Have u suffered from depression and how do u cope with it??

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#1 AnalogOdyssey
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I take medicine it doesnt help alot but excerize does help... Was in college going back really stressful and hard... Have u sufferred from depression?? or anxiety???

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#2 X360PS3AMD05
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I think a third of the people here have.
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#3 Dylan_11
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No depression here.
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#4 Nifty_Shark
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I don't believe so. I have never been diagnosed or gone to a psychiatrist either though. I honestly don't know how you can tell if you are truly depressed or just sad for a period of time.
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#5 yourmajesty90
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I've got random depressions time to time, don't take anything as it's a short amount of time. I guess it's part of growing up.

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#6 lonewolf604
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i'm sad a lot but i don't know if its "clinical" depression
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#7 Solid_Tango
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I m depressed almost all the time, but tennis helps, running helps, never took any medicine tho.
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I honestly don't know how you can tell if you are truly depressed or just sad for a period of time.Nifty_Shark
it feels different it reminds me of a state absent of emotions, it's very different from feeling sad in and of itself
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#9 Lethargika
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I've had things happen to me that have caused depression for a period of time. The best thing I was able to do for myself was to keep my mind as busy as possible, while eating healthy, and exercising. Jogging helped immensily. My depression was triggered from something that I was going through at the time, so it might be a bit different from clinical depression, or a chemical imbalance type of depression. I've merely had a taste of depression, caused by a hard truth that I had to face head on. I got over it for the most part, but I can't imagine what real chronic depression is like. Noone should have to go through that. Best of luck to you. :(

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[QUOTE="Nifty_Shark"]I honestly don't know how you can tell if you are truly depressed or just sad for a period of time.BiancaDK
it feels different it reminds me of a state absent of emotions, it's very different from feeling sad in and of itself

So more like not really being aware instead of knowing the source of your frustration that can hinder your enjoyability for some time (several days) becuase it's in the back of your mind?

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#11 Shattered007
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I take medicine it doesnt help alot but excerize does help... Was in college going back really stressful and hard... Have u sufferred from depression?? or anxiety???

AnalogOdyssey

I was suicidal a few years back. I tried Lexapro and felt really bad on that stuff...Felt very self destrutive afterwards then I started doing MMA training... I feel much better now but if I don't go workout at least 4 times a week I feel depressed again.

EDIT: Also, due to me working out as hard as I do (and losing some tournaments) has made my self-esteem go up, plus losing the weight I gained (some from the Lexapro) hasn't hurt my self image too.

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#12 BiancaDK
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So more like not really being aware instead of knowing the source of your frustration that can hinder your enjoyability for some time (several days) becuase it's in the back of your mind?Nifty_Shark
i guess you could put it like that with a bit of good will. Although it really depends on what kind of depression you're dealing with and the magnitude of it, and in many cases -- what hour of the day it is. Light to moderate to severe, there are worlds of differences. The mentality of the conformed chronic patient to the anxiety ridden patient with angst, to the bipolars going from mania/pseudomania to full-blown depression, it's largely a case-by-case evaluation.
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Since I was 8 I've had some form of anxiety and depression, which seems to be getting more severe the older I get. In the past couple weeks I've been having panic attacks about one per hour or two (of the time I'm awake) because I'm exceptionally stressed out. All that really helps is being able to lose myself in something, and I have a short attention span when I'm stressed so you can imagine how that goes over. I have never and will never take any sort of medicine.
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#14 freek666
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No but I live in a constant state of melancholy apart from the occasional beam of awesomeness that shines on me.

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#15 Solid_Tango
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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]Since I was 8 I've had some form of anxiety and depression, which seems to be getting more severe the older I get. In the past couple weeks I've been having panic attacks about one per hour or two (of the time I'm awake) because I'm exceptionally stressed out. All that really helps is being able to lose myself in something, and I have a short attention span when I'm stressed so you can imagine how that goes over. I have never and will never take any sort of medicine.

