Have you ever been stalked?

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#1 ff-leader
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When i was young i was stalked by a man, i managed to escape on my bike. Years later im here today, i was at work and looked up and the guy was there, we both looked at eachother, and it looks like he remembers me also. Since then he has spent hours walking around the shop, looking at me mumbling at me, i have seen a car while i was walking home going up and down the road, with the same registration number. Now as i walk home, her has started walking up the other side of the road with another man, strangely this other man comes into the store around an hour before i leave, then i see them both walking up back towards the store. Strangely as they walk up the car which was going up and down was nowhere to be seen. I do not know what they are planning, but it could be possible kidnapping, why else would they stalk me?.

They seem like amateurs because i have caught them out, they probabaly dont think i realise but i have always been a good observer. From this point i have seen 3 other people with the stalker. If they do strike, then i will fight to the death

This is really annoying me. What do you think their purpose is?, they seem to be trying to find out what time i leave and go to work, where i live so it seems, what can i do about it?, what do you think they are planning?. My theory is they are waiting for an opening to kidnap me. Have you ever been in this situation?, advice would be greatly appreciated.

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#2 i-like-pie
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Keep a knife in your pocket. Go to a crowded area your familiar with(I assume he will follow you). And ask him why he would follow you.

And yes I've been stalked by a hobo. He wanted money.

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#3 Fandangle
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What you need to do is make a police report - it will come in handy if you need to defend yourself in the future. Lets say you have to stab the guy in defence you will be arrested, and saying he was stalking you after the fact will not hold much credibility.

Also get friends to meet you at work so they get to see this person so if something does happen the cops have a face to look for.

Change your routine, walk a different way, see if he follows - start going one direction then stop and walk back see what he does.

Get his pic either you do it or get a friend to.

Don't walk and listen to music be aware of your surrounds.

Get some hard hitting mates together and confront the guy.

And no I have never been stalked.

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#4 jjr10
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No i haven't.

Oh..i can't be much help. All i can do is say that you should go to the police and say something...

or try to be with someone all the time.

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#5 The_Ish
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Dude why did you run away from me? All I wanted was to talk. :(

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#6 Scarface389
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Dude why did you run away from me? All I wanted was to talk. :(

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#7 zoe256
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A guy used who used to like me 'stalked' me. He'd always try to talk to me at school, try to sit near me, ring my phone in the middle of the night then hang up. God, that was a bit of a nightmare! But I've never been properly stalked.
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#8 Guiltfeeder566
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Get some mace or a stun gun. Knife too.
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#9 Big_Bad_Sad
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I wish I could get that kind of attention.
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#10 uncledeath2005
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Yes...all the time.
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#11 moptopskate
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I work at a department store and I saw this one guy who looked about in his middle 30's and there was obviously something wrong with him. I was collecting karts and he came up and started talking to me. He asked me my name twice and shook my hand and started collecting some karts for me. The next day I saw him walking through each aisle as if he was looking for someone. When he saw me he stopped and tried to start some small talk with me by saying "They got you working hard huh?" I gave him a somewhat dirty look and carelessly answered yeah. I think he got the picture that I didnt want to talk to him and he walked away. I havent seen him since.
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#12 Ghelga
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I work at a department store and I saw this one guy who looked about in his middle 30's and there was obviously something wrong with him. I was collecting karts and he came up and started talking to me. He asked me my name twice and shook my hand and started collecting some karts for me. The next day I saw him walking through each aisle as if he was looking for someone. When he saw me he stopped and tried to start some small talk with me by saying "They got you working hard huh?" I gave him a somewhat dirty look and carelessly answered yeah. I think he got the picture that I didnt want to talk to him and he walked away. I havent seen him since. moptopskate

This is a reason I love working graveyard shift = hardly many customers. I dislike customers. :x

