Girl Problem is Driving me Insane please help ( OT girls gimme a hand plz)

Allright guys, i m going to start by saying i m 19 years old , i had only one girlfriend before ( about 4 months ago) i m a very shy guy and sometimes is hard for me to express my feelings or find the right words, i m not that bad looking ( latino, sexy hair atheltic body etc)

I would say that my biggest problem when dealing with a girl is the talking:cry: but i can be very charming once i feel comfortable with the person.

Now heres my problem:

I have a class with this really cute girl, shes smart, quiet and very misterious ( which makes me very attracted to her) shes always with her friends ( girls) and its really difficult for me to come to her when she is with em. BUT i did talk to her acouple of times after school ( i waited for her ) last week i asked her to a date, she said yes, i asked for her number she gave it to me and i said i was going to call her on friday to plan for the date .

We txted a bit, well comes friday , i call her , she doesnt pick up the phone.

Saturaday afternoon she txts me and shes all like: sup whacha doiing, but i was kinda mad cus she didnt answer the phone, so i replied her txt acouple of hours later, then she says: didnt you want to met up? and i replay, well yeah but you didnt pick up the phone when i called you. she doesnt replay that txt, so next day ( sunday) i txt her saying: hey you didnt have to say yes we i asked you out if you didnt want to. ( i was kinda mad)

Now i see her at school on monday, she smiles to me a says hi and i say hi back and go my away ( i know.... i should ve talked to her there but i dont know what i was thinking and i didnt :( )anyways today i had biology with her , she sat 2 rows infront of me, she looked back and smiled ( at me)

I really wanna talk to her and express my feelings and ask her what happend, why didnt she pick up the phone, and if she likes me or not.

But i do not know how to do this, and is driving me insane, i really need to talk to her but i dont wanna sound desperate or like a psyco.

Please help me out if you had a similar experience, how can i show her that i like her and that i d love to get to know her better?without freaking her out

Please and thank you

Well, if you're in college... she probably found something better to do considering it was a Friday night.

Well i'm not a girl, but this seems simple. She likes you. Dater her. Screw the phone, it means nothing.Head_of_games

D-R-A-M-A.

The most mature thing to do is flat out tell her how you feel, but don't say anything along the line of "I wuv u". Ask her out for a movie. Its called a DATE. She turns you down, then move on.

D-R-A-M-A.

The most mature thing to do is flat out tell her how you feel, but don't say anything along the line of "I wuv u". Ask her out for a movie. Its called a DATE. She turns you down, then move on.

heysharpshooter

Just because she didn't answer the phone that one time doesn't mean she isn't interested. Maybe she really was just busy at that moment! If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't have texted you later and asked when you two were gonna hang out. Just let the one missed call go and talk to her! If she changed her mind she wouldn't be smiling at you in class.

[QUOTE="heysharpshooter"]

D-R-A-M-A.

The most mature thing to do is flat out tell her how you feel, but don't say anything along the line of "I wuv u". Ask her out for a movie. Its called a DATE. She turns you down, then move on.

Solid_Tango

Once again. DRAMA. Don't take it from her. Tell her you don't play games. If this relationship is going to be about games(being all cuddly one mintue, then giving you the cold shoulder for no reason. Purposly flirting with other guys around you to get a reaction), then dump her. Its childish crap and extremely immature.

I dumped one of mu girlfriends because she liked to play games.

I used to be really shy as well. The biggest fear I had in social situations, was saying something really bizzar and akward. But I found out how easy it is to talk to people. If you would like to take her out and get to know her, then say exactly that (to her phace, not on the fone). The longer you wait, the more of a chance she will say no

When you say Latino do you mean Mexican?

What you must do is have her see you with another girl, then she will get all jealous and jump all over you. It is foolproof

I used to be really shy as well. The biggest fear I had in social situations, was saying something really bizzar and akward. But I found out how easy it is to talk to people. If you would like to take her out and get to know her, then say exactly that. The longer you wait, the more of a chance she will say no

effena

When you say Latino do you mean Mexican?

What you must do is have her see you with another girl, then she will get all jealous and jump all over you. It is foolproof

Colin1192

Maybe she is just terribly nervous. Maybe she had something to do that night and didnt want to hurt your feelings.

But the fact that she hang on even though you acted almost kind of rude to her is a good sign. Talk to her like you would talk to a friend. Talking is the easiest part for me, just think of something random and go on and on and on. Again, like you would with a friend.

And of course there are always those famous conversation holders such as "So....what r u doing? How was your day? So...what are your plans tonight?" or something else generic.

But really, just plan far ahead so she doesnt plan something before your date. I think girls like it when you think ahead, and work hard so that you can be with each other. And dont just text her asking what to do, if your not sure, give her some suggestions, let her choose, etc.