Woah, why so young man? Take it easy, do you excercise? If not start doing it, it really helps.
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#16 BiancaDK
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I have never and will never take any sort of medicine.XilePrincess
Can I ask why?
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#17 Zerocrossings
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I used to have anxiety. I escaped from it, i stopped doing whatever is giving me stress. I didnt manage to adapt to the situation, i still feel regret for that sometimes.

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#18 Lanesasaur
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I have depression. Exercise does help, but I also take medication. I also find taking time out for myself helps too...because I have a lot of stress.

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#19 Michelle4003
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i'm not sure if it was actual depression or i was just REALLY sad but i may have had it for about 4 months in middle school 2 years ago. it was terrible i had a lot of problems at the time, i would cry at least once a day, everything felt pointless and i lost interest in all my hobbies at the time. music helped a little but basically i couldn't "fight" it. my mom suggested i take medication seeing how depressed i was but i didnt and eventually i just got over it. i wish i would have heard "fix you" by coldplay i only heard it a year ago and i think that song could have helped me a lot at the time.
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[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"] Woah, why so young man? Take it easy, do you excercise? If not start doing it, it really helps.

I think it was triggered by my dad almost dying in front of my eyes, twice. and then just repeatedly intensified after I started being constantly reminded I was unpopular and weird. I do some exercise, but meh. Most of the time I'm like "yes, I'll start exercising! it'll be great!" but then I have no motivation due to the depression, or anxiety of what others will think of me. Never-ending circle :P
[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]I have never and will never take any sort of medicine.BiancaDK
Can I ask why?

somebody I really care about tried to commit suicide while on antidepressants, I know I'd end up doing the same in a heartbeat, just having that kind of medication available to me would make me try it. and I'm a little uncomfortable putting substances in my body that change how I feel, but that of course is a secondary reason.
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#21 tekken220
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Usually, when I get depressed, I would do something to forget about it like playing a game or study for a lesson in school.
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#22 X360PS3AMD05
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Eh......idk if it's such a good idea to not exercise and not entertain the idea of taking a prescription :?
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#23 Vaasman
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I went through depression about a year ago. Basically I slept all day through my classes and then felt bad about skipping and failing them, like a downward spiral. One way I broke away from it, besides medication, was to get a job. Changing my daily routine of doing nothing really helped me feel better, though I had problems at work initially. Also don't keep anything bottled up. Even the craziest or angriest feelings should be told to someone. You may find it surprising when you're depressed, but people will notice it, and they will naturally want to talk and make you feel better. Don't be afraid to find support from people who would gladly give it to you because they care for you.

Also, you are awesome TC, don't ever think you aren't :D

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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]Since I was 8 I've had some form of anxiety and depression, which seems to be getting more severe the older I get. In the past couple weeks I've been having panic attacks about one per hour or two (of the time I'm awake) because I'm exceptionally stressed out. All that really helps is being able to lose myself in something, and I have a short attention span when I'm stressed so you can imagine how that goes over. I have never and will never take any sort of medicine.

me exactly...
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#25 TAMKFan
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If I get depressed, I might lay down and rest a little bit or something.
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#26 oldmanriver1
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Haven't suffered from clinical depression as far as I know. Usually in the case when I am feeling like crap I try to become as busy as possible to stop my mind wondering over my current dire situation. Sport in particular has been a really good distraction, and to a lesser extent, videogames.

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#27 Gaming-Planet
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All my life. I cope it by compressing it and being very saracastic. So please don't deepen my hole.

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#28 stevoqwerty
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I might have bipolar disorder where I could get sooo happy then immediately turn very depressed. Yes, I have suffer from depression countless of times, excercise and friends make ita little bit easier to cope with.

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#29 dracula_16
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I've had it for 5 years. Sleeping and venting here helps a bit.

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#30 Big_Bad_Sad
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I never have. Ive felt a bit down once or twice but thats it.
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#31 depend3ncy
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Depression is a lie, a direct result of not knowing what you are. Maybe you'l

realize that in your 70's, maybe not even then. I hope much sooner, for your sake.

