Has anyone ever tried to kiss a girl and they refused? What did you do?

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#1 Treesmash
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I finally got to go to a movie with a girl that my mom set up and when we got into the theater about an hour into the movie I leaned in to try and kiss her and she totally just backed up and then sat a seat away from me. It was kind of funny at first but then really strange. After the movie she told my mom to take her home first so I was just stuck at the theater till my mom came back. Has anything like this happened to you guys? Should I call her and apologize or ask her out or something?

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#2 kidsmelly
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That is when I just skip the kissing and go staright to the sex. But thats just me, rookies do not attempt.

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#3 mrmusicman247
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Sorry about that, guy. That's never happened to me. I'm usually the one getting kissed :P But yeah i would apologize.
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#4 pr0hardgamer
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Refuse? me? Do you know how hard I am?
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#5 TheMightyHoov
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Its ok thats a sign that she is really into you. Her refusal of a kiss means she wants to skip straight to sex :D

On a serious note you should call her and apologize. I find it a bit ridiculous she had to sit a seat away from you imo

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#7 Treesmash
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Sorry about that, guy. That's never happened to me. I'm usually the one getting kissed :P But yeah i would apologize. mrmusicman247
Oh wow, how do you get girls to kiss you?
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#8 TheMightyHoov
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[QUOTE="mrmusicman247"]Sorry about that, guy. That's never happened to me. I'm usually the one getting kissed :P But yeah i would apologize. Treesmash
Oh wow, how do you get girls to kiss you?

Isnt it obvious? Just be awesome 8)

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#9 T_REX305
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girls never refuse me.

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#10 35th_shields
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I finally got to go to a movie with a girl that my mom set up and when we got into the theater about an hour into the movie I leaned in to try and kiss her and she totally just backed up and then sat a seat away from me. It was kind of funny at first but then really strange. After the movie she told my mom to take her home first so I was just stuck at the theater till my mom came back. Has anything like this happened to you guys? Should I call her and apologize or ask her out or something?

Treesmash

You shouldn't have to apologize to this chick for trying to act on your feelings towards her. Sorry dude, but she's not interested. Move on to the next one.

Anyway, I've never had this happen to me because I always wait until I'm 100% certain it'll be a successful kiss. It's kind of like that old saying "Don't start fighting until after the battle has been won". However, I know people who this has happened to, and they all have said it's extremely awkward.

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#11 _BlueDuck_
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You gotta give them the puzzled, "YOU FOOL! Do you realise what you just passed up?!" look.

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#12 PerfectCircles
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:lol: she got up and moved thats a little harsh. I would call her and apologize and then be done with her.
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#13 mrmusicman247
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[QUOTE="mrmusicman247"]Sorry about that, guy. That's never happened to me. I'm usually the one getting kissed :P But yeah i would apologize. Treesmash
Oh wow, how do you get girls to kiss you?

Idk lol They've said its because i'm cute. I don't agree but whatever works :P
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#14 EVOLV3
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I have a hard time believing this is true... if it is, I just feel bad for you TC.

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#15 Treesmash
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:lol: she got up and moved thats a little harsh. I would call her and apologize and then be done with her.PerfectCircles
Yeah, I was really embarassed. There was a family next to us so had to move into the chair right next to the mom it looked it. I think the mom and the dad were laughing. :(
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#16 Agent-Zero
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Do it anyways...No actually means yes.
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#18 Anti-Venom
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refuse me? impossible
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#19 Treesmash
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Wow, really? I'm like the only person to get rejected on a kiss? Now I feel kinda dumb. I thought people would have stories to share and stuff.

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#20 TheMightyHoov
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Wow, really? I'm like the only person to get rejected on a kiss? Now I feel kinda dumb. I thought people would have stories to share and stuff.

Treesmash

Well I wait until Im absolutely sure they will accept

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#21 Treesmash
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[QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

[QUOTE="Treesmash"]

Wow, really? I'm like the only person to get rejected on a kiss? Now I feel kinda dumb. I thought people would have stories to share and stuff.

Well I wait until Im absolutely sure they will accept

I guess I'm confused by that too. I mean how do you know they will accept before you try?
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#22 harashawn
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Was it supposed to be a date?
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#23 TheMightyHoov
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[QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

[QUOTE="Treesmash"]

Wow, really? I'm like the only person to get rejected on a kiss? Now I feel kinda dumb. I thought people would have stories to share and stuff.

Treesmash

Well I wait until Im absolutely sure they will accept

I guess I'm confused by that too. I mean how do you know they will accept before you try?

Just body language, and going out with them for a couple of days before hand helps too.

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#24 Serraph105
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:lol: she got up and moved thats a little harsh. I would call her and apologize and then be done with her.PerfectCircles
I actually wouldn't apologize. I might make her pay me back for the movie or something though. also no this has never happened to me TC.
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#25 Vaasman
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That's why I always carry a totebag full of wrags and chloroform.

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#26 TheMightyHoov
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That's why I always carry a totebag full of wrags and chloroform.

Vaasman

This man knows how to come prepared.

