Have you ever been stood up?

I've only dated 2 girls, and they haven't stood me up, but I'm just wondering because, I'm pretty sure after like 10 minutes, I would call the person, and if they don't answer I'm out of there.

So... If you have been stood up, what does it feel like, I imagine it would suck pretty bad, and how long did you wait.

Also, why would people even stand people up, that's so much worse then actually saying NO to a date, or cancelling. I think. I mean, unless they just wanted to hurt you, that's pretty low. If I ever get stood up, I'd be PO'd.

Nah i spend most my time sitting/lying down. Can get up by myself though

I've never been stood up but I've had lame excuses fly my way...michael_1234576

I was stood up close to an hour by my ex on our second or third date. I sent a message "Got sick of waiting and have gone home. Have fun." She called me back about thirty seconds later and pretty much ran to be there within minutes. I think a lot of girls do want to test how far they can stretch a chap, and that it's really important to nip that in the bud.jimmyjammer69

Wow, you have patience, and she sounds like a big... seriously what's wrong with people. How come you didn't call her like after 20 minutes.

Can we hear some. I'd rather hear the truth, and they just say no, then to hear some stupid excuse.

gotdangit

[QUOTE="jimmyjammer69"]I was stood up close to an hour by my ex on our second or third date. I sent a message "Got sick of waiting and have gone home. Have fun." She called me back about thirty seconds later and pretty much ran to be there within minutes. I think a lot of girls do want to test how far they can stretch a chap, and that it's really important to nip that in the bud.gotdangit

Wow, you have patience, and she sounds like a big... seriously what's wrong with people. How come you didn't call her like after 20 minutes.

Not that I can recall.

Not by a girl, but I've gone to places expecting to meet some of the guys and they never showed.

well,i don't date anyone because i can't take the risk of getting stood up.

No and only been turned down one I am good looking so I have power over girls.

I have been stood up before.:cry:CMFreezy

Yup, but not in the traditional sense.

Basically this girl I was interested in and I had arranged that we would go out the next day for lunch and then see a movie. She stated that she had some errands to take care of in the morning but she would definitely be down for doing something afterwards. When I talked to her, she looked sincere and eager about the event. She said she would finish her errands by 10am at the latest and would call me afterwards to meet up. Come 10am the next day I'm waiting patiently for her call, nothing comes. An hour goes by before I decide I better contact her, I don't want to be too intrusive in case shes still busy so I just send a simple text message asking if she got held up. 5, 10, 15, 20 mins go by and no response. I wait a full hour till 12 oclock before I send her another simple message just asking her if she ran into any problems and asking if we should reschedule. Same thing no response whatsoever. Finally by 1 oclock I decide I should just call her; the phone rings twice before I'm directed to voicemail. I took that as an immediate cue that she was ignoring me. I gave up at that point and just made myself lunch.

A couple hours later she sends me a text saying, "sorry I forgot". I was really dissapointed because theres no way that could be true. We arranged this plan the night before and I had continuously tried to get in touch with her to no avail. I'd rather she flat out said no than just made me wait there thinking we were going to do something.

The worst part is, I was friends with this girl prior to asking her out so I trusted her quite a bit. I really liked her and delluded myself into thinking it was an honest mistake. I got a whole bunch more maybes(aka no but I don't want to hurt your feelings) and I ended up wasting a year chasing after her.

Gosh, so what's up with girls, they do this on purpose.

Evil Evil girls. I wonder if many guys stand girls up.

Not quite, though I did end up having to wait 30 minutues or so for my date who happened to be running late. She showed up finally but it took her long enough lol

Nope. But back when I was in high school I stood a girl up because she **** up my relationship with my ex. Sweet sweet revenge.

Never been stood up, but on valentines day I went on a really awkward date with a girl who showed every intention of going out with me previously but as I found out later apparently changed her mind in the days leading up to the date. Right at the start of the date she told me how ****faced she got the other night, and how she made out with some foreign dude. Its like, if you're not into me, please tell me, I won't take offense to it, but don't turn a date which I've been looking forward too into an awkward mess once its begun, because that makes you look like a **** and it makes me feel like a loser. :?.

That's why you don't go on dates where you aren't picking the girl up at her house. That way, worst comes to worst, she just doesn't answer the door and you just go home.

That's why you don't go on dates where you aren't picking the girl up at her house. That way, worst comes to worst, she just doesn't answer the door and you just go home.

Pirate700

It's even more effective to just club them over the head and drag them back to your cave.

Gosh, so what's up with girls, they do this on purpose.

Evil Evil girls. I wonder if many guys stand girls up.

gotdangit

Do you know what a question mark is?

Gosh, so what's up with girls, they do this on purpose.

Evil Evil girls. I wonder if many guys stand girls up.

gotdangit

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Gosh, so what's up with girls, they do this on purpose.

Evil Evil girls. I wonder if many guys stand girls up.

Overlord93

[QUOTE="Overlord93"][QUOTE="gotdangit"]

Gosh, so what's up with girls, they do this on purpose.

Evil Evil girls. I wonder if many guys stand girls up.

jamejame

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[QUOTE="Overlord93"]Some Phycologists suggest there is something in the nature of girls which gives them pleasure inflicting emotional pain in ways such as this. It is noticed even at infancy.Overlord93

Just look at the number of countless victims in this topic. Depressing.

What a sick world!

Why would getting stood up make you so upset? Wouldn't you rather be stood up than carry things on for a while with a girl that's not into you?MichBelle

Why would getting stood up make you so upset? Wouldn't you rather be stood up than carry things on for a while with a girl that's not into you?MichBelle

Once. But she called a few hours later explaining the situation. She got together with her old boyfriend. I was quite bitter after that. mrmusicman247

That sucks. I've never been stood up, but more than once I've seen girls I had the intention to ask out get other dates because I wasn't fast enough. It's a terrible thing to happen, specially if it's a girl you've been meaning to talk to for a while.

No, I haven't. Of course I haven't been put in many situations to even be stood up, so yeah.