Going to ask a girl on an official date this time. Best way to ask?

I am pretty nervous here. My previous thread a couple days ago talked about asking out with a message. I suggested that we go see a movie but never mentioned anything about a date. I think she misinterpreted and thought it was a real date anyway :P. But it worked out great and we had fun. Now for this official date I am going to call instead of look like a loser asking through messages. Which brings me to my question: What is a good way to ask while clarifying that it is a real date? I was thinking of something really simple like "What are you doing this weekend?" "Would you be interested in a date on friday night?". Its pretty generic, I know, but is there a better way while still making sure that she knows its a real date?

Why are you nervous? Don't be nervous man; just think of her as a dude breasts and no penis Actually that's weird. Don't think of her like that. >_>

.the_foreign_guy

I also forgot to add that she seems to already really like me a lot. So it shouldn't be that hard, I just don't want to look like an idiot.yentlequible

Call her and be like, "Do you wanna go out and hangout sometime this weekend?"CleanPlayer

Why are you nervous? Don't be nervous man; just think of her as a dude breasts and no penis Actually that's weird. Don't think of her like that. >_>

CocoMarshmellow

[QUOTE="the_foreign_guy"].GHlegend77

Singing telegram always works.

[QUOTE="CleanPlayer"]Call her and be like, "Do you wanna go out and hangout sometime this weekend?"yentlequible

Honestly i would just say"hey you want to go get something to eat?"

.the_foreign_guy

I am pretty nervous here. My previous thread a couple days ago talked about asking out with a message. I suggested that we go see a movie but never mentioned anything about a date. I think she misinterpreted and thought it was a real date anyway :P. But it worked out great and we had fun. Now for this official date I am going to call instead of look like a loser asking through messages. Which brings me to my question: What is a good way to ask while clarifying that it is a real date? I was thinking of something really simple like "What are you doing this weekend?" "Would you be interested in a date on friday night?". Its pretty generic, I know, but is there a better way while still making sure that she knows its a real date?

yentlequible

No need for that. Just ask her if she wants to do something that's more like an actual date. Like, ask her if she wants to go out for dinner at a nice restaurant or something. That actually says "date", because the situation lends itself to that. That's obviously a date, because you only mentioned the nice restaurant because you want to impress her, and you're only taking her out to dinner because you want to get to talk to her and get to know her better. That's a date.

But small steps. Last time you asked her out to see a movie, via text message. This time, personally ask her if she wants to have dinner with you, and then briefly suggest "and then maybe we can see another movie afterwards".

You know, small steps. You go from a movie (which is not a real date) to dinner and a movie (which is a real date).

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Hey baby, wanna wrestle?

[QUOTE="yentlequible"]

I am pretty nervous here. My previous thread a couple days ago talked about asking out with a message. I suggested that we go see a movie but never mentioned anything about a date. I think she misinterpreted and thought it was a real date anyway :P. But it worked out great and we had fun. Now for this official date I am going to call instead of look like a loser asking through messages. Which brings me to my question: What is a good way to ask while clarifying that it is a real date? I was thinking of something really simple like "What are you doing this weekend?" "Would you be interested in a date on friday night?". Its pretty generic, I know, but is there a better way while still making sure that she knows its a real date?

MrGeezer

No need for that. Just ask her if she wants to do something that's more like an actual date. Like, ask her if she wants to go out for dinner at a nice restaurant or something. That actually says "date", because the situation lends itself to that. That's obviously a date, because you only mentioned the nice restaurant because you want to impress her, and you're only taking her out to dinner because you want to get to talk to her and get to know her better. That's a date.

But small steps. Last time you asked her out to see a movie, via text message. This time, personally ask her if she wants to have dinner with you, and then briefly suggest "and then maybe we can see another movie afterwards".

You know, small steps. You go from a movie (which is not a real date) to dinner and a movie (which is a real date).

[QUOTE="yentlequible"]

I am pretty nervous here. My previous thread a couple days ago talked about asking out with a message. I suggested that we go see a movie but never mentioned anything about a date. I think she misinterpreted and thought it was a real date anyway :P. But it worked out great and we had fun. Now for this official date I am going to call instead of look like a loser asking through messages. Which brings me to my question: What is a good way to ask while clarifying that it is a real date? I was thinking of something really simple like "What are you doing this weekend?" "Would you be interested in a date on friday night?". Its pretty generic, I know, but is there a better way while still making sure that she knows its a real date?

MrGeezer

No need for that. Just ask her if she wants to do something that's more like an actual date. Like, ask her if she wants to go out for dinner at a nice restaurant or something. That actually says "date", because the situation lends itself to that. That's obviously a date, because you only mentioned the nice restaurant because you want to impress her, and you're only taking her out to dinner because you want to get to talk to her and get to know her better. That's a date.