But it sounds like nothing terrible happened here...just a misunderstanding. I mean you guys just met. Its not like shes gonna give up time with her friends to spend her weekend with this...guy. You have to prove yourself.

Well i'm not a girl, but this seems simple. She likes you. Dater her. Screw the phone, it means nothing.Head_of_games

No matter how little it means, they allwaysfind out somehow and that excuse never works. I would not follow that last piece of advice if I were you.

You truly need to do her. She's **** desperate!

It sounds like she likes you. You just need to make more of an effort to communicate with her.

It sounds like she likes you. You just need to make more of an effort to communicate with her.

bangell99

[QUOTE="bangell99"]

It sounds like she likes you. You just need to make more of an effort to communicate with her.

Solid_Tango

You need to be personable. Texting is not personable

She might be shy too.

Maybe she is waiting for you to make a move while you're waiting for her to make a move. :P

She might be shy too.

Maybe she is waiting for you to make a move while you're waiting for her to make a move. :P

Crazyguy105

You're really asking for girls advice here ? on a website for games ?

I've been looking for an excuse to post this. :P Ok, get this. There is only one real way to ask a girl out. You need to go out and catch some Pokemon. After you do that, you challenge the toughest trainer in school and make sure she is there to see the battle. You must win the battle. After winning the battle, walk up to her and say "I can train more than just Pokemon" and then ask her if she would like to see. You then proceed to bring her to your house. WARNING: DO NOT USE HOT BUTTER. This will ruin everything. You have to watch the Barney movie with her, and near the end you must touch her shoulder. Doing this will make her cry, because the movie is too sad. You must then bust out your Yu-Gi-Oh cards. Once she sees your manly cards, she will cheer up immensly and want to have sex with you. Be careful, its a trap. You must do a barrel roll to avoid her scheme. After doing so, ask her how you look. Regardless of her answer, touch her shoulder again. She will plead to have sex with you. All you say is "You need a permit" and then kick her out. Later on, she will call and ask you out. Works every time. 8) On a more serious note, good luck.SoraX64

I'd say move on. It's already been clearly established that you asked her out. Seems to me like she's just dragging you along. She's not shy otherwise she wouldn't be reciprocating the "date" but then she's ditching when it comes to planning. She's probably trying to prolong the whole thing so as not to make class awkward with you.Sajedene

This makes the most sense to me, from experience.

Ok 1st of all how old is this girl? Tell me and i'll evaluate the situation for you

either she forgot and was busy, or you two have some really bad cell phone reception. i would just ask her about it in person but dont come off as angry. just be understandable and ask to hang out again.

Allright guys, i m going to start by saying i m 19 years old , i had only one girlfriend before ( about 4 months ago) i m a very shy guy and sometimes is hard for me to express my feelings or find the right words, i m not that bad looking ( latino, sexy hair atheltic body etc)

I would say that my biggest problem when dealing with a girl is the talking:cry: but i can be very charming once i feel comfortable with the person.

Now heres my problem:

I have a class with this really cute girl, shes smart, quiet and very misterious ( which makes me very attracted to her) shes always with her friends ( girls) and its really difficult for me to come to her when she is with em. BUT i did talk to her acouple of times after school ( i waited for her ) last week i asked her to a date, she said yes, i asked for her number she gave it to me and i said i was going to call her on friday to plan for the date .

We txted a bit, well comes friday , i call her , she doesnt pick up the phone.

Saturaday afternoon she txts me and shes all like: sup whacha doiing, but i was kinda mad cus she didnt answer the phone, so i replied her txt acouple of hours later, then she says: didnt you want to met up? and i replay, well yeah but you didnt pick up the phone when i called you. she doesnt replay that txt, so next day ( sunday) i txt her saying: hey you didnt have to say yes we i asked you out if you didnt want to. ( i was kinda mad)

Now i see her at school on monday, she smiles to me a says hi and i say hi back and go my away ( i know.... i should ve talked to her there but i dont know what i was thinking and i didnt :( )anyways today i had biology with her , she sat 2 rows infront of me, she looked back and smiled ( at me)

I really wanna talk to her and express my feelings and ask her what happend, why didnt she pick up the phone, and if she likes me or not.

But i do not know how to do this, and is driving me insane, i really need to talk to her but i dont wanna sound desperate or like a psyco.

Please help me out if you had a similar experience, how can i show her that i like her and that i d love to get to know her better?without freaking her out

Please and thank you

Solid_Tango

Do what I do.. just ignore them.

first you never express how you feel about a girl until you really get to know them last thing you wanna do is tell how you feel then it turns out she an ass or something like that

second screw the phone and texting, yeah its okay to text and talk on the phone everynow and then but dont make it your only way of communication

third make plans with her you said your somewhat comfortable with her so ask her out again and tell her"call me if anything changes"

fouth if your still intrested in her and shes showing more intrest in you tell her"we should hang out again sometime how about (insert date and time here)"