guys im scared right now(girl stuff)

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#1 IronSalamander
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my highschool crush rejected me a few weeks back. i was over it. then i found out that she really wanted to kiss me, but thought it was a bad idea. but guess what? i have another crush on her

well tomorrow im going to see Nick and Norah(her choice) and then watch hot rod at her house, and just chill.

but see, im scared. i do not want to get hurt again( i was depressed for a week straight after the first "nice" rejection)

my plan is to pull a jim from the office. try a second time(i know he failed the second time tho.. :( ). i am just going to literally pour myself out to her, tell her what i would do what i expect and what i love about her.

P.S. the reason she rejected me cuz of some personal life stuff, she doesnt feel like she can have a boy friend cuz shes depressed, having bad thoughts, etc. but i sadly overlook all that and still love everything about her.

sorry, very kiddy sounding, but im a senior in highschool and i've liked her since freshman year. i dont wanna miss out on this prize of a girl.

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#2 nickyb628
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Sometimes pouring your heart out to a girl can be a bit much for her. It could scare her away. If you want closure to this situation, then go for it. If you like the feeling of 'the hunt' then just play it by ear. Kiss her tomorrow night.
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#3 Sajedene
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Say you still care for her a lot and would like to take things further but dont pressure her to give you an answer right then and there. It would make it easy for her and less awkward for you.
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#4 AzureEm
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Make sure you limit yourself when you're "pouring yourself out to her", you don't want to overwhelm her, and do you think that her personal problems will be fixed by the time you tell her?
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#6 NaiKoN9293
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wow... grow some balls and ****
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#7 mjf249
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Don't pour your emotions to her. Women get turned off by that easily. Instead change your game, a lot of women get turned off the fact that men give in so easily, and they get chased around. Joke around, be kind of a bad boy, and let her chase you. Women love a "bad boy", because they get the notion that "hey this guy isn't giving me much attention, I want his attention", and she will go after you. Don't, and I mean don't be a pansy. If you want to kiss her be like "Would you like to kiss me?", and if she says "NO" be like "Well I never said you could, I just thought I would ask because you had that look in your eye", kinda like that one episode on Pick Up Artist. I thought it was pretty clever, as lame as it sounds I've used it once kinda laughed a bit but hey I got a kiss.
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#8 Sajedene
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Don't pour your emotions to her. Women get turned off by that easily. Instead change your game, a lot of women get turned off the fact that men give in so easily, and they get chased around. Joke around, be kind of a bad boy, and let her chase you. Women love a "bad boy", because they get the notion that "hey this guy isn't giving me much attention, I want his attention", and she will go after you. Don't, and I mean don't be a pansy. If you want to kiss her be like "Would you like to kiss me?", and if she says "NO" be like "Well I never said you could, I just thought I would ask because you had that look in your eye", kinda like that one episode on Pick Up Artist. I thought it was pretty clever, as lame as it sounds I've used it once kinda laughed a bit but hey I got a kiss.mjf249

So true. I love the latter line... I would kiss him if that was done to me :)

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#9 Ghost_702
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Pouring all of your feelings into a woman may seem to her like you're a stalker. Don't do that man, doooooooooooon't do that.
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#10 mjf249
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Can't go wrong. A female just said that. Give it a try
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#11 MrHappyBizzar
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Haha, I love this high school stuff. Nothing at your age is that serious.
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#12 XxSTILL_BORNxX
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Haha, I love this high school stuff. Nothing at your age is that serious.MrHappyBizzar


^This , im glad i learned it fast.....dude , in high school people only care about how popular you are just so they could get on with you for bragging rights and all that highschool fantasy bulls***.
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#13 honkyjoe
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Touch Her shoulder.
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#14 MrHappyBizzar
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I was relatively popular in high school, I just didn't care. I still came to the realization that few decisions that I made pertaining to high school relationships would affect the rest of my life.
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#15 NearTheEnd
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i am just going to literally pour myself out to her, tell her what i would do what i expect and what i love about her.

IronSalamander
This will freak her out.
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#16 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="IronSalamander"]

i am just going to literally pour myself out to her, tell her what i would do what i expect and what i love about her.

