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Its one thing to say that but in truth we are programmed by society to have roughly the same views as it. Like men taking 12 year old wives... It used to be a common thing but now its viewed as wrong or immoral. If you ask a guy now he'd be against it but thats only because society as a whole is.[QUOTE="jeremiah06"][QUOTE="MrLions"]
Wait what? :shock:
I don't care what society thinks of me -____-....
Joshywaa
So you are saying all guys secretly want 12 year old wives :|
Most men are attracted to teenage girls under 18, whether they admit or not...
Well I'm not gay but I'll help anyway. :)
I don't think you have anything to worry about. It doesn't sound like it to me. Most people consider some other people within the same gender as theirs to be good looking. It doesn't make you homosexual and, I'm trying to not be corny but It's a natural thing. Like most other people said on here, your only gay if you find that person to be sexually attractive. As in, you want to pork them or make out with them. :shock:
As for people saying bi-curious, I thought that meant that your wondering or have desires to "be with" another person of the same gender just to see what its like and if its for you or not? Like sampling :lol: , Am I correct?
[QUOTE="Dystopian-X"]101%? You are as straight as spaghetti......till you heat it up :PNothing wrong here. I'm 101% straight and get crushes on guys all the time. : )
Dante2710
D = You are right. Now I'm up here doubting my sexuality.
Must make thread in OT about homosexual tendencies to reassure myself since I don't wanna feel icky!
Does me being attracted to other men make me gay I mean...I won't kiss a dude cause well that grosses me out but boy are some guys ******* hot. Am I homosexual? I don't think i am....I can't imagine myself having sex with another man thats disgusting in my mind just thinking of two hair sweaty men on eachother gives me the shivers :|.
I'm so confused it's a hard knock life for us teenagers! :cry:
MrLions
I guess it depends on how hot he is.
If he's "Brad Pitt hot", then you're probably not gay.
But if he's "DJ Qualls ugly", then maybe you are gay.
But again, it depends on how hot the person is. If the man is REALLY hot, then being attracted to him doesn't mean a damn thing. I'll bet that 75% of the men on this website wouldn't turn down a hot date with Brad Pitt, even if they AREN'T gay.
Most homosexual men I've encountered have been just as hairless as females. And as for that sweaty well I'm sure that's obvious.
[QUOTE="Joshywaa"]
[QUOTE="jeremiah06"] Its one thing to say that but in truth we are programmed by society to have roughly the same views as it. Like men taking 12 year old wives... It used to be a common thing but now its viewed as wrong or immoral. If you ask a guy now he'd be against it but thats only because society as a whole is.black_cat19
So you are saying all guys secretly want 12 year old wives :|
Most men are attracted to teenage girls under 18, whether they admit or not...
your body doesn't change you just delude yourself for the sake of humanity. When you are 13 years old you are sexually attracted to 12-16 year old girls. What really happens between the age of 13 and 25? You change your preference mentally because society shuns liked girls under 18. However at 20 you are still the same person you were at 16, 14 year old girls will still look the same to you whether you openly admit it or not. Acting on it or even acknowledging that fact makes you a pedophile, but having those feelings alone makes you human. You'd be surprised what you could do to your mind by deluding it for years. You forcefully change yourself but naturally humans have shown what type of creatures they are.Without societal pressure even animals become attractive...Alexi is that you? :PI'm not gay but I kissed a dude last friday. We're good friends too and its totally not awkward because we know we were wasted.
Perhaps bi-sexuality is an option? :3
freek666
[QUOTE="freek666"]Alexi is that you? :PI'm not gay but I kissed a dude last friday. We're good friends too and its totally not awkward because we know we were wasted.
Perhaps bi-sexuality is an option? :3
X360PS3AMD05
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That scared the hell out of me because my name is Alexander.
However you're American iirc so it's just a strange freaking coincedance!
You may either be a heterosexual with slight bisexual tendencies or a bisexual with a very deeply ingrained homophobia.
Fo'sho not, personally I think this all the time "Damn that dude looks awesome, I wanna look just like him...". For example, everytime I see a picture of Johnny Depp...or Buakaw...
Alexi is that you? :P[QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"][QUOTE="freek666"]
I'm not gay but I kissed a dude last friday. We're good friends too and its totally not awkward because we know we were wasted.
Perhaps bi-sexuality is an option? :3
freek666
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That scared the hell out of me because my name is Alexander.
However you're American iirc so it's just a strange freaking coincedance!
