Good way to Fit in (become popular).....

It probably would help

This won't work unless you actually don't care what people think of you, and it even if you don't this alone won't work. You still have to be able to go up to people and start conversations, in all likelyhood they are not going to be coming up to you and hand you a friendship.Big_player

but at the same time if i keep doing what i stated above wont that help me to be a better talker and get more experience since im not only talking to one person but everyone else in the whole classs?

[QUOTE="Big_player"]This won't work unless you actually don't care what people think of you, and it even if you don't this alone won't work. You still have to be able to go up to people and start conversations, in all likelyhood they are not going to be coming up to you and hand you a friendship.dragonmaster64

but at the same time if i keep doing what i stated above wont that help me to be a better talker and get more experience since im not only talking to one person but everyone else in the whole classs?

It really does help. Trust me. I'm popular.

Being popular at my school essentially means being a rich prep who has a car and is available for partying entailing drinking, sex and drugs at any hour of the week

I'm popular enough and I'm happy with my friends/who I'm friends with.

[QUOTE="dragonmaster64"]

[QUOTE="Big_player"]This won't work unless you actually don't care what people think of you, and it even if you don't this alone won't work. You still have to be able to go up to people and start conversations, in all likelyhood they are not going to be coming up to you and hand you a friendship.Sajedene

but at the same time if i keep doing what i stated above wont that help me to be a better talker and get more experience since im not only talking to one person but everyone else in the whole classs?

It really does help. Trust me. I'm popular.

ur lucky i used to be popular...
but back to topic what do you do to stay popular?
answer questions?

I think that it's always important to be socially active, because that is a skill you'll need in the future.

But, what you said isn't necessarily the answer. Of course stating your opinion in the classroom is really important, but it shouldn't be looked as a way of becoming popular, but as a way of showing you think and have your own views on certain subjects.

Don't try to become popular at force, be yourself. Popularity is over-rated, having friends and being morally reasonable are what I value the most.

[QUOTE="dragonmaster64"]

[QUOTE="Big_player"]This won't work unless you actually don't care what people think of you, and it even if you don't this alone won't work. You still have to be able to go up to people and start conversations, in all likelyhood they are not going to be coming up to you and hand you a friendship.Sajedene

but at the same time if i keep doing what i stated above wont that help me to be a better talker and get more experience since im not only talking to one person but everyone else in the whole classs?

It really does help. Trust me. I'm popular.

For some reason, I don't believe that one bit

oh yeah another important thing i forgot to say...

i also noticed that when the popular kids answer questions it isnt just simple one word answers they speak their mind and have a very convincing manner (dont know how to explain) that makes the whole class just want to listen.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="dragonmaster64"]

[QUOTE="Big_player"]This won't work unless you actually don't care what people think of you, and it even if you don't this alone won't work. You still have to be able to go up to people and start conversations, in all likelyhood they are not going to be coming up to you and hand you a friendship.dragonmaster64

but at the same time if i keep doing what i stated above wont that help me to be a better talker and get more experience since im not only talking to one person but everyone else in the whole classs?

It really does help. Trust me. I'm popular.

ur lucky i used to be popular...
but back to topic what do you do to stay popular?
answer questions?

Well thats the first step. Getting involved and getting your name and image out there in a positive way is a great way to maintain it. Being confident is always the key. Confidence in yourself helps you project well to others, makes you funny (even if you're not that funny -- if you can laugh at yourself others will laugh with you, not at you).

It should really be common sense... but having the guts to pull it off (confidence) is what is lacking with many.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="dragonmaster64"]

[QUOTE="Big_player"]This won't work unless you actually don't care what people think of you, and it even if you don't this alone won't work. You still have to be able to go up to people and start conversations, in all likelyhood they are not going to be coming up to you and hand you a friendship.TeymoORly

but at the same time if i keep doing what i stated above wont that help me to be a better talker and get more experience since im not only talking to one person but everyone else in the whole classs?

It really does help. Trust me. I'm popular.

For some reason, I don't believe that one bit

shes a hot girl thats been places...

[QUOTE="TeymoORly"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="dragonmaster64"]

[QUOTE="Big_player"]This won't work unless you actually don't care what people think of you, and it even if you don't this alone won't work. You still have to be able to go up to people and start conversations, in all likelyhood they are not going to be coming up to you and hand you a friendship.dragonmaster64

but at the same time if i keep doing what i stated above wont that help me to be a better talker and get more experience since im not only talking to one person but everyone else in the whole classs?

It really does help. Trust me. I'm popular.

For some reason, I don't believe that one bit

shes a hot girl thats been places...

Ew...?

[QUOTE="dragonmaster64"][QUOTE="TeymoORly"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="dragonmaster64"]

[QUOTE="Big_player"]This won't work unless you actually don't care what people think of you, and it even if you don't this alone won't work. You still have to be able to go up to people and start conversations, in all likelyhood they are not going to be coming up to you and hand you a friendship.Sajedene

but at the same time if i keep doing what i stated above wont that help me to be a better talker and get more experience since im not only talking to one person but everyone else in the whole classs?