But small steps. Last time you asked her out to see a movie, via text message. This time, personally ask her if she wants to have dinner with you, and then briefly suggest "and then maybe we can see another movie afterwards".

You know, small steps. You go from a movie (which is not a real date) to dinner and a movie (which is a real date).

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TheMadGamer

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TheMadGamer

"Ok, get this. There is only one real way to ask a girl out. You need to go out and catch some Pokemon. After you do that, you challenge the toughest trainer in school and make sure she is there to see the battle. You must win the battle. After winning the battle, walk up to her and say "I can train more than just Pokemon" and then ask her if she would like to see. You then proceed to bring her to your house. WARNING: DO NOT USE HOT BUTTER. This will ruin everything. You have to watch the Barney movie with her, and near the end you must touch her shoulder. Doing this will make her cry, because the movie is too sad. You must then bust out your Yu-Gi-Oh cards. Once she sees your manly cards, she will cheer up immensly and want to have sex with you. Be careful, its a trap. You must do a barrel roll to avoid her scheme. After doing so, ask her how you look. Regardless of her answer, touch her shoulder again. She will plead to have sex with you. All you say is "You need a permit" and then kick her out. Later on, she will call and ask you out. Works every time."No one important

"Nine inches"

InEMplease

[QUOTE="TheMadGamer"]

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yentlequible

Ask her out like McGruber would. Make her a bouquet of flowers out of pipe cleaners and yarn and then blow up her house so she has to go out cuz then she has no house.

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TheMadGamer

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jasonharris48

Told by who? :lol:

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[QUOTE="TheMadGamer"]

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TheMadGamer

Told by who? :lol:

"I don't exactly know what I am required to say in order for you to have intercourse with me. But could we assume that I said all that. I mean essentially we are talking about fluid exchange right? So could we go just straight to the sex. "

-John Nash, A Beutiful Mind (2001)

[QUOTE="TheMadGamer"]

[QUOTE="jasonharris48"] I was told this was the OT was the best when it comes to seeking girl advice?

yentlequible

Told by who? :lol:

[QUOTE="jasonharris48"]

[QUOTE="TheMadGamer"]

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TheMadGamer

Told by who? :lol:

If you're in doubt, then it might not work out. When there's natural chemistry between you and the lady of your desire then everything will fall into place on it's own.

Do you guys chill together? Do you flirt? Any chance you might simultaneously get wasted anytime soon?

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If this advice doesn't work for you, then just call her and ask if she wants to come to your LAN party.

That is actually exactly what I was thinking. I was planning on finding a nice restaurant and then going to see Toy Story 3 since neither of us have seen it yet.yentlequible

There you go.

A warning though...don't make it too obvious that you're trying to impress her. Don't break the bank taking her out to the best restaurant in the city. If you make the attempt to impress her too OBVIOUS, then you'll just end up looking pathetic.

But yeah, you have to make it obvious enough for her to know that you're trying to make a good impression. Just don't get the idea that the answer here is to throw money at her as if you're made out of bling. Make it obvious that you're trying to make a good impression and that you want to get to know her better, but don't go overboard. The point of "trying to impress her" isn't to show her that you're rich or totally awesome. The point is to show her that you care enough about her that you're doing something a little bit extra so that she can have a good time. But don't go too far, or else you'll just look creepy and/or pathetic.

If you're in doubt, then it might not work out. When there's natural chemistry between you and the lady of your desire then everything will fall into place on it's own.

Do you guys chill together? Do you flirt? Any chance you might simultaneously get wasted anytime soon?

---

If this advice doesn't work for you, then just call her and ask if she wants to come to your LAN party.

gamecubepad

[QUOTE="yentlequible"]That is actually exactly what I was thinking. I was planning on finding a nice restaurant and then going to see Toy Story 3 since neither of us have seen it yet.MrGeezer

There you go.

A warning though...don't make it too obvious that you're trying to impress her. Don't break the bank taking her out to the best restaurant in the city. If you make the attempt to impress her too OBVIOUS, then you'll just end up looking pathetic.

But yeah, you have to make it obvious enough for her to know that you're trying to make a good impression. Just don't get the idea that the answer here is to throw money at her as if you're made out of bling. Make it obvious that you're trying to make a good impression and that you want to get to know her better, but don't go overboard. The point of "trying to impress her" isn't to show her that you're rich or totally awesome. The point is to show her that you care enough about her that you're doing something a little bit extra so that she can have a good time. But don't go too far, or else you'll just look creepy and/or pathetic.

[QUOTE="gamecubepad"]

If you're in doubt, then it might not work out. When there's natural chemistry between you and the lady of your desire then everything will fall into place on it's own.

Do you guys chill together? Do you flirt? Any chance you might simultaneously get wasted anytime soon?

