G@y people help me please :(!

Does me being attracted to other men make me gay I mean...I won't kiss a dude cause well that grosses me out but boy are some guys ******* hot. Am I homosexual? I don't think i am....I can't imagine myself having sex with another man thats disgusting in my mind just thinking of two hair sweaty men on eachother gives me the shivers :|.

I'm so confused it's a hard knock life for us teenagers! :cry:

I think you are in stage 1 of homosexuality.

I think you are in stage 1 of homosexuality.

Espada12

[QUOTE="Espada12"]

I think you are in stage 1 of homosexuality.

MrLions

I've always assumed that, I have no idea though, but most of the gay guys I know of generally started saying stuff like this to their "friends" who of course told us.........

[QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="Espada12"]

I think you are in stage 1 of homosexuality.

Espada12

I've always assumed that, I have no idea though, but most of the gay guys I know of generally started saying stuff like this to their "friends" who of course told us.........

[QUOTE="Espada12"]

I think you are in stage 1 of homosexuality.

MrLions

I can't imagine myself having sex with another man thats disgusting in my mind just thinking of two hair sweaty men on eachother gives me the shiversMrLions

No it doesnt. Here ill show you.

George clooney is a very attractive man, that goes Matthew Fox as well.........Im completely straight (yes really) I find it kind of silly that most guys are so silly about this that if you say another dude is good looking then your gay which is ridiculous

Homosexual means that you have sexual attraction to other men. Unless you don't feel this wayyou can't consider yourself homosexual.

Ummm, are you sexually attracted to females aswell? If not, I think the answer seems fairly clear.raven_squad

[QUOTE="raven_squad"]Ummm, are you sexually attracted to females aswell? If not, I think the answer seems fairly clear.MrLions

[QUOTE="Espada12"]

I think you are in stage 1 of homosexuality.

MrLions

I'm gonna say yes, though I'm not gay

[QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="Espada12"]

I think you are in stage 1 of homosexuality.

Bruin4ev3r1520

Wtf lawl...

[QUOTE="raven_squad"]Ummm, are you sexually attracted to females aswell? If not, I think the answer seems fairly clear.MrLions

If you can comfortably say "wow, that guy is attractive" but not be attracted to him, then you are most likely not gay yourself, and also not insecure about your own sexuality. I think you're just confused by society's taboo of men acknowledging other men as attractive, but not being attracted to them. Either that or you're beginning to 'explore' your sexuality. Only you can know for sure.

[QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="raven_squad"]Ummm, are you sexually attracted to females aswell? If not, I think the answer seems fairly clear.jeremiah06

If you can comfortably say "wow, that guy is attractive" but not be attracted to him, then you are most likely not gay yourself, and also not insecure about your own sexuality. I think you're just confused by society's taboo of men acknowledging other men as attractive, but not being attracted to them. Either that or you're beginning to 'explore' your sexuality. Only you can know for sure.

carrot-cake

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"][QUOTE="MrLions"] Oh hell yes I am. raven_squad

[ homophobic doesn't just mean being disgusted it also means being afraid. If he finds men sexually attractive(taken from " boy are some guys ******* hot") but is grossed out by the thoughts of sexual acts with them because of societal fear.

jeremiah06

Wait what? :shock:

I don't care what society thinks of me -____-....

[QUOTE="carrot-cake"]

If you can comfortably say "wow, that guy is attractive" but not be attracted to him, then you are most likely not gay yourself, and also not insecure about your own sexuality. I think you're just confused by society's taboo of men acknowledging other men as attractive, but not being attracted to them. Either that or you're beginning to 'explore' your sexuality. Only you can know for sure.

jeremiah06

There could be a level of closetness to you.JustPlainLucas

[QUOTE="JustPlainLucas"]There could be a level of closetness to you.MrLions

[QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="JustPlainLucas"]There could be a level of closetness to you.McJugga

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"][QUOTE="carrot-cake"]

If you can comfortably say "wow, that guy is attractive" but not be attracted to him, then you are most likely not gay yourself, and also not insecure about your own sexuality. I think you're just confused by society's taboo of men acknowledging other men as attractive, but not being attracted to them. Either that or you're beginning to 'explore' your sexuality. Only you can know for sure.

carrot-cake

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"]

[ homophobic doesn't just mean being disgusted it also means being afraid. If he finds men sexually attractive(taken from " boy are some guys ******* hot") but is grossed out by the thoughts of sexual acts with them because of societal fear.

MrLions

Wait what? :shock:

I don't care what society thinks of me -____-....

[QUOTE="McJugga"][QUOTE="MrLions"] But i don't care what other people think of me -__-.....MrLions

:lol:

You can always count on the fine folks of OT to leave you even more confused than you were before. :P

Its one thing to say that but in truth we are programmed by society to have roughly the same views as it. Like men taking 12 year old wives... It used to be a common thing but now its viewed as wrong or immoral. If you ask a guy now he'd be against it but thats only because society as a whole is.jeremiah06

But I don't....society is stupid and dumb for god sakes society thinks lady gaga is good music. :cry:

Even in that situation you'd say up there as long as he isn't hurting the little girl and SHE knows whats shes getting into then I have no problem.

You are bi curious I think.

I think you are in stage 1 of homosexuality.

Espada12

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"]

Its one thing to say that but in truth we are programmed by society to have roughly the same views as it. Like men taking 12 year old wives... It used to be a common thing but now its viewed as wrong or immoral. If you ask a guy now he'd be against it but thats only because society as a whole is.MrLions

But I don't....society is stupid and dumb for god sakes society thinks lady gaga is good music. :cry:

Even in that situation you'd say up there as long as he isn't hurting the little girl and SHE knows whats shes getting into then I have no problem.

Well, I'm not a scientist thats just my take on the situation. It does seem like you're being defensive though. The only true answer can be found in you. We wont judge you f you decide to experiment.jeremiah06

Well ty for your input :(

Nothing wrong here. I'm 101% straight and get crushes on guys all the time. : )

Do you find men sexually attractive, like you do with women?

You could be bi-curious but not bisexual or anything else. Or you could be in denial, i've seen it first hand.

Sigh_han

I've often times thought: if I were gay I'd date this guy or that guy. I don't see anything wrong or unhealthy or even homosexual about it. I just know for whom I would have those feelings if I were gay There's a big difference, I think.jalexbrown

[QUOTE="jalexbrown"]I've often times thought: if I were gay I'd date this guy or that guy. I don't see anything wrong or unhealthy or even homosexual about it. I just know for whom I would have those feelings if I were gay There's a big difference, I think.EmpCom

if it makes you feel any better, i've often thought to myself "wow, i can see how females find him attractive" or something along those lines. or yu might just be gay not a big deal. JPOBS

[QUOTE="MrLions"]

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"]

[ homophobic doesn't just mean being disgusted it also means being afraid. If he finds men sexually attractive(taken from " boy are some guys ******* hot") but is grossed out by the thoughts of sexual acts with them because of societal fear.

jeremiah06

Wait what? :shock:

I don't care what society thinks of me -____-....

So you are saying all guys secretly want 12 year old wives :|