girlfriend problemz

maybe family stuff, ask her if she wants to keep going Sorry had to do it

I think her "sis" is jealous. Um talk to the parents and that will atleast give you... something. :?

BTW I sense a very familiar picture nearby. >_>

for the past 2 weeks, she hasnt been the same it sounds like she wants to get rid of me , and sounds like she is just using me . heres wut happened, 1 day me and her were all good but then her sis told the dad about us so i cant see her , nor talk, nothing recently she talks like nothing is wrong , feels like im annoying her well her parents arent speaking wit me yet, but i do plan to say something and give them an apology for not sayin anything bout me and her, any opinions on wut to do? Advice is really wut i need at the momentdawnnoob

I'd offer advice... if I could understand what's going on here. As it stands, this makes no sense to me whatsoever.

well let me explain a bit more that sis is her step sister she snitched and told her dad so my gf got in deep trouble, and he got some stuff i gave her, including notes, and small gifts, and a ring- promise ring i wanna do something with her parents and i wanna explain my side ... the dad comes back tuesday , so just a few days left until then.. any advice here?? or wut to do?dawnnoob

I don't know about the Parents confortation but if you have luck in that area and still have your GF, Keep your relationship away from the step sister. :|

you sound waay to needy. chill out.freshgman

Move to Ireland and get drunk

lets see, we been together for 8 months she is 2 years younger than me, though i know she a flirty person emotional at time, where she cuts herself .. recently found out, she lied about the reason she cuts herself i though it was cuz of her dad, but it could be something else.. not sure most of the times , she wants things her way where all things she does is ok but when i do them she quickly gets mad and jealous, though im jealous too but not like her though.. spoiled at times, acts like a little girl sometimes, im told not to go around where she lives, but i wanna talk 2 her parents and settle things should i do that? or wait ?dawnnoob

There's got to be some good reason that they don't approve of this relationship. When you say she's 2 years younger than you... how old are you exactly? I could see that being the reason. With teens, many parents really don't approve of even a two-year spread, even if two years is pretty inconsequential in the long run. This could also have to do with something you're not telling us about this situation that has given you a poor reputation.

maybe family stuff, ask her if she wants to keep going Sorry had to do it

smallcaplegend

This is win! :P

well her parents knew me , as her friend at first I have told them what im doing , that im a nice person not a trouble maker , but here the thing i have told my gf i wanted to tell her parents about us so we wont have trouble , but she told me to wait a bit so since then i was just a friend in their house . which is wrong , and i havent been there since... but 2 weeks ago her step sister showed pixs of us kissing and all that, so her dad got mad girlfriend said step sister did dat for revenge ... i have no clue why so my girlfriend's brother told me, that her dad want to talk 2 me when he returns from his trip , but since he found out he hit her to get the truth out of her , but she denied the truthdawnnoob

[QUOTE="dawnnoob"]for the past 2 weeks, she hasnt been the same it sounds like she wants to get rid of me , and sounds like she is just using me . heres wut happened, 1 day me and her were all good but then her sis told the dad about us so i cant see her , nor talk, nothing recently she talks like nothing is wrong , feels like im annoying her well her parents arent speaking wit me yet, but i do plan to say something and give them an apology for not sayin anything bout me and her, any opinions on wut to do? Advice is really wut i need at the momentgeneric_user512

Judging from this, Im gonna guess that she left you because of your bad grammar. Learn to spell nubcake.

As for your girl problems, go call the kind folks at the kids help phone, Im sure they can help with your retardation...I mean girl problems.

Judging from this, Im gonna guess that she left you because of your bad grammar. Learn to spell nubcake.

generic_user512

Why would he want to know how to spell nubcake? It's not even a real word - unless you resort to the same slang diction you malign.

did anything i explained help? painist?dawnnoob

No, because you haven't told me how old you are. i have a feeling this has everything to do with age, and the parents fearing that there will be some 'extra-curricular' activities going on between you two. Her not telling them about you would only add fuel to the suspicion fire.

[QUOTE="dawnnoob"]for the past 2 weeks, she hasnt been the same it sounds like she wants to get rid of me , and sounds like she is just using me . heres wut happened, 1 day me and her were all good but then her sis told the dad about us so i cant see her , nor talk, nothing recently she talks like nothing is wrong , feels like im annoying her well her parents arent speaking wit me yet, but i do plan to say something and give them an apology for not sayin anything bout me and her, any opinions on wut to do? Advice is really wut i need at the momentgeneric_user512

Judging from this, Im gonna guess that she left you because of your bad grammar. Learn to spell nubcake.

As for your girl problems, go call the kind folks at the kids help phone, Im sure they can help with your retardation...I mean girl problems.

do you feel like a big tough guy when you talk **** to people that you dont even know?? Serioisly, have you even been in a fight, cause you WILL get the **** kicked out of you when people get tired of your crap...................buddy ;)

[QUOTE="generic_user512"]

[QUOTE="dawnnoob"]for the past 2 weeks, she hasnt been the same it sounds like she wants to get rid of me , and sounds like she is just using me . heres wut happened, 1 day me and her were all good but then her sis told the dad about us so i cant see her , nor talk, nothing recently she talks like nothing is wrong , feels like im annoying her well her parents arent speaking wit me yet, but i do plan to say something and give them an apology for not sayin anything bout me and her, any opinions on wut to do? Advice is really wut i need at the momentfirebreathing

Judging from this, Im gonna guess that she left you because of your bad grammar. Learn to spell nubcake.

