girl was great and I spent alot of time and energy on her and then this crap happens.Why do people do this.Im a such a nice guy and looking for something real but after this it makes me wonder about meeting new people.I know there are plenty of women out there and not to worry about that girl and move on but for some reason this is really bothering me.Has this happened to you?

mrsniper83

I don't understand

Why are you choosing to end it?

Would be a nice way to scare off a guy if someone liked the same girl.

But she is probably just a ho with some kids.

She ain't worth it go find somene else

ahahahaa this made my day thx

I'd be thankful of the other guy for telling if that ever happens to me. At least it didn't went on for much longer.

If she doesn't know you know yet, then I recommend taking her on a date to some remote location at night and then ditching her.

Nevermind I guess she knows.

It could happen to anyone. You' ll eventually get over it and move on even if it seems hard right now. In such cases time is the best remedy-with its passing your sorrow (or w/e you feel) will go away.

Women are such b*tches these days.

Did you remember to touch her shoulder?NiKva

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I have been talking to this girl for months now and it was going so good.We really liked eachother and things were going good.We went out few times, spent alot of time talking on the phone and texting.....Then this guy calls me today asking whats going on between us and im like, we have talked a few times and went out and he was quick to tell me that they have 2 kids and that she has been playing not only me but him as well.

This girl was great and I spent alot of time and energy on her and then this crap happens.Why do people do this.Im a such a nice guy and looking for something real but after this it makes me wonder about meeting new people.I know there are plenty of women out there and not to worry about that girl and move on but for some reason this is really bothering me.Has this happened to you?

mrsniper83

Well on the bright side, you figured this out before things got too serious. I wouldn't lose any sleep over her. This discovery should be viewed as a positive rather than a negative.

Yeah but how about the guy she had 2 kids with? It is equally embarasing for all parties involved.

[QUOTE="Darthkaiser"]And you got confirmation from her? The one playing you could be the guy you know :?mrsniper83

Shady hoes are not worth anyone's time.

Then again, who knows... maybe she truly liked you but that secrecy kind of lifestyle is no good. Don't get involved with people like that.

Plan your revenge, revenge solves everything!

And you got confirmation from her? The one playing you could be the guy you know :?Darthkaiser

Why wouldn't she be the liar in this situation? What motivation does that guy have to go out of his way to cockblock someone he doesn't know?

Sorry, TC, it happens. Don't let one bad experience turn you off from the entire female population. There's other fish in the sea, etc etc

That's rough.

I have been talking to this girl for months now and it was going so good.We really liked eachother and things were going good.We went out few times, spent alot of time talking on the phone and texting.....Then this guy calls me today asking whats going on between us and im like, we have talked a few times and went out and he was quick to tell me that they have 2 kids and that she has been playing not only me but him as well.

This girl was great and I spent alot of time and energy on her and then this crap happens.Why do people do this.Im a such a nice guy and looking for something real but after this it makes me wonder about meeting new people.I know there are plenty of women out there and not to worry about that girl and move on but for some reason this is really bothering me.Has this happened to you?

mrsniper83

And this is why you should never try. Sorry to hear.

go write your name on her house in urine tc, you'll feel better.

[spoiler] I'm like the best relationship advice giver ever huh? [/spoiler]

Bad lucky mate.