It really does help. Trust me. I'm popular.

For some reason, I don't believe that one bit

shes a hot girl thats been places...

Ew...?

That's the biggest compliment you're gonna get here.

I think you're on to something :DBrainkiller05

yay my thinking skillz for the win!

[QUOTE="dragonmaster64"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="dragonmaster64"]

[QUOTE="Big_player"]This won't work unless you actually don't care what people think of you, and it even if you don't this alone won't work. You still have to be able to go up to people and start conversations, in all likelyhood they are not going to be coming up to you and hand you a friendship.Sajedene

but at the same time if i keep doing what i stated above wont that help me to be a better talker and get more experience since im not only talking to one person but everyone else in the whole classs?

It really does help. Trust me. I'm popular.

ur lucky i used to be popular...
but back to topic what do you do to stay popular?
answer questions?

Well thats the first step. Getting involved and getting your name and image out there in a positive way is a great way to maintain it. Being confident is always the key. Confidence in yourself helps you project well to others, makes you funny (even if you're not that funny -- if you can laugh at yourself others will laugh with you, not at you).

It should really be common sense... but having the guts to pull it off (confidence) is what is lacking with many.

thats so true! i know i have the phyical side down but its the inside that im working on. women see me as cute but when i blush they just back away and damn they can always tell if a boy is not confident or not sometimes even when they dont blush.
i also noticed that some popular kids just because who they are and how they are know as can get away with saying anything thats not really funny (kind of hard to understand). like in my ****there are poular kids who say jokes that arent just funny at all and people laugh but i know their not laughing because its funny but because whos saying it. im certain that if i said the exact same words that every1 thought to be funny no one would laugh.

Confidence works well. At least thats what scientists have speculated.

I was I guess what you would call popular. I went to a high school of 4,000 kids.. so there was more of just different "groups". But I was a starter on the varsity basketball team, so thousands of students and fans came to the games, so I was known from that. Plus, many of the "popular" kids played sports. So I was friends with all of those guys. Our football team sucked, and the basketball team went to state 3 years in a row and won once.. so we were the **** around campus. I wasn't a stereotypical stuck up guy though, because I didn't have to work at being popular. Just being a starter on the state champion basketball team and being friends with everybody in the school made me popular.

I guess what I'm getting at is, you don't have to be a natural attention getter. Join a sport or something and make friends with the popular guys that way.

[QUOTE="Brainkiller05"]I think you're on to something :Ddragonmaster64

yay my thinking skillz for the win!

[QUOTE="dragonmaster64"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="dragonmaster64"]

[QUOTE="Big_player"]This won't work unless you actually don't care what people think of you, and it even if you don't this alone won't work. You still have to be able to go up to people and start conversations, in all likelyhood they are not going to be coming up to you and hand you a friendship.Sajedene

but at the same time if i keep doing what i stated above wont that help me to be a better talker and get more experience since im not only talking to one person but everyone else in the whole classs?

It really does help. Trust me. I'm popular.

ur lucky i used to be popular...
but back to topic what do you do to stay popular?
answer questions?

Well thats the first step. Getting involved and getting your name and image out there in a positive way is a great way to maintain it. Being confident is always the key. Confidence in yourself helps you project well to others, makes you funny (even if you're not that funny -- if you can laugh at yourself others will laugh with you, not at you).

It should really be common sense... but having the guts to pull it off (confidence) is what is lacking with many.

thats so true! i know i have the phyical side down but its the inside that im working on. women see me as cute but when i blush they just back away and damn they can always tell if a boy is not confident or not sometimes even when they dont blush.
i also noticed that some popular kids just because who they are and how they are know as can get away with saying anything thats not really funny (kind of hard to understand). like in my ****there are poular kids who say jokes that arent just funny at all and people laugh but i know their not laughing because its funny but because whos saying it. im certain that if i said the exact same words that every1 thought to be funny no one would laugh.

Absolutely. Its all about delivery and working the crowd. And it always... ALWAYS... stems down to confidence.

I was I guess what you would call popular. I went to a high school of 4,000 kids.. so there was more of just different "groups". But I was a starter on the varsity basketball team, so thousands of students and fans came to the games, so I was known from that. Plus, many of the "popular" kids played sports. So I was friends with all of those guys. Our football team sucked, and the basketball team went to state 3 years in a row and won once.. so we were the **** around campus. I wasn't a stereotypical stuck up guy though, because I didn't have to work at being popular. Just being a starter on the state champion basketball team and being friends with everybody in the school made me popular.

I guess what I'm getting at is, you don't have to be a natural attention getter. Join a sport or something and make friends with the popular guys that way.

