Have you ever caught on to girls saying this when their giving a guy dating advi

ok, so a shy "nice" guy goes into a forum wondering why the "tough" guys get all the girls.

Then the women come in and and start telling the dude to just be himself. That they (women) like confidence, and a nice guy but not a pushover, and how they really hate **** holes. Then they'll start telling him about the nice guys they DATED.

They'll say things like "I once DATED a guy just like you, he was so sweet." or " Two years ago I DATED a really great guy, we had so much fun together.

You've prolly caught on by now. They "dated" these really "awsome" nice guys. Why exactly aren't they with them now?:|

The answer is quite simple my friend. They are woman, and if we try and understand them then our heads will explode.Ragnarok1051

Too true.

You wanna know why they never stay with a nice guy. It's because they can't change them for the better. They date the guys who probably only want them for superficial reasons, because they feel that it's better if they change them. I speak from experience because the only guy who my mom managed to stay with is my dad and thats because she made him change so much.

It's control man women are trying to take over the world :o

[QUOTE="Ragnarok1051"]The answer is quite simple my friend. They are woman, and if we try and understand them then our heads will explode.Insane00

Too true.

Damn straight!

You wanna know why they never stay with a nice guy. It's because they can't change them for the better. They date the guys who probably only want them for superficial reasons, because they feel that it's better if they change them. I speak from experience because the only guy who my mom managed to stay with is my dad and thats because she made him change so much.

It's control man women are trying to take over the world :o

blackldragon

A lot of women are like that. I dated one for many years...

Now I'm with somebody who doesn't try to change anything about me. It's heaven by comparison.

lol. I can't say I've ever thought about that before.

im going witht he general consensus of "there women.. just give up trying to understand them"

but maybe its the girl who screwed the "nice guy" over? so they ended there relationship?

She saw Gamespots Off-Topic on my computer, then next thing I knew my door slammed shut and she was gone. Thats what happen when I was being nice guy. And now you know and knowing is half the battle! GI JOE!

You wanna know why they never stay with a nice guy. It's because they can't change them for the better. They date the guys who probably only want them for superficial reasons, because they feel that it's better if they change them. I speak from experience because the only guy who my mom managed to stay with is my dad and thats because she made him change so much.

It's control man women are trying to take over the world :o

blackldragon

Yeah that's pretty accurate of most women.

ok, so a shy "nice" guy goes into a forum wondering why the "tough" guys get all the girls.

Then the women come in and and start telling the dude to just be himself. That they (women) like confidence, and a nice guy but not a pushover, and how they really hate **** holes. Then they'll start telling him about the nice guys they DATED.

They'll say things like "I once DATED a guy just like you, he was so sweet." or " Two years ago I DATED a really great guy, we had so much fun together.

You've prolly caught on by now. They "dated" these really "awsome" nice guys. Why exactly aren't they with them now?:|

manic626

Have you dated a lot?

Not trying to brag, but I've been through a good amount of relationships (I'm 27) and the reason for breaking up is different every time.

But yes, if you're too nice, then the girl just isn't going to stay around.

[QUOTE="manic626"]

ok, so a shy "nice" guy goes into a forum wondering why the "tough" guys get all the girls.

Then the women come in and and start telling the dude to just be himself. That they (women) like confidence, and a nice guy but not a pushover, and how they really hate **** holes. Then they'll start telling him about the nice guys they DATED.

They'll say things like "I once DATED a guy just like you, he was so sweet." or " Two years ago I DATED a really great guy, we had so much fun together.

You've prolly caught on by now. They "dated" these really "awsome" nice guys. Why exactly aren't they with them now?:|

LosDaddie

Have you dated a lot?

Not trying to brag, but I've been through a good amount of relationships (I'm 27) and the reason for breaking up is different every time.

But yes, if you're too nice, then the girl just isn't going to stay around.

Btw what are some of your reasons for breaking up?

The answer is quite simple my friend. They are woman, and if we try and understand them then our heads will explode.Ragnarok1051

i agree, alot of them say, oh i want a nice guy, when they finally do have a nice guy they treat the nice guy like crap

You wanna know why they never stay with a nice guy. It's because they can't change them for the better. They date the guys who probably only want them for superficial reasons, because they feel that it's better if they change them. I speak from experience because the only guy who my mom managed to stay with is my dad and thats because she made him change so much.

It's control man women are trying to take over the world :o

blackldragon

[QUOTE="LosDaddie"][QUOTE="manic626"]

ok, so a shy "nice" guy goes into a forum wondering why the "tough" guys get all the girls.

Then the women come in and and start telling the dude to just be himself. That they (women) like confidence, and a nice guy but not a pushover, and how they really hate **** holes. Then they'll start telling him about the nice guys they DATED.

They'll say things like "I once DATED a guy just like you, he was so sweet." or " Two years ago I DATED a really great guy, we had so much fun together.

You've prolly caught on by now. They "dated" these really "awsome" nice guys. Why exactly aren't they with them now?:|

manic626

Have you dated a lot?

Not trying to brag, but I've been through a good amount of relationships (I'm 27) and the reason for breaking up is different every time.

But yes, if you're too nice, then the girl just isn't going to stay around.

Btw what are some of your reasons for breaking up?

Various reasons:

• Moving
• Job in a another state
• Cheating (I didn't want to tied down in college)
• Relationship got boring / Wanted something new

I went through a good amount of GFs (loose term) while in college. I don't even consider some of them ex-GFs.....more like ex-Fun Girl For A Month

One that enjoys and loves her family. One that spends time with her and doesn't blow her off for a WoW raid. Hessien

I've found this to be very true for women in their late 20s.

On the subject of woman getting with guys to change them, the main issue is it seems they don't what things that are reasonable to change in guys.

As a guy I find myself gravitating toward girls who have issues so I can help them overcome them. I don't want to change them as a person per say, but help them get rid of some of their demons and feel like themselves again.

Problem is woman try to change things like a guy being a "jerk" or as I have witnessed an alcoholic or druggie. This isn't a reasonable thing to do as it either involves changin the person themselves or fighting a most likely losing battle.