---

If this advice doesn't work for you, then just call her and ask if she wants to come to your LAN party.

yentlequible

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

[QUOTE="yentlequible"]That is actually exactly what I was thinking. I was planning on finding a nice restaurant and then going to see Toy Story 3 since neither of us have seen it yet.yentlequible

There you go.

A warning though...don't make it too obvious that you're trying to impress her. Don't break the bank taking her out to the best restaurant in the city. If you make the attempt to impress her too OBVIOUS, then you'll just end up looking pathetic.

But yeah, you have to make it obvious enough for her to know that you're trying to make a good impression. Just don't get the idea that the answer here is to throw money at her as if you're made out of bling. Make it obvious that you're trying to make a good impression and that you want to get to know her better, but don't go overboard. The point of "trying to impress her" isn't to show her that you're rich or totally awesome. The point is to show her that you care enough about her that you're doing something a little bit extra so that she can have a good time. But don't go too far, or else you'll just look creepy and/or pathetic.

If you're in doubt, then it might not work out. When there's natural chemistry between you and the lady of your desire then everything will fall into place on it's own.

Do you guys chill together? Do you flirt? Any chance you might simultaneously get wasted anytime soon?

---

If this advice doesn't work for you, then just call her and ask if she wants to come to your LAN party.

gamecubepad

He was in doubt about the "movie date", and that apparently went well.

There's apparently enough chemistry there that the two of them had a good time together. So I don't see the problem, as far as "chemistry" goes. Either he'll get rejected or he won't. Either the date will go well, or it won't. But unless he just wants to keep doing nothing but seeing movies with this girl, then at some point he's going to have to show his affections and to escalate his involvement with her.

Maybe the date will be a disaster, but nothing's going to come of it if he doesn't try.

[QUOTE="yentlequible"][QUOTE="gamecubepad"]

If you're in doubt, then it might not work out. When there's natural chemistry between you and the lady of your desire then everything will fall into place on it's own.

Do you guys chill together? Do you flirt? Any chance you might simultaneously get wasted anytime soon?

---

If this advice doesn't work for you, then just call her and ask if she wants to come to your LAN party.

KidCudi37

[QUOTE="gamecubepad"]

If you're in doubt, then it might not work out. When there's natural chemistry between you and the lady of your desire then everything will fall into place on it's own.

Do you guys chill together? Do you flirt? Any chance you might simultaneously get wasted anytime soon?

---

If this advice doesn't work for you, then just call her and ask if she wants to come to your LAN party.

yentlequible

Well, whatever you do, don't put her on the spot in any manner. That could kill the vibe. Supress your man urges and show her that you want to be "flirty" friends by giving legit compliments. Don't try to be a player, or to preconceive a path to a certain outcome. Be true to yourself and if she likes the real you then things will click.

If this is a quality lady, then she'll respect an honest, fun-loving, strong yet sensitive guy such as yourself.

Never over-think, or overplay the situation. When the moment is right just ask her, because she's worth it.

[QUOTE="gamecubepad"]

If you're in doubt, then it might not work out. When there's natural chemistry between you and the lady of your desire then everything will fall into place on it's own.

Do you guys chill together? Do you flirt? Any chance you might simultaneously get wasted anytime soon?

---

If this advice doesn't work for you, then just call her and ask if she wants to come to your LAN party.

MrGeezer

He was in doubt about the "movie date", and that apparently went well.

There's apparently enough chemistry there that the two of them had a good time together. So I don't see the problem, as far as "chemistry" goes. Either he'll get rejected or he won't. Either the date will go well, or it won't. But unless he just wants to keep doing nothing but seeing movies with this girl, then at some point he's going to have to show his affections and to escalate his involvement with her.

Maybe the date will be a disaster, but nothing's going to come of it if he doesn't try.

[QUOTE="yentlequible"][QUOTE="gamecubepad"]

If you're in doubt, then it might not work out. When there's natural chemistry between you and the lady of your desire then everything will fall into place on it's own.

Do you guys chill together? Do you flirt? Any chance you might simultaneously get wasted anytime soon?

---

If this advice doesn't work for you, then just call her and ask if she wants to come to your LAN party.

gamecubepad

Well, whatever you do, don't put her on the spot in any manner. That could kill the vibe. Supress your man urges and show her that you want to be "flirty" friends by giving legit compliments. Don't try to be a player, or to preconceive a path to a certain outcome. Be true to yourself and if she likes the real you then things will click.

If this is a quality lady, then she'll respect an honest, fun-loving, strong yet sensitive guy such as yourself.

Never over-think, or overplay the situation. When the moment is right just ask her, because she's worth it.

[QUOTE="CleanPlayer"]Call her and be like, "Do you wanna go out and hangout sometime this weekend?"yentlequible

Tell her I need you, I want you inside me, she'll get the picture.