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#13 Spartan_385
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I am at the moment....in a way, I plan on dealing with the problem violently.
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#14 SolidSnake35
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There is this one weird guy who comes into the store I work at. He always comes to talk to me, asking pointless questions and telling me random stuff. He even rings the store to do the same thing. I don't know what to make of it.
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#15 Blaze787
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A South Park episode comes to mind. The one where Cartman visits an internet chatroom called, "Men who like young boys".
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#16 Brainkiller05
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Aren't you the guy who said your brother was kidnapped and another time you were being followed by undercover FBI agents (including an old woman)???
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#17 Euphoric_Rider
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I was being stalked stalked by this girl at some point. Turns out she just wanted to know me better but was too scared to engage conversation. I talked to her and she stopped, although it was really awkward.
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#18 -hotaru-
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Only once, and it was a one-night thing I suppose (and I hope).
Was walking home from the store when this older man pulled over in his car and was said: Hey, you look like this guy I know. Wanna ride home?

Never met the guy in my life, so I declined it. It was about -25C, but I could handle it. So again I'm walking home, and I recognized the vehicle again pass me a number of times. Finally I'm on my street home a car pulled up to me, and it was the same guy. He said: Come on, if you're around town think you can show me around the gay community?

At this point I'm like, OMG, this guy is totally gonna drug me and rape me.
So I decline again, and he drives off. I hide in an alley when I see the car again, then I ran home into my apartments from the back entrance. Closed all the curtains and padlocked the door.
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#19 LJS9502_basic
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As far as I know....only on here.
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#20 horgen  Moderator
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Nope I have never been stalked.
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#21 Wetall_basic
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I'm not stalk-worthy. Awww,sad.
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#22 astor47
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Well, when I was a child some sick bastard tried to kidnap me, the old guy was calling me other name and insisted to go home, I started crying like a girl and the guy had to escape.
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#23 jimhogg
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When i was young i was stalked by a man, i managed to escape on my bike. Years later im here today, i was at work and looked up and the guy was there, we both looked at eachother, and it looks like he remembers me also. Since then he has spent hours walking around the shop, looking at me mumbling at me, i have seen a car while i was walking home going up and down the road, with the same registration number. Now as i walk home, her has started walking up the other side of the road with another man, strangely this other man comes into the store around an hour before i leave, then i see them both walking up back towards the store. Strangely as they walk up the car which was going up and down was nowhere to be seen. I do not know what they are planning, but it could be possible kidnapping, why else would they stalk me?.

They seem like amateurs because i have caught them out, they probabaly dont think i realise but i have always been a good observer. From this point i have seen 3 other people with the stalker. If they do strike, then i will fight to the death

This is really annoying me. What do you think their purpose is?, they seem to be trying to find out what time i leave and go to work, where i live so it seems, what can i do about it?, what do you think they are planning?. My theory is they are waiting for an opening to kidnap me. Have you ever been in this situation?, advice would be greatly appreciated.

ff-leader

umm call the cops...

restraining order maybe?

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#24 chazer127
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yes the girls stalk me all the time *shot*

seriously? no, If someone stalks you take a picture of him or walk with friends

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#25 DJ_Lae
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I was stalked by a girl in high school, which was cute for a while, then mildly amusing, and then all of a sudden it turned into pure bone-chilling terror. She'd follow me around, be waiting at my locker between classes and during lunch break, and would skulk behind fences and peer out at me on my way to school in the mornings before ambushing me in a flurry of lips and hands and exposed female body parts.

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#26 Napster06
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I'm not sure. I don't think so. I always check my back every few often
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#27 Alter_Echo
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No.
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#28 foxhound_fox
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No. But I do wish that I did have a female stalker.
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#29 Quadrifoglio
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No. But I do wish that I did have a female stalker.foxhound_fox

Me too.

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#30 Kikouken
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I have. I was stalked by some asian guy that used to hang around my area. I'd be going to my friends place and he'd be just down the street trying to see where I was going. Once it got so bad that he actually rang my doorbell and asked my dad if he could talk to me. But he got my dads bad side, so he pretended to call the cops and after that I haven't seen him since. If I do though, he's getting a knee in the nuts.
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#31 slorg_king
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I was stalked by a girl last year..... She was ugly....... And scary.............. >________>
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#32 Big_Bad_Sad
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I was stalked by a girl last year..... She was ugly....... And scary.............. >________>slorg_king
Beggars cant be choosers.