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#1 BigBadGamerGirl
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When my bf txts me all he talks about is how he is going to get to school. I havnt had a normal conversation with him. I wanna know where our relationship is going to go because when i finish highschool he will have finished collage. I need some ideas about how to get him to txt me more than once a week like he used to.
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#2 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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find someone your own age
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#3 -Fromage-
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Dont you see him in person?
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#4 duxup
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If you're only contact is txting once a week, then I say find a better boyfriend.
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#5 michael_1234576
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He doesn't seem to feel like your relationship is as serious as you think it is.
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#6 duxup
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because when i finish highschool he will have finished collage. BigBadGamerGirl
I just got that thru my head.
find someone your own ageJandurin
Yeah it is time to find someone your own age.
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#8 BigBadGamerGirl
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i havnt seen him sence the 28th of may. and he was like 20 feet away from me. andi will not get someone my own age! he is my best friend even if i cant understand half of what he says cause of his accent
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#9 Oleg_Huzwog
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I assume bf stands for best friend and not boyfriend?

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#10 Wolls
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find someone your own ageJandurin

I dont know, a girl with an older guy can work well imo but yea if your only comunicatig in txt once a week and you dont see him often then its proberly over :(

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#11 DrSponge
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You haven't had a normal conversation with him, yet he's your boyfriend? Lolwut. He sounds boring if that's all he talks about...have you spoken to him about this yet? If he's in college and you're in HS then there's the possibility that he just isn't that into you...he could be seeing someone else. Loads of hawt college girls. I'm not saying he is, but you'd expect him to show a little more interest in his GF...
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#12 rawsavon
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CREAPER NO normal college guy dates a high school girl. PERIOD, end of story
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#13 Colin1192
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I dont think he likes you much anymore. You should probably find someone closer to your age

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#14 Big_Bad_Sad
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I assume bf stands for best friend and not boyfriend?

Oleg_Huzwog
I think she means boyfriend.
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#15 Wolls
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i havnt seen him sence the 28th of may. and he was like 20 feet away from me. andi will not get someone my own age! he is my best friend even if i cant understand half of what he says cause of his accentBigBadGamerGirl

Oh you ment best friend, then yea you may have to find a new mate but that should be easy if your going to coolege next year

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#16 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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I assume bf stands for best friend and not boyfriend?

Oleg_Huzwog
I think you might be right? >_>
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#17 DrSponge
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i havnt seen him sence the 28th of may. and he was like 20 feet away from me. andi will not get someone my own age! he is my best friend even if i cant understand half of what he says cause of his accentBigBadGamerGirl
Do you mean best friend or boyfriend? :lol:
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i havnt seen him sence the 28th of may. and he was like 20 feet away from me. andi will not get someone my own age! he is my best friend even if i cant understand half of what he says cause of his accentBigBadGamerGirl
Yeah that doesnt sound like the best relationship ever. And if you 2 are best friends, then good be that.
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#19 Anti-Venom
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CREAPER NO normal college guy dates a high school girl. PERIOD, end of storyrawsavon
Exactly, drop that dude quick.
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#20 duxup
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My joke thread sense is tingling.
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[QUOTE="BigBadGamerGirl"]i havnt seen him sence the 28th of may. and he was like 20 feet away from me. andi will not get someone my own age! he is my best friend even if i cant understand half of what he says cause of his accentWolls

Oh you ment best friend, then yea you may have to find a new mate but that should be easy if your going to coolege next year

she didn't say she was going to finish high school this year.
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#22 rawsavon
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My joke thread sense is tingling.duxup
Good call But have seen some loser college guys still dating high school girls
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#23 mrbojangles25
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[QUOTE="BigBadGamerGirl"] because when i finish highschool he will have finished collage. duxup
I just got that thru my head.
find someone your own ageJandurin
Yeah it is time to find someone your own age.

I agree.

Not what you wanted to hear, but as youre only texting once a week I guess the relationship isnt that great.

Find someone youre own age, as its been said. College is a place for new, exciting experiences. You make a lot of changes there and I am sure he is not the same person you started dating.

Also, find someone youre own age lol.

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#24 LieutenantFeist
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Isn't the answer obvious? Promise him sex in exchange for conversations.

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#25 Serraph105
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there seems to be quite the age difference but there are a lot of guys who don't like using a phone a whole lot. Perhaps you should just go see him. Or get somebody new cause once a week is seriously slacking.

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#26 mrbojangles25
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Isn't the answer obvious? Promise him sex in exchange for conversations.

LieutenantFeist

careful, youre conding statuatory rape.

its funny to me, but..the mods! OH, the MODS! Theyre gonna getcha!

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#27 duxup
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[QUOTE="duxup"]My joke thread sense is tingling.rawsavon
Good call But have seen some loser college guys still dating high school girls

Oh it happens, but the sudden offering of more crazy info for no apparent reason seems suspicious.

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#28 marluxia101
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be gone 4 you get peed on(in other words leave him)

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#29 Wolls
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[QUOTE="Wolls"]

[QUOTE="BigBadGamerGirl"]i havnt seen him sence the 28th of may. and he was like 20 feet away from me. andi will not get someone my own age! he is my best friend even if i cant understand half of what he says cause of his accentJandurin

Oh you ment best friend, then yea you may have to find a new mate but that should be easy if your going to coolege next year

she didn't say she was going to finish high school this year.

well it sort of sounded that way but now im way to confused about this now :?

