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#1 deactivated-5e9357e99ffb8
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So my best friend make fun of my girlfriend. I was pissed, i yelled at him and told him to stop and buzz off, but im still his friend. Other best friend tells him off, and tells my girlfriend. I did not tell my girlfriend about me cursing him out not she thinks i dont Care about her. I love her so much and i know she loves me. Should i just let it slide or should i have stopped being friends with him all together?

PLease help.

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#2 Androvinus
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by any chance is your girlfriend ass-backwards ugly
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#3 Solid_Link22
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you just got pwnd

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#4 cs45F
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Where im from talking crap on someone gets you beat down hes lucky.
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#5 Yandere
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So my best friend make fun of my girlfriend. I was pissed, i yelled at him and told him to stop and buzz off, but im still his friend. Other best friend tells him off, and tells my girlfriend. I did not tell my girlfriend about me cursing him out not she thinks i dont Care about her. I love her so much and i know she loves me. Should i just let it slide or should i have stopped being friends with him all together?

PLease help.

Hobbsey07

Wait, you yelled at your friend because he was insulting your Gf and she thinks you don't care about her? Ok.. Well I would just try revert your relationships to their former status, and try to make your friend understand that insulting her pisses you off. That's pretty much all I can come up with what you gave me.

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#6 digital86
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I would let your friend know how you feel. If he is really your friend, he will understand.

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#7 BigDizz
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Wow screw your girlfriend if shes still upset after you yelled at him

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#8 Akawoa
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i'd talk it out with your friend, try to patch things up. If he doesn't go for it then you need to decide who matters more to you. Tell your girlfriend what you did, and try to work something out. If you like your friend a lot and like her a lot you don't necessarily need to have each other involved with one another. I hated my best friends ex and to avoid conflicts I rarely did anything with the three of us together. It saves major headache that way, however, it does make it more difficult because you will have to face situations where you are going to have to choose who is more important, which may make the other feel inferior.

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#9 EtherTwilight
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The real question here is...what was he "making fun" of her for? Was he joking? Being serious? There's hardly enough information here.
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#10 Cherokee_Jack
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What did he say?
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#11 Xenogears_Rocks
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Forget what your friend said my friend doesn't like the girl that I like but I guess it doesn't matter for me since she's leaving but hey just tell him to stop it and if he really likes you he will stop

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#12 mattykovax
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Girls come and go. I would evealuate how close of a friend and how long he has been your friend and go from there. Its not woth losing friends over women.
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#13 monkeyd_93
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well like said already, depends what he said and how he meant it. if it was serious and he meant it, he can apologize or just go, if he meant it as a joking way tell him to apologize and let it slide
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#14 TecmoGirl
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Girls come and go. I would evealuate how close of a friend and how long he has been your friend and go from there. Its not woth losing friends over women.mattykovax
I pretty much agree with this.

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#15 II_Seraphim_II
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Girls come and go. I would evealuate how close of a friend and how long he has been your friend and go from there. Its not woth losing friends over women.mattykovax
depends though. Any friend that would insult your lady without provocation, isnt a good friend. Need more details on the story to ascertain, who is in the wrong here :P
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#16 Unknown_Hero3
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Me and my friend make fun of each others girl friends all the time...but its more for fun

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#17 horgen  Moderator
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She thinks you doesn't care about her? Why would she think that? :?
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#18 weezyfb
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making fun of isnt a big deal. shes a big girl
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#19 Colin1192
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there's a little saying. Bros before hoes

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#20 Jfisch93
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there's a little saying. Bros before hoes

Colin1192

The Truth.

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#21 Cherokee_Jack
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there's a little saying. Bros before hoes

Colin1192

Or in rebus form:

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#22 effy11
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there's a little saying. Bros before hoes

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I agree, you want help there's a special book you should read.
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#23 th3warr1or
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Bros Before Hoes.. But Toes before Bros.
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#24 Oleg_Huzwog
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What sort of "insults" was he saying about her?

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#25 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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What sort of "insults" was he saying about her?

Oleg_Huzwog
omg, your girlfriend sucks because you're always spending time with her, it's like you like her more than me D:
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#26 Darthmatt
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I would say, have a dance off challenge with your friend.

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#27 Espada12
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Wow screw your girlfriend if shes still upset after you yelled at him

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She doesn't know he yelled at him.

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#28 Oleg_Huzwog
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[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

What sort of "insults" was he saying about her?

Jandurin

omg, your girlfriend sucks because you're always spending time with her, it's like you like her more than me D:

Shut up, man! I love her! Don't talk about my girlfriend like that! Blah blah waaaa blah blah cuss blah blah!

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#29 dazman31
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there's a little saying. Bros before hoes

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Took the words straight out of my mouth

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#30 deactivated-5e9357e99ffb8
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Sorry guys. The inccident started when my friend said that was cute when i said i would miss her, and then she said (in the most joking way ever) " ____ If you dont shush up i am going to kik you in the balls and kick you in the teeth. They never met each other. He thus tells her to F off and called her a B**ch.

And just to let you guys know, i do appreciate the help, but i fixed it all with both of them.

Thanks everyone!