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#27 Kle0
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How old was the girl.? In order to freak out so much, and in order for your means of transport to be your mom, you and her must be at least 7...
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#28 TheMightyHoov
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How old was the girl.? In order to freak out so much, and in order for your means of transport to be your mom, you and her must be at least 7... Kle0

Yeah, lets hear some more details there TC

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#29 1kryptic
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Wow, really? I'm like the only person to get rejected on a kiss? Now I feel kinda dumb. I thought people would have stories to share and stuff.

Treesmash

No, you're just the only one admitting it ;). And don't go out with that girl again by the way.

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#30 Guybrush_3
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The whole situation was just really really awkward. I had been out drinking with some friends and I ended going home with one of my friends who is a girl and cuddling up on the couch and watching a movie with her (which is something we do from time to time, but we had never done it while intoxicated before) and my drunk self decides, "hey this is nice, maybe we should start making out now" and I tried to kiss her, and I got a really weird look and she scooted to the other end of the couch. Things were awkward for a good month between us after that.

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#31 ArmoredAshes
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Wow, really? I'm like the only person to get rejected on a kiss? Now I feel kinda dumb. I thought people would have stories to share and stuff.

Treesmash

If it makes you feel better...I've only ever had one kiss. Aaaaaaannnnd thats because my "friend" at the time made it known to everyone including the girl I liked that if I didn't kiss her by the end of the night he was going to make out with me and tell everyone in school that my first kiss was a guy >_> Prior to that though I turned down a kiss from this one girl...she was playing games and I didn't know how to react when she moved in so I backed up. hahah

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#32 Meat_Wad_Fan
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Why the hell would your mom leave you at the theater while she took the girl home. Did the girl tell your mom that you tried to rape her? I just don't understand that part. Definitely don't apologize either. Also for the record if this was a first date with her, a movie is a horrible idea, so is trying to kiss a girl you hardly know. (Did your mom seriously arrange the date? You must be 10.)

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#33 Kle0
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He insists on not revealing his age... Did sb get nervous.?
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#34 incred_davis
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they can refuse??

i usually wait till their unconcious before making my move...

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#35 pygmahia5
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hahahah how old are you man?
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#36 GTA_dude
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You tried to kiss her during a movie? And just out of the blue? i see alot of mistakes here... First off, you have to somehow connect with her before you can kiss her. If she doesn't find any kinda attraction to you, then why would she want to kiss you? Second, dont try and surprise them with a kiss, that's just weird...
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#37 positivebalance
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ah, movie theaters. that's where i got my first... eh, hee :oops:

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#38 coolbeans90
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Can't say that I've run into that problem. Might wanna time it better?

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#39 fabz_95
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Its ok thats a sign that she is really into you. Her refusal of a kiss means she wants to skip straight to sex :D

On a serious note you should call her and apologize. I find it a bit ridiculous she had to sit a seat away from you imo

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Yeah, I think that's a little over the top.
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#40 JPOBS
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lmfao actually it has once but she was sitting in my lap giving me a lapdance for like 4 hours so i was like whatever.

edit: lol after reading it, i just wanna clearify that it was a real girl and not a stripper lol

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#41 Daavpuke
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Yeah.. It was awkward as hell. I cope by repressing the memories with alcohol abuse. You're welcome to do that as well.
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#42 fear9204
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go home and cry, i felt really sad when that happened

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#43 poma_123
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Move on duuhh!

Next time just wait until your certain it wont screw up :D

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#44 Solid_Tango
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Shes just playing hard to get, she totally wants you tho
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I evaded her punch and touched her shoulder.
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#46 Treesmash
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[QUOTE="harashawn"] Was it supposed to be a date?

I'm pretty sure it was she wasn't that much older than me.
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#47 Treesmash
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[QUOTE="Kle0"]How old was the girl.? In order to freak out so much, and in order for your means of transport to be your mom, you and her must be at least 7... TheMightyHoov

Yeah, lets hear some more details there TC

Well I'm 18 and she's like a few months older than me but we're both homeschooled, that's how my mom knows her because my mom teaches the math co-op for the girls. We're the oldest kids left in the co-op so I guess she just figured we should at least meet each other.
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#48 iBear-
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God man that is BRUTAL lol

Shes just playing hard to get, she totally wants you thoSolid_Tango

lol, atleast ya tried dude. Better than not kissing her and go home thinking she likes you.

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#49 Treesmash
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God man that is BRUTAL lol

[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"]Shes just playing hard to get, she totally wants you thoiBear-

lol, atleast ya tried dude. Better than not kissing her and go home thinking she likes you.

lo, you're telling me. I had to explain to my mom what happened when she came back for me. :(
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#50 mindstorm
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I'm extremely analytical even in social situations and thus have had no problem judging when is a good time to kiss and when not. For example, if she keeps glancing at your lips, go for it. Another tip, someone willing to kiss you has no issues with personal space. Thus, if she ever backs away or moves away from you, don't bother. Taking your time with the move forward helps. The more you force it the more awkward it becomes if there is resistance. Yes, I just gave kissing advice. Who'd a thunk.