As for your girl problems, go call the kind folks at the kids help phone, Im sure they can help with your retardation...I mean girl problems.

do you feel like a big tough guy when you talk **** to people that you dont even know?? Serioisly, have you even been in a fight, cause you WILL get the **** kicked out of you when people get tired of your crap...................buddy ;)

I don't see your muscular build picture in your avatar.

Also, it was a joke, you need to chill, nubcake.

17, 19dawnnoob

So she's not legal, and she's still in her teens. See the problem here? Sounds like her dad is quite controlling and abusive. So if he doesn't want you seeing her, that's going to make things really difficult for you. It is POSSIBLE that talking to him and reasoning with him will help him overcome his ill feelings towards your relationship, but it's not likely.

That means you have two options. Wait until she's 18, at which point she's legally entitled to make decisions independent of her parents, or continue this relationship behind their backs, assuming the risks, and putting her at increased risk of continued abuse. If I were in your position, I'd certainly go with the latter. A year, in the grand scheme of things, isn't going to significantly affect your life. And if you love her, you're not going to want to put her in danger of further abuse on account of you.

There could be many reasons for this:

Girl is on an extended period (this is what I think the problem is).
Girl is stressed out.
Girl is having mental/emotional problems with someone or something. (Missing someone, ruining something, etc.)
Girl needs space to think.
Girl is just having bad mood swings (a girl doesn't stop growing until she's 25 or up, I think).

If she needs space, give her space. If she needs comfort, give her comfort. The only thing you can do is just watch her actions.

You know how your girl problems can be solved right? Commit to a Buddhist monastery for life. All your problems will cease to exist, and your life will become forfilling.Andrew_Xavier

That gets

[QUOTE="dawnnoob"]17, 19pianist

So she's not legal, and she's still in her teens. See the problem here? Sounds like her dad is quite controlling and abusive. So if he doesn't want you seeing her, that's going to make things really difficult for you. It is POSSIBLE that talking to him and reasoning with him will help him overcome his ill feelings towards your relationship, but it's not likely.

That means you have two options. Wait until she's 18, at which point she's legally entitled to make decisions independent of her parents, or continue this relationship behind their backs, assuming the risks, and putting her at increased risk of continued abuse. If I were in your position, I'd certainly go with the latter. A year, in the grand scheme of things, isn't going to significantly affect your life. And if you love her, you're not going to want to put her in danger of further abuse on account of you.

[QUOTE="Andrew_Xavier"]You know how your girl problems can be solved right? Commit to a Buddhist monastery for life. All your problems will cease to exist, and your life will become forfilling.dave123321

That gets

I've waited my entire life for this, and now that it's happened, I just don't know what to say, except, UWE BOLL!

i guess ill wait , seems like all the time i want things to rush but , your right.. though ima add more things during that time she was abuse, i dunno if she told me the truth or not but she said she and him are going to court? (im talking to a counselor , who knows my girlfriend, her sister and brother, especially the father , cuz he works at the same place) But if he does want to talk 2 me, ill reason with him if he doesnt , should i still reason and give an apology? (thats the only thing left i wanna know , before doing anything)dawnnoob

If you haven't done anything for which you'd need to apologize, I don't see what you could apologize for. I suppose you could apologize about not letting him know about your relationship, but as you've mentioned, that wasn't your fault. Frankly, it doesn't sound like the father's a particularly understanding fellow. And with such people, discussion often just makes things worse, unless you're extremely tactful. Bear in mind that if he's already come to a conclusion about your relationship, it may not be possible to change his mind. Even if he only thinks you've been sleeping with her (which I would guess is the issue here), you might as well have. Saying you haven't likely won't convince him otherwise.

hit it and quit it.cool_baller

and say you never did it?

[QUOTE="cool_baller"]hit it and quit it.smallcaplegend

and say you never did it?

[QUOTE="smallcaplegend"]

[QUOTE="cool_baller"]hit it and quit it.generic_user512

and say you never did it?

Gay Jew????????????

Wank ten?????????

Reading this topic reminds me of the girl I like :( :cry:. And about your girl, everything will be fine, eventually... and then you'll park the car in the garage, if you get what I'm saying ;).

this is wut i want to say apologize for not telling them that i wanted to tell them sooner cuz i wanted permission to date her treat her wit respect, and make sure she does well and that it is my responsibility, 2 keep her safe also apologize for entering their home *i know the mother might forgive me but heres the think, right now its just my gf and her mom , i maybe have a chance to convince the mother so dat way i might have a chance but i dunno.. dawnnoob

Love :cry: :cry:. Sorry for flooding your topic with my tears (not trying to be an ass). Anyways, maybe her dad will let you date when you see other people for awhile and sees that you care for her that much to wait till it's time.

*at the moment , its only her and the mother at the home, cuz the father is on a trip and if u want to know , he is mexicandawnnoob

Wow, didn't see that coming. And I'm half Mexicano!

im mexican as well dawnnoob

Did you jump or tunnel under the border?

may , mines in april but wut should i do, go and talk to the mom for now?> or wait til he returns dawnnoob

talk with her mom first to smooth the ice but you'll need a whole bag of tricks for the dad