Haha i was talking about the dude from COB who always does.......questionable things with dudes...No no no, etymology error again.Homosexual means that you have sexual attraction to other men. Unless you don't feel this wayyou can't consider yourself homosexual.
Ensamheten
Just because the word ends in -sexual doesnt necessarily mean that homosexuality is only about sexual urges.
Homosexuality entails emotions as well (love, affection towards the same sex).
To the TC: imo in theses issues, and since finding out you are possibly gay is a big deal, I suggest you dont think about it much. Just let it come (or go) "naturally". In essence, dont freak out just yet.
EDIT: Not that I urge you to freak out once you know for sure. :P
straight men are not attracted to other men. You might be gayDoes me being attracted to other men make me gay I mean...I won't kiss a dude cause well that grosses me out but boy are some guys ******* hot. Am I homosexual? I don't think i am....I can't imagine myself having sex with another man thats disgusting in my mind just thinking of two hair sweaty men on eachother gives me the shivers :|.
I'm so confused it's a hard knock life for us teenagers! :cry:
MrLions
If you can't imagine yourself sleeping with another man, you're probably not gayBourbons3
^This^
Noticing some men are incredibly attractive does not make you gay .
Although I am bi sexual and you basically described me 5 years ago so maybe you might become one of us in the near future :shock:
To take a stab, I'd say you are a closeted bisexual/bi-curious.
I'm a straight guy though, so I wouldn't know much on this subject.
Yes, it does make you a tad gay.
Still, that doesn't mean you have to go redecorate your house or anything. If there's anything I've learnt from GS OT, it's that gay men can lead a more or less normal, pseudo-straight life as long as they channel all of those urges into witty, online homoerotic banter. It's all about being comfortable enough with your sexuality to deny the screamingly obvious in an elaborate subterfuge of increasingly fabulous double bluff.
Don't label yourself as anything if you don't want to. Just go with the flow :)
Sigh_han
Best advice :)
But, personally, I think you just never gave much thought about other guys being attractive and now that you did you are confused. Nothing serious...
Judging by how lovingly you put it (being "some guys are ****ing hot") I would say your as bent as the hills my friend. Sure you can acknowledge another guy as being good looking.. but to put it like that seems like you wanna ravage him.
Does me being attracted to other men make me gayMrLionsYes. Though it could just be a phase, but I wouldn't bank on that. I don't like the idea of sodomy either but that doesn't make you any less of a homosexual.
I don't know how this thread got as far as it did (and how many people don't have a clue what they're talking about). The idea that you are homosexual is ridiculous. At the very least, you have a man crush - at the most, you are bi-curious. That's it. It's not rocket science.
[QUOTE="MrLions"]Does me being attracted to other men make me gaysuper_mario_128Yes. Though it could just be a phase, but I wouldn't bank on that. I don't like the idea of sodomy either but that doesn't make you any less of a homosexual. Yeah, this is correct. TC, you are wild homo
[QUOTE="jeremiah06"]
[ homophobic doesn't just mean being disgusted it also means being afraid. If he finds men sexually attractive(taken from " boy are some guys ******* hot") but is grossed out by the thoughts of sexual acts with them because of societal fear.
MrLions
Wait what? :shock:
I don't care what society thinks of me -____-....
If that really was true you would walk around naked.
[QUOTE="MrLions"]
[QUOTE="jeremiah06"]
[ homophobic doesn't just mean being disgusted it also means being afraid. If he finds men sexually attractive(taken from " boy are some guys ******* hot") but is grossed out by the thoughts of sexual acts with them because of societal fear.
Leejjohno
Wait what? :shock:
I don't care what society thinks of me -____-....
If that really was true you would walk around naked.
There is a difference between not caring what society thinks and not wanting to be thrown in jail.
Well, like others said, if you admire another man's looks it doesn't necessarily mean your homosexual. But the possibility of you being bi is always there. I'm the same way, I couldn't see myself having sex with another man, butI am attracted to some guys and wouldn't mind being close to one, These guys are also very interesting people who I admire.
*comes into this thread being absolutely fabulous* I have no idea. But as a straight male, I would call you borderline homosexual. There is a difference in knowing who is an attractive guy (Ex: I think Xaos is an attractive/good looking guy) and being attracted to a guy (Ex: However, I am not attracted to Xaos.)clayron
agreed^
i think this guy is good looking, but i'm not attracted to him.
i'm straight, but there are good looking men in the world:shock:
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