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#32 XilePrincess
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Depression is a lie, a direct result of not knowing what you are. Maybe you'l

realize that in your 70's, maybe not even then. I hope much sooner, for your sake.

depend3ncy
...what?
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#33 supa_badman
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I've been sad for a period of time, never really anxious or depressed.

I'm too much of a relaxed guy. :)

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#34 deactivated-5ac102a4472fe
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Mhhh yeah... I have, due to my personality disorders, I have had a few depressions, meds did not really help against it all that well.

I found it that most people are able to get through a depression thier own way, so Ive yet to see 2 people giving the same reccomendations.

For me it helped to get the fudge out of society, head up into mountains in a cabin, and spend the days outside, where the feeling of isolation and the feeling of being alone, not having to live up to expectations everyone gave me, it started to go away (after nearly a month).

I guess it has something to do with why people get thier depressions, there are lots of ways to get one, chemical unballance, preassure, a mismatch with the rest of society and so on.

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#35 Witchsight
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I assume i am, because i know my life would be much happier if i got help... thats a pretty sure sign i figure.
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#36 yuuki88
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I have some solutions that people can treat depression with....from my personal experience.

I was extremely depressed because of this significant life-changing experience I've had that made me feel like I've lost everything that I've ever cherished.

I stayed in house for 1 week and never went outside of my room.... after that I began coping it by playing MMO such as WoW for several hours, neglecting

college classes and flunking them. However it was not a way to treat depression, it was a temporary relief that gets you hit with more severe depression.

First thing..

1) make an appointment with a psychatrist and talk to him/her. He/she will give you various options of prescription to try from. Eventually you'll fine the "one" that

works for you well

2) as people mentioned before, exercising helps a lot (esp. cardiovascular exercises).

3) eat healthy....don't go for sugary sweets such as cookies, no more junk food...eat healthy food with antioxidants. (eating healthy affects your mood greatly).

4) try to stay optimistic and believe in yourself. if it doesn't work well you'll have to trick your mind saying that you should believe in a karma (if bad things come,

good things always come along).... believe in yourself.

When you go through depression for certain amount of period...and trying your best to get out of it in realistic way as listed above, you'll rejoice.

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#37 deathtarget04
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I have depression. Yet having a smoke once in awhile helps alot.

And friends too :)

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#38 Michelle4003
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[QUOTE="depend3ncy"]

Depression is a lie, a direct result of not knowing what you are. Maybe you'l

realize that in your 70's, maybe not even then. I hope much sooner, for your sake.

are you posting stuff like this on purpose to get attention? i thought u might be a troll after you wrote you think disabled people shouldn't go to regular peoples proms because they are diffrent and dancing with them would be boring, and now this post.. are you writing stuff like this for attention?
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#39 chrisrooR
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I don't believe so. I have never been diagnosed or gone to a psychiatrist either though. I honestly don't know how you can tell if you are truly depressed or just sad for a period of time.Nifty_Shark
Clinical depression is more than just sadness, it's a complete loss of interest in what used to be fun for the individual. It affects work, school, family life, as well as sleep schedules and eating. It's far more than just being sad for an extended period of time.
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#40 chrisrooR
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Depression is a lie, a direct result of not knowing what you are. Maybe you'l

realize that in your 70's, maybe not even then. I hope much sooner, for your sake.

depend3ncy

Riiiight, even though it's proven that depression is attributed to chemical imbalances within the brain.

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I think I do now, & I Smoke alot of ciggys, Drink alot of Wine, Smoke alot of pot, Listen to alot of music, And Hang out with alot of people. NOthing works but pot

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#42 needled24-7
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i once thought i had mono for an entire year. it turned out i was just really bored.

