has there been any major event happened in your life which has changed it 4ever?

except for the one-sided love none. but then again yes this.

Nothing I can readily think of.

of course life does keep on changing as age wise, the rule of nature is to change ; "KRISHNA".

i meant to ask for a event, does not necessarily have to be a bad one. but i need an impact right now to change my thoughts from negative to positive ones, brave ones.

what wife? i do not remember mentioning the word wife, but what is life without a wife? i can hardly wait to marry, not only cause of this one-sided love but also cause i am already 28, this october i will be 29 and i know this for sure 30 even sounds like an old thing, i am scared of being old. then again i think old age would enter at the age of 40+ only, but then again there are heroes well over 40 not just in hollywood but also here who looks young, but yet then again it must be at the heavily costed cost of plastic surgery or heavily costed trainer, (personal one).

certainly a nice point, marriage will change life for anyone, wow marriage is so exciting that even thinking of being married give me both nervouness and excitement.

i noticed my mistake, i tend to type faster really, mistakes happen besides i am not a native English speaker, English was but only a subject at school.

There have been plenty of major events inside my wife, if you know what I mean.

Just kidding, I don't have a wife. I'm too young for one.

I'm not married yet. But I strongly suggest you change the topic title. wife and it shouldn't be in the same sentence.Maqda7

Dear god, theenglish on this site is getting worse and worse.

When I told my whole family (father, mother, brother, uncles, aunts, nephews and nieces) that I was gay (jan 1st 2000 at 12:30 AM). It was a huge liberation to me, it felt like I had taken of a mask and I could finally be who I really was.

no offense, but do you think that you are but a normal human being? really not liking girls does not necessarily mean liking boys is a must. sorry.

no offense, but do you think that you are but a normal human being? really not liking girls does not necessarily mean liking boys is a must. sorry.

youruser

Are you talking to me? I don't really get what you are trying to say.

never mind pal, heck if i was raised where nudity is a normal social thing, then i too might have abnormalism. i mean all that clubs and stuff are unbelievable, (as seen in movies not in real life)

never mind pal, heck if i was raised where nudity is a normal social thing, then i too might have abnormalism. i mean all that clubs and stuff are unbelievable, (as seen in movies not in real life)

youruser

Yeah it's a bit strange really, I personally never found homosexuality to be abnormal, neither did my family. And I live in a very liberal country, but still I felt the need to hide my homosexuality during puberty, probably because of insecurity. And there's still that social expectation pattern, that you'll get a girlfriend/wife and have children.

I waited until I was 19 to tell everybody, it was when I got a boyfriend that I wanted to tell it. I never felt the need to tell my parents 'hey you know what, I'm gay I mean, you're not going to tell your parents 'hey you know what, I'm straight' either do you? I told them I had a boyfriend and they were happy for me.

During puberty I had a lot of awkward moments (like everybody has, I know), like, everybody got a girlfriend at school eventually and I didn't. at parties, girls wanted to kiss with me, but I didn't want to. But I didn't want them to know I was homosexual, because I thought these people wouldn't be my friends anymore. Looking back it was really silly, because all of those people were (of course) very supportive, it was more me worrying about what other people might think. That was a valuable lesson, since I told it I know that social grouping and stigma's are just rubbish, nowadays I don't care what people think of me as long as doing what I do feels right to me. I'm not going to hide myself for other people.

That's why coming out of the closet was such a major event for me.

i am very sorry and thank you very much for not being angry, i am ashamed of myself, i literaly meant to insult westernism. honestly i must be out of my mind pal, forgoet what i said.

i guess i inside must be wishing to see nudity in a strip club, i am scared. darn those adult movies.

i am very sorry and thank you very much for not being angry, i am ashamed of myself, i literaly meant to insult westernism. honestly i must be out of my mind pal, forgoet what i said.

i guess i inside must be wishing to see nudity in a strip club, i am scared. darn those adult movies.

youruser

Haha, you're pretty random aren't you? Where do you live if I may ask?

as i said i am out of my mind, they say mood changes suddenly in depression, i must be at nervous breakdown. I am from India. do not worry my situation is improving.

I was in love once. But she died a few years ago. Life is never the same when you lose the person you love. It made me sort my life out and I'm appreciative I didn't lose it like I feared I was going to.