NearTheEnd

This will freak her out.

It really will. :( I would be freaked out.

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#17 harashawn
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It really will. :( I would be freaked out.

Sajedene

I'm madly in love with you.

Are you freaked out? :P

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#18 MrHappyBizzar
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The whole pouring your heart out thing doesn't really work, especially if it's not someone that you speak to on a regular basis.
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#19 NearTheEnd
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Who are we kidding? You'll probably blow it.
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#20 garrett_duffman
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if shes depressed then talk her up. tell her everything and anything that you think makes her great. if you really like her this should be no problem. i know my GF can get depressed sometimes with just life and i can spurt out new material every time, not only does it make her feel better, but she feels closer to me because i was there for her and made her feel better.
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#21 BarryObama
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next time you have a chance kiss her. If you dont you will regret it. It is better to be rejected than to never know, kuz if she rejects you, well screw her anyway, if she doesnt than you live happily ever after
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#22 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

It really will. :( I would be freaked out.

harashawn

I'm madly in love with you.

Are you freaked out? :P

Well I know you're joking... so its okay.

You are joking right?

Lol.

I mean if you did joke about this in person I'd laugh but it would be a bit awkward for me.

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#23 harashawn
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You are joking right?

Sajedene

This is awkward.. :?

(Don't worry, I'm joking... Or am I?)

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#24 IronSalamander
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uh guys. i was really good friends with her freshman year, friends with her sophomre and junior, and good friends with her this year. i havnt just met her recently, shes been there all along. :/

but i mean, i suppose it could still be weird...

but whatever. i'll probably just end up playing it by ear. :/

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#25 killaguru11
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Make a small move man...flirt with her a bit and if your getting flirtation back....hold her hand or something. If she pulls away...its a no go. If not, then your gold
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my highschool crush rejected me a few weeks back. i was over it. then i found out that she really wanted to kiss me, but thought it was a bad idea. but guess what? i have another crush on her

well tomorrow im going to see Nick and Norah(her choice) and then watch hot rod at her house, and just chill.

but see, im scared. i do not want to get hurt again( i was depressed for a week straight after the first "nice" rejection)

my plan is to pull a jim from the office. try a second time(i know he failed the second time tho.. :( ). i am just going to literally pour myself out to her, tell her what i would do what i expect and what i love about her.

P.S. the reason she rejected me cuz of some personal life stuff, she doesnt feel like she can have a boy friend cuz shes depressed, having bad thoughts, etc. but i sadly overlook all that and still love everything about her.

sorry, very kiddy sounding, but im a senior in highschool and i've liked her since freshman year. i dont wanna miss out on this prize of a girl.

IronSalamander

Don't drown her in your epectations and such, just keep cool, and listen to what she says.

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#27 StartARiot7
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my highschool crush rejected me a few weeks back. i was over it. then i found out that she really wanted to kiss me, but thought it was a bad idea. but guess what? i have another crush on her

well tomorrow im going to see Nick and Norah(her choice) and then watch hot rod at her house, and just chill.

but see, im scared. i do not want to get hurt again( i was depressed for a week straight after the first "nice" rejection)

my plan is to pull a jim from the office. try a second time(i know he failed the second time tho.. :( ). i am just going to literally pour myself out to her, tell her what i would do what i expect and what i love about her.

P.S. the reason she rejected me cuz of some personal life stuff, she doesnt feel like she can have a boy friend cuz shes depressed, having bad thoughts, etc. but i sadly overlook all that and still love everything about her.

sorry, very kiddy sounding, but im a senior in highschool and i've liked her since freshman year. i dont wanna miss out on this prize of a girl.

IronSalamander

Dont give up o was trying to get this girl for a year almost and she never was into me we were great friends i just wanted to be more and she didnt, i was depressed for a long time knowing that i had my chance 1 time but blew it. But i know what you are going throgh i went through the same thing.

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#28 FUBAR24
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hah thats why my ex and i broke up cause she was going through some tough stuff. ironicly thats why me and my girlfriend got together cause she was really down in the dumps over her ex cause he was abbusive and i was always there for her to cheer her up
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#29 bsman00
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o boy life will be so differnt when you get out of highschool