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#31 Generic_Dude
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Let it slide... your friend overstepped his bounds, you put him in check. That's enough. Don't go ending a friendship over a dispute that you'll forget in a month or so about a girl who might not be in your life as long as your friend will.

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#32 Avistann
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there's a little saying. Bros before hoes

Colin1192
Unless the bro is a total douche. I have been telling my friend off recently because he is treating my girlfriend like crap and a whole lot of other crap.
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#33 THE_BRUTALIZER
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So my best friend make fun of my girlfriend. I was pissed, i yelled at him and told him to stop and buzz off, but im still his friend. Other best friend tells him off, and tells my girlfriend. I did not tell my girlfriend about me cursing him out not she thinks i dont Care about her. I love her so much and i know she loves me. Should i just let it slide or should i have stopped being friends with him all together?

PLease help.

Hobbsey07
Try killing him with fire.
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#34 12345678ew
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I would let your friend know how you feel. If he is really your friend, he will understand.

digital86

that hippie **** never works. build a matrix of lies! build it! no seriously though, your girlfriend sux if she's mad at you for defending her, sounds like a misunderstanding. i suggest talking to her.

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#35 BumFluff122
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You shouldn't stop being friends with him over soemthign so trivial. Just let him know that it upset you and tell him not to do that anymore. If he continues then you should stop beign friends with him.
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#36 htotheo
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by any chance is your girlfriend ass-backwards uglyAndrovinus

this made my day.

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#37 THE_BRUTALIZER
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[QUOTE="Androvinus"]by any chance is your girlfriend ****-backwards uglyhtotheo

this made my day.

Maybe she has the Ed Zachary Disease. Her face looks Ed Zachary like her "butt" hole..... amirite? amirite? :D

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#38 Androvinus
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[QUOTE="htotheo"]

[QUOTE="Androvinus"]by any chance is your girlfriend ****-backwards uglyTHE_BRUTALIZER

this made my day.

Maybe she has the Ed Zachary Disease. Her face looks Ed Zachary like her "butt" hole..... amirite? amirite? :D

LOl I just googled that Ed zachary joke , thats some funny stuff XD
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#39 muller39
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tell your mate to stop talkin trash about your girlfriend

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#40 THE_BRUTALIZER
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[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"]

[QUOTE="htotheo"]

this made my day.

Androvinus

Maybe she has the Ed Zachary Disease. Her face looks Ed Zachary like her "butt" hole..... amirite? amirite? :D

LOl I just googled that Ed zachary joke , thats some funny stuff XD

hahaha yeah i heard it at work today....so random but I laughed pretty hard haha...
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#41 masters89
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The worst thing could happen to anyone is when it comes to choosing between girlfriend and bestfriend . take it from me , dont ever ever let a girlfriend over your bestfriend. Good Luck!
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#42 tofu-lion91
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Just tell her you did tell him off. If she doesn't believe you then she's hardly a good catch
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#43 df853
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[QUOTE="Hobbsey07"]

So my best friend make fun of my girlfriend. I was pissed, i yelled at him and told him to stop and buzz off, but im still his friend. Other best friend tells him off, and tells my girlfriend. I did not tell my girlfriend about me cursing him out not she thinks i dont Care about her. I love her so much and i know she loves me. Should i just let it slide or should i have stopped being friends with him all together?

PLease help.

Yandere

Wait, you yelled at your friend because he was insulting your Gf and she thinks you don't care about her? Ok.. Well I would just try revert your relationships to their former status, and try to make your friend understand that insulting her pisses you off. That's pretty much all I can come up with what you gave me.

Yeah. That'd be the best possible outcome although sometimes it doesn't work out that way. Sometimes I think that girls should just stand up for themselves. Why is it the guy's job? Girls can be tough too. If your best friend was being annoying she should have done this:

Best Friend: *Generic insulting comment*
GF: I'm sorry, but I think you have mistaken me for someone else.
Best Friend: Huh?
GF: You have mistaken me for someone who gives a ****.

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#44 10thwonder
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[QUOTE="mattykovax"]Girls come and go. I would evealuate how close of a friend and how long he has been your friend and go from there. Its not woth losing friends over women.II_Seraphim_II
depends though. Any friend that would insult your lady without provocation, isnt a good friend. Need more details on the story to ascertain, who is in the wrong here :P

He was making fun of her mustache and webbed feet, friendship over!!!!

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#46 shoot-first
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Wow screw your girlfriend if shes still upset after you yelled at him

BigDizz

but, how will he do that if she is mad? :3

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#47 Setsa
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First an foremost, how is this a GS approved thread? O.o Secondly, you really didn't do anything wrong, and if anything by telling your friend off that was demeaning your GF you showed that you cared : / Just make sure you're not getting taken advantage of.
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#48 --Anna--
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Hmm....they really don't sound like friends.

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#49 Gallion-Beast
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Let her know that you yelled at him over it and that you care about her but guys take potshots at each other all the time and you're not throwing away a friendship just because he crossed the line once.
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#50 EMOEVOLUTION
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the whole scenario you desbribed is pretty immature and petty. Talk constructively to your friend.. yelling at people doesn't work. Also if you're gf cares so much what other people say about her then maybe you should find somebody more secure.