Girlfriend just dumbed me, feels good man.

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#1 mr_blobby213
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Yep, my best friend/girlfriend walked out on me tonight, and has already tolda guy that she has had a thing with in the past while dating me, she told me its because shes confused about what she wants and the stress of juggling school, me and her friends is to hard, but i have a very strong feeling that its because this "other guy" you see, a few weeks ago i found out that she had been talking about very inappropiate things with this person, and when i confronted her she got very defencive and said it was over a year ago and we need a break from each other, to me that doesnt sound right. So after the break she said shes not going to contact him again and whatnot, even though i told her i dont care if they remain friends, just this kind of stuff has to stop. Anyway, earlier this week they went on a school camp together and told me there friends again, she got back yesterday and dumped me tonight, am i right to assume its because this person has entered the scene again?

Sorry if its sounds a little confusing, hard to concentrate.

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#2 DeepSigh
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How 'bout instead of assuming you ask her straight up? Or you could just forget about it and move on with your life. I'd suggest the latter.

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#3 comp_atkins
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better off without her. sounds like she's messing around with this other guy on the side anyway..
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#4 chaoscougar1
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i think he has re-entered the scene, but when he leaves you will be back on the cards, almost guaranteed
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#5 YellowOneKinobi
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I'm not sure how much it matters what her reasons were. It's over and you're gonna have to move on.

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#6 tenaka2
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Yep, my best friend/girlfriend walked out on me tonight, and has already tolda guy that she has had a thing with in the past while dating me, she told me its because shes confused about what she wants and the stress of juggling school, me and her friends is to hard, but i have a very strong feeling that its because this "other guy" you see, a few weeks ago i found out that she had been talking about very inappropiate things with this person, and when i confronted her she got very defencive and said it was over a year ago and we need a break from each other, to me that doesnt sound right. So after the break she said shes not going to contact him again and whatnot, even though i told her i dont care if they remain friends, just this kind of stuff has to stop. Anyway, earlier this week they went on a school camp together and told me there friends again, she got back yesterday and dumped me tonight, am i right to assume its because this person has entered the scene again?

Sorry if its sounds a little confusing, hard to concentrate.

mr_blobby213

I know its difficult not to try to find an exact answer when this kind of thing happens but you should try to avoid doing so. It could be the other guy, it could be a number of other things. The why in this case doesn't really matter, just let it go, as others have said it sounds like your better off anyway.

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#7 mr_blobby213
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I forgot to mention, after the break she said she'd stay with me, then after she got back from camp ( 4 days later ) she broke up with me, so yeah...

I dont know.

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#8 Necrifer
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Find another girlfriend.

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#9 Gamingclone
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I fail to see where the "feels good man" part is in that paragraph.

but anyway, sounds like you're better off without her.

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#10 YellowOneKinobi
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[QUOTE="mr_blobby213"]

tenaka2

I know its difficult not to try to find an exact answer when this kind of thing happens but you should try to avoid doing so. It could be the other guy, it could be a number of other things. The why in this case doesn't really matter, just let it go, as others have said it sounds like your better off anyway.

I agree that trying to find "the" answer is probably not a good idea, as I don't see what good can come from it. What answer can she possibly give that wouldn't not be hurful? She likes him better? He's got a better personality? He's better in the sack? He's better looking? I really can't think of anything she could say that would make you feel any better.

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#11 Omni-Slash
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Dude you need to move on....she's got a thing for the other guy...."we need a break" are codewords for "I'm going to go and **** this guy's brains out".....trust me..it's better to just move on...
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#12 deactivated-5e07bdd20ced5
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ka-clinque.thats my uzi getting loaded lol
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#13 DeepSigh
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ka-clinque.thats my uzi getting loaded lolkbpyrokb

Well, that's nice.

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#14 surrealnumber5
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How 'bout instead of assuming you ask her straight up? Or you could just forget about it and move on with your life. I'd suggest the latter.

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this is my non-troll advice.

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#15 EvilSelf
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Dude you need to move on....she's got a thing for the other guy...."we need a break" are codewords for "I'm going to go and **** this guy's brains out".....trust me..it's better to just move on...Omni-Slash

Very well said. I would suggest to move on...Enjoy freedom while it lasts, invest time, money and effort in yourself...Everything else will follow.

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#16 Verge_6
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Congrats, you don't have to spend your money on an ungrateful wench anymore.

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#17 tenaka2
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Congrats, you don't have to spend your money on an ungrateful wench anymore.

Verge_6

Woot! Got to hear this. Please tell us your story Verge.

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#18 cheese_game619
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lol school camp
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#19 jbento321
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Dude go and start dating any girl from school other then her and u'll see how pissed she gets
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#20 TheArGaia
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Move on. Thats all I can say.