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#30 DrSponge
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="duxup"]My joke thread sense is tingling.duxup

Good call But have seen some loser college guys still dating high school girls

Oh it happens, but the sudden offering of more crazy info for no apparent reason seems suspicious.

Your sig is awesome, even though you're a mod. Oh, and awesome level name for level 66 :o Diablo 2 ftw.
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#31 organic_machine
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CREAPER NO normal college guy dates a high school girl. PERIOD, end of storyrawsavon

Really?

OH ****!

*dumps girlfriend*

I'm normal!! I'm normal!! :cry:

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#32 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]CREAPER NO normal college guy dates a high school girl. PERIOD, end of storyorganic_machine

Really?

OH ****!

*dumps girlfriend*

I'm normal!! I'm normal!! :cry:

Funny :)
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#33 FreezeBlast95
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You think a college guy dating a high school girl is weird? Their are highschool seniors dating my middle school classmates....

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#34 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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You think a college guy dating a high school girl is weird? Their are highschool seniors dating my middle school classmates....

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#35 Serraph105
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You think a college guy dating a high school girl is weird? Their are highschool seniors dating my middle school classmates....

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the difference here is she is not out of highschool and he is just about to graduate college
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#36 FreezeBlast95
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[QUOTE="FreezeBlast95"]

You think a college guy dating a high school girl is weird? Their are highschool seniors dating my middle school classmates....

Jandurin

DOB: 1972-06-04 >_> LIAR! Also, gross.



Only put that because when I made this account like 2 years ago I was 12 but now I'm 14 :P

And sadly enough I'm not lying wish I was 12 year olds going out 17 and 18 year olds -_-

Gross and pathetic mate gross and pathetic

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#37 FreezeBlast95
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[QUOTE="FreezeBlast95"]

You think a college guy dating a high school girl is weird? Their are highschool seniors dating my middle school classmates....

Serraph105

the difference here is she is not out of highschool and he is just about to graduate college



It's still basically the same age difference when you graduate highschool your 17 18 and when you graduate college your 21 22 so that's about a 4 year difference my clas*mates are 12 and 13 year old girls and their dating 17 and 18 year old guys -_-

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#38 Serraph105
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[QUOTE="Serraph105"][QUOTE="FreezeBlast95"]

You think a college guy dating a high school girl is weird? Their are highschool seniors dating my middle school classmates....

FreezeBlast95

the difference here is she is not out of highschool and he is just about to graduate college



It's still basically the same age difference when you graduate highschool your 17 18 and when you graduate college your 21 22 so that's about a 4 year difference my clas*mates are 12 and 13 year old girls and their dating 17 and 18 year old guys -_-

oh crap I thought you said sophmores. Never mind what I said lets just say I said ewww

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Find someone who you can interact with in person.

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#40 FreezeBlast95
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[QUOTE="FreezeBlast95"]

[QUOTE="Serraph105"] the difference here is she is not out of highschool and he is just about to graduate collegeSerraph105



It's still basically the same age difference when you graduate highschool your 17 18 and when you graduate college your 21 22 so that's about a 4 year difference my clas*mates are 12 and 13 year old girls and their dating 17 and 18 year old guys -_-

oh crap I thought you said sophmores. Never mind what I said lets just say I said ewww



I wish it was sophmores wouldn't e that big a gap then. Lmao sounds good and I feel really bad for these girls there real nice but those older guys force into doing things One in particular is a complete and total slut and she's only 13

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#41 Chris_Williams
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i havnt seen him sence the 28th of may. and he was like 20 feet away from me. andi will not get someone my own age! he is my best friend even if i cant understand half of what he says cause of his accentBigBadGamerGirl
u can't understand what he's saying because of his accent?.......yeah..no.. u guys can stay friends, but as a couple..no
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#42 clyde46
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SO are we talking about a boyfriend or best friend?

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#43 enterawesome
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You need to tell him that you want to just be with each other more, otherwise its no real relationship. Or, you could just randomly make out with him. If any girl (who was at least good looking) did that for me, I would pretty much do whatever my girlfriend told me.
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#44 BigBadGamerGirl
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He is my boyfriend. And im in middle school and he is in 11th grade but he is 16
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#45 FreezeBlast95
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SO are we talking about a boyfriend or best friend?

clyde46



The world may never know

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He is my boyfriend. And im in middle school and he is in 11th grade but he is 16BigBadGamerGirl
that means you're 12 or under. BANNED. he would have to be 4 years or older to be finished college before/when you finish high school I don't mean to be mean, but I feel like this is better closure than trying to actually deal with your issue. I'm sorry :cry:
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#47 Statutory_AP3
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Ok, this is obviously a joke thread.
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#48 flordeceres
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[QUOTE="BigBadGamerGirl"]He is my boyfriend. And im in middle school and he is in 11th grade but he is 16Jandurin
that means you're 12 or under. BANNED. he would have to be 4 years or older to be finished college before/when you finish high school I don't mean to be mean, but I feel like this is better closure than trying to actually deal with your issue. I'm sorry :cry:

She might be 18, naive and in middle school

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#49 BigBadGamerGirl
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EXCUSE ME! Im almost 14!
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#50 BigBadGamerGirl
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And this is not a joke! ive spent weeks trying to sort this out!!!