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#43 xhellcatx
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Yep. I get depressed rather often, however, i do not take medication for it. nor will i ever. I deal with it. I just catch myself starting to feel it or think i am, and kick my own bum out of it. Literally, I catch myself that way and i say to myself really loudly in my head like im yellin at myself 'look, snap out of it, your better then this and you can get through it' ..... ive had a lot of practice in getting myself through tough situations. (emotional)
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I listen to music, and reassure myself that everything will be fine in time. It gets to the point where after being constantly depressed for years, it's harder to pay attention to and becomes routine. A crappy routine feeling, but routine nonetheless.
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#45 shemrom
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I can get so mad, that i can become very depress from it.

I usullsy justeata lot, and run away from my problems

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#46 Franklinstein
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I have, still am sort of, but the best thing to do is just get up and do something, it's amazing how depression is so self-powering, it makes you not want to do anything, and then the feelings of depression get even stronger because you haven't done anything. It makes you want to eat, and then you get even more depressed because you've eaten and not done any physical activity. Like I said, the best cure is to just force yourself against all odds to go do something, anything(except for things like smoking and drinking, because although they do sometimes offer relief from the stresses, in the long run they will induce more depression and stress).
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Unfortunately, there is no silver bullet. A combination of approaches work best. First, you would have to distinguish whether or not you are sad or depressed (as in the clinical sense). Sadness and depression for that matter arise from stressors in your life, so you would have to evaluate any recent events and how much of an impact they might have had on you. Sadness will go away with time. Some strategies to "get out of the rut" is to talk to someone you trust first. Sadness is a natural reaction to many events so you can't "skip through it" or bypass it.

As for clinical depression (you would have to see a professional to get properly diagnosed), the best strategy is medication and therapy. The medication aspect of the treatment requires quite a bit of patience since you and your doctor need to find the right medication and dosage to help you. Additionally, the medication is far from "fast relief" and could take up to a month to kick in. Hopefully, you will reach a point where you just need a doctor for medication management, but in the beginning therapy in its many forms is invaluable. For depression, I think cognitive behavior therapy is very effective as you learn to identify and combat thoughts and behavior, such as negative self-talk (very common), which feed the depression.

Lastly, to remain healthy, you need to make lifestyle changes. Many have found that eating right, exercising, and getting enough sleep help with depression and induce an overall more euphoric mood.

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I listen to music, and reassure myself that everything will be fine in time. It gets to the point where after being constantly depressed for years, it's harder to pay attention to and becomes routine. A crappy routine feeling, but routine nonetheless.Lockedge
I hear that. I was depressed for like a year straight, and started a horrible cycle of smoking pot and drinking. The pot.. I thought it helped, but really, what it did instead, was make me crave it more and more cause I THOUGHT that I needed it to feel good and feel happy and feel normal. It was false normality though. I just had to really keep track of my emotions, my actions, and what is normal for me, and what is depressed for me. It sometimes takes a while to catch... but when I figure it out, I pull my head out my bum and give myself a slap across the face and wake myself up. I know where my depression stems from... never talked to a psycho, cause I really dont need to, since i already know where the source comes from. I wont take meds. Refuse to. It can really suck not catching it right away tho.
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#49 Franklinstein
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Yep. I get depressed rather often, however, i do not take medication for it. nor will i ever. I deal with it. I just catch myself starting to feel it or think i am, and kick my own bum out of it. Literally, I catch myself that way and i say to myself really loudly in my head like im yellin at myself 'look, snap out of it, your better then this and you can get through it' ..... ive had a lot of practice in getting myself through tough situations. (emotional)xhellcatx
Yeah, I am also afraid of medicine. Not just depression medicine though, I will never take medicine that I do not know exactly what it is doing to my body , and the side effects, and if I believe that I will survive without it, i won't take it either.
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#50 Franklinstein
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Oh, I forgot, something else that really truly helps, and is also one of the hardest things to do, is to tell someone. Telling gamespotters is good, but the best is if you tell a close relative or loved one, and let them help you, don't be too proud to ask for or receive help.