Girlfriend help...

Well, me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over six months now. For about a month now she's been hanging out with her best friend (female), the best friend's almost-boyfriend, and another guy. When we first started dating I'd get reports from her that the third guy she has now started hanging out with was constantly flirting with her ranging from checking her out to pushing her up into a corner and touching her breasts. When I heard about this I was pissed. I asked her to give me his number...she said no. I almost was able to confront him at his workplace but when I yelled something out my girlfriend dragged me out.

I have just been informed that the gang is all going bowling together on friday. Then I heard that they're also going to a late showing of a movie. A week ago I asked my girlfriend if she wanted to go see a movie but she said no. So I don't know why she'd rather see a movie with her group of friends than me. I need help because it's really starting to get to me...any advice?

Thanks in advance.

Brake up.Neon-Tiger

Wont that require a vehicle of some sort ?

Brake up.Neon-Tiger

Sometimes you just want to go do things with a group and not you're SO. Not a big deal.duxup

Why didn't you ever go with them?Silverbond

I was never invited...

Also, I really don't want to break up with her... Ane the whole group is always talking crap about him so I really don't understand why they hang out with him.

Sometimes you just want to go do things with a group and not you're SO. Not a big deal.duxup

Did you even read my whole post??

[QUOTE="duxup"]Sometimes you just want to go do things with a group and not you're SO. Not a big deal.picard3399

Did you even read my whole post??

[QUOTE="picard3399"]

[QUOTE="duxup"]Sometimes you just want to go do things with a group and not you're SO. Not a big deal.duxup

Did you even read my whole post??

Sure about that? You'd be fine if your girlfriend hung out with someone who constantly flirted with her and groped her?

[QUOTE="Silverbond"]Why didn't you ever go with them?picard3399

I was never invited...

Also, I really don't want to break up with her... Ane the whole group is always talking crap about him so I really don't understand why they hang out with him.

You were never invited? I'd immediately think something was up.

Where was the best friend's almost boyfriend? Is he friends with you? If so, why didn't he stop that guy?

[QUOTE="Neon-Tiger"]Brake up.GetafixOz

Wont that require a vehicle of some sort ?

[QUOTE="picard3399"]

[QUOTE="Silverbond"]Why didn't you ever go with them?Silverbond

I was never invited...

Also, I really don't want to break up with her... Ane the whole group is always talking crap about him so I really don't understand why they hang out with him.

You were never invited? I'd immediately think something was up.

Where was the best friend's almost boyfriend? Is he friends with you? If so, why didn't he stop that guy?

They are both good friends...

He touched her breast.....Did you touch her breast yet?MgamerBD

of course =D please try to stay on topic though...

Sure about that? You'd be fine if your girlfriend hung out with someone who constantly flirted with her and groped her?

picard3399

[QUOTE="picard3399"]Sure about that? You'd be fine if your girlfriend hung out with someone who constantly flirted with her and groped her?

duxup

lol...everythime I bring it up she gets very defensive and tells me she tries not to remember that...

[QUOTE="Silverbond"][QUOTE="picard3399"]

I was never invited...

Also, I really don't want to break up with her... Ane the whole group is always talking crap about him so I really don't understand why they hang out with him.

picard3399

You were never invited? I'd immediately think something was up.

Where was the best friend's almost boyfriend? Is he friends with you? If so, why didn't he stop that guy?

They are both good friends...

More importantly how are you not friends with your girlfriends friends. I get on the ball on that one, because that way no one can hit on your women when she's out.

[QUOTE="Neon-Tiger"]Brake up.cyberdarkkid

I'm friends with her female friend and I have met the femaile friends boyfriend but the third one couldn't make it that night....

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]He touched her breast.....Did you touch her breast yet?picard3399

of course =D please try to stay on topic though...

[QUOTE="picard3399"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]He touched her breast.....Did you touch her breast yet?Neon-Tiger

of course =D please try to stay on topic though...

Haha I'll keep that in mind...

I'm still missing why you can't hang out with them all? If my GF was invited someplace unless it was some formal party or a girls only thing.... she could invite me too...duxup

I was never invited. I hate inviting myself, I'd feel like I'm just tagging along.

[QUOTE="duxup"]I'm still missing why you can't hang out with them all? If my GF was invited someplace unless it was some formal party or a girls only thing.... she could invite me too...picard3399

I was never invited. I hate inviting myself, I'd feel like I'm just tagging along.

[QUOTE="duxup"]I'm still missing why you can't hang out with them all? If my GF was invited someplace unless it was some formal party or a girls only thing.... she could invite me too...picard3399

I was never invited. I hate inviting myself, I'd feel like I'm just tagging along.

[QUOTE="picard3399"]

[QUOTE="duxup"]I'm still missing why you can't hang out with them all? If my GF was invited someplace unless it was some formal party or a girls only thing.... she could invite me too...duxup

I was never invited. I hate inviting myself, I'd feel like I'm just tagging along.

No. My girlfriend has NEVER invited me to hang out with her and her friends.

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]He touched her breast.....Did you touch her breast yet?picard3399

of course =D please try to stay on topic though...

i sure wouldnt take that crap

find this guy alone and have a "word" with him

i sure wouldnt take that crap

find this guy alone and have a "word" with him

montieman

damn dude just ask her if u can go with them to the movies... If it bothers her that much where she says no than shes a stupid sneaky **** and tell her stop waisting your time. I'm sorry for the strong language but this sounds way to similar to my past relationship and I was with my ex for 3.5 years. She started hanging out with friends and their guy friends and little by little her time for me went from a little bit to practically nothing. She broke up with me right after Christmas in January. She started seeing the guy she was hanging out with during that time, but she lied to me and told me they started going out in April but later on she admitted to leaving em for him and they really started going out in January. Point of my story is you can't trust a shady *** like that. Either **** that guy up threaten his life or tell her that you don't want them chilling and if she says no then leave her and do you... bigblunt537

Thanks for the information that helped a lot but I'm still undecided.

Go to the movie with big black sweatpants and hoodie. Sit in the corner and watch her the whole movie.Avistann

I'll pass...

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]He touched her breast.....Did you touch her breast yet?picard3399

of course =D please try to stay on topic though...

At least tell us you have touched her shoulder.

I'm assuming touching her breast is the step after touching her shoulder.

[QUOTE="duxup"][QUOTE="picard3399"]

I was never invited. I hate inviting myself, I'd feel like I'm just tagging along.

picard3399

No. My girlfriend has NEVER invited me to hang out with her and her friends.