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#1 CuddlesTheBunny
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So my girlfriend has this weird obsession with piercings. She has around 6 piercings on her ears, but that doesn't really bother me. Lately she has been talking about getting a monroe, which is a piercing kind of in between your lips and nose area. I can't control her and tell her not to get it, but truthfully I don't really find it attractive. I don't plan on breaking up with her if she gets it, but I need a way I can persuade her not to get it, without flat out saying "its nasty".
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#2 KittyKat
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So my girlfriend has this weird obsession with piercings. She has around 6 piercings on her ears, but that doesn't really bother me. Lately she has been talking about getting a monroe, which is a piercing kind of in between your lips and nose area. I can't control her and tell her not to get it, but truthfully I don't really find it attractive. I don't plan on breaking up with her if she gets it, but I need a way I can persuade her not to get it, without flat out saying "its nasty".CuddlesTheBunny

You should just say that you like her as she is and that you honestly don't find the idea appealing.  In the end though, she'll do what she likes and you'll have to deal with it. :\  I myself am content with two piercings.

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#3 kitty  Moderator
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just tell her you dont feel right about her having something like that, open up and be honest, she'll understand
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#4 nickmag
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"Earrings are like sneezes, two is ok but ten in a row is ANNOYING"
-Demetri Martin

If you tell her you really don't want her to get them then she should understand, if someone might end the relationship.

Also, do a barrel roll.

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#5 Samwel_X
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At least she isn;t getting 2 of them. I agree with you the things look really ugly.
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#6 Erasorn
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Dude, be a man and just tell her how you feel about it. If you don't find it attractive, tell her that.
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#7 double_decker
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If she asks you, or if you want to tell her just let her know somehow they you wouldn't find it attractive although you still want to be with her if she gets one, but that you won't like it very much
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#8 L8erSquare
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Your GF sounds like sees butt ugly, get your self a trophy girl ;)
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#9 CuddlesTheBunny
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Your GF sounds like sees butt ugly, get your self a trophy girl ;)L8erSquare
hahah, no she's pretty... but her sister on the other hand, I can see where shes being influenced into getting the piercing. But she knows how I feel about it. I don't think she knows how much I'm against it though.
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#10 Erasorn
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Your GF sounds like sees butt ugly, get your self a trophy girl ;)L8erSquare
They go really well with a sportscar I've heard. :o
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#11 den1233
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if shes addictied shes going to do it anyway, just like the plastic surgery lady on dr phil. any way im agreeing with you on this, pircings are ugly with the exception of one one each ear, belly rings , and a few erotic ones.
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#12 Kikouken
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Tell her she can get an infection :|
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#13 Zap-O-Matic
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Tell her she'll get AIDS from the Rice Krispie Men under your floorboard if she does it :|
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#14 PSYCO109
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Just say it wont suit her.
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#15 Vendead
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Just put a Magnet up to her face that solve her problem
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#16 pete_merlin
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if you say you want her to pierce her face then you will probably start an arguement, just ask her why she wants to get it done and then tell her how someone you knew got one done before and it got really infected causing her face to turn a horriable blue and leaving a big scar :D full proof baby! if she says whats his name just say 'this dude called nathan' thats my name and im allowing you to use it
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#17 monkeypowersbak
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dude piercings are kinda hot i dont no wtf yer problem is
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#18 VinnoT
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The problem is, you could tell her and she could just do it anyway. Or cause a big argument about it.

But...telling her seems to be the only way, you know her better than any of us..how do you think she'll react? 

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#19 FrigetBacon69er
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make a limit for her like i would prefer 3 earir limited on the face but any where on the body like nipples just one on one nipple not 2 and belly button ring would be hott but if its onif she has peirceings down there there watch out for that dont get so wrap up but other that try too leave that area bare and waxed