The_Mac_Daddy

Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?Shiro-kun

not really popular just known.
um i dont want to be unnaturally popular.

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?dragonmaster64

not really popular just known.
um i dont want to be unnaturally popular.

Well, that's what you're attempting to do.

Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?Shiro-kun

How do you be unnaturally popular?

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?Sajedene

How do you be unnaturally popular?

By being a lamer, who does stuff other people do, just because he wants to be like them.

[QUOTE="dragonmaster64"]

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?Shiro-kun

not really popular just known.
um i dont want to be unnaturally popular.

Well, that's what you're attempting to do.

what does it mean?

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?Shiro-kun

How do you be unnaturally popular?

By being a lamer, who does stuff other people do, just because he wants to be like them.

Whats wrong with wanting to be confident, get better grades, be socially active? Popularity is a potential side-effect of all of that, yes... but doesnt hurt him one bit.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?Shiro-kun

How do you be unnaturally popular?

By being a lamer, who does stuff other people do, just because he wants to be like them.

how dare you call me a lamer!, you only have 411 posts!!

State medal and championship ring (I like to show them off lol):

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?Sajedene

How do you be unnaturally popular?

By being a lamer, who does stuff other people do, just because he wants to be like them.

Whats wrong with wanting to be confident, get better grades, be socially active? Popularity is a potential side-effect of all of that, yes... but doesnt hurt him one bit.

what she said..

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"][QUOTE="dragonmaster64"]

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?dragonmaster64

not really popular just known.
um i dont want to be unnaturally popular.

Well, that's what you're attempting to do.

what does it mean?

You're saying "Would this make me popular?", but you don't just become popular.. They aren't like that to be popular, they just do what they think they should.

As I said, popularity is over-rated. Just be yourself.

And that applies to every circumstances.

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?Sajedene

How do you be unnaturally popular?

by trying to be popular, instead of trying to be yourself

State medal and championship ring (I like to show them off lol):

The_Mac_Daddy

Nice!

I remember getting one of those rings... ahh... memories :D

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?Sajedene

How do you be unnaturally popular?

By being a lamer, who does stuff other people do, just because he wants to be like them.

Whats wrong with wanting to be confident, get better grades, be socially active? Popularity is a potential side-effect of all of that, yes... but doesnt hurt him one bit.

Well, there's nothing wrong with that, except for the fact that popularity is his main goal, when it shouldn't.

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?dragonmaster64

How do you be unnaturally popular?

By being a lamer, who does stuff other people do, just because he wants to be like them.

how dare you call me a lamer!, you only have 411 posts!!

lol, so? What does that have to do with anything?

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Shiro-kun"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?Shiro-kun

How do you be unnaturally popular?

By being a lamer, who does stuff other people do, just because he wants to be like them.

Whats wrong with wanting to be confident, get better grades, be socially active? Popularity is a potential side-effect of all of that, yes... but doesnt hurt him one bit.

Well, there's nothing wrong with that, except for the fact that popularity is his main goal, when it shouldn't.

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?dragonmaster64

How do you be unnaturally popular?

By being a lamer, who does stuff other people do, just because he wants to be like them.

how dare you call me a lamer!, you only have 411 posts!!

lol, so? What does that have to do with anything?

ahah i was jokin lol : )

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?Sajedene

How do you be unnaturally popular?

By being a lamer, who does stuff other people do, just because he wants to be like them.

Whats wrong with wanting to be confident, get better grades, be socially active? Popularity is a potential side-effect of all of that, yes... but doesnt hurt him one bit.

wnting to be confident ect is fine but likeing a band or activity because it makes you popular isn't, you'll end up just being popular with people you don't really like

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Shiro-kun"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?markop2003

How do you be unnaturally popular?

By being a lamer, who does stuff other people do, just because he wants to be like them.

Whats wrong with wanting to be confident, get better grades, be socially active? Popularity is a potential side-effect of all of that, yes... but doesnt hurt him one bit.

wnting to be confident ect is fine but likeing a band or activity because it makes you popular isn't, you'll end up just being popular with people you don't really like

but the activity im joining are all good. im joining tutoring for the hours they give and so i can talk to people who i dont know, im trying out for the basketball team because im good at it and i love the sport.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Shiro-kun"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="Shiro-kun"]Just wondering.. why do you want to be unnaturally popular?markop2003

How do you be unnaturally popular?

By being a lamer, who does stuff other people do, just because he wants to be like them.

Whats wrong with wanting to be confident, get better grades, be socially active? Popularity is a potential side-effect of all of that, yes... but doesnt hurt him one bit.

wnting to be confident ect is fine but likeing a band or activity because it makes you popular isn't, you'll end up just being popular with people you don't really like

Very few people can actually pull of faking to get in. They reek of desperation and patheticness. A lot of them get eaten alive.

I still dont know why a lot of people think that its that easy to pretend to like